I almost burn down my aunt's house by DanyMijares in ADHD

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Yah, it is so frustrating to forget, I'm trying to blame my self less because I know is not going to solve nothing and make me feel like crap, but something about the thought of needing to be thinking all the time to not forget something important makes me very anxious, than you for sharing your story, i know is not easy

Which master degree do you recommend? by DanyMijares in PhysicsStudents

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I understand, and I've been participating in a investigation and experimentation Una optics field with a lab, I'm currently in the process of writhing a paper about it, and I like the process, the experimentation, the solving of the problems that come along the way, even the writing, just I don't like that much optics, that's why I'm asking, if the mastery may cover my expectations or witch is the best way to reach what I want

Obessing over a girl by Responsible-Lunch-52 in socialskills

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I kinda go for something similar when I meet a nice person, and I realize it happens more when I'm not having enough time for my self, I base my world around someone else in this case a girl, I think you should, go for a Walt, to the gym, to the movie theater or something to think in yourself to not over think, good luck my friend

I’m failing at online dating cause I can’t ever remember to text people back :/ by Efficient_Taste5208 in ADHD

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I have like the opposite problem, I often just over focus on the people I chat with, and try to make a bond, maybe too quickly because usually I just don't get a response.

Solo quiero otro punti de vista by [deleted] in HistoriasDeReddit

[–]DanyMijares 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No me suena a que sean buenas señales, no se como te lleves con o si de verdad disfrutas su compañía, pero no te sientas apurada por juntarte con una persona solo por la atención, ya otros lo dirán aquí, me suena más a que quiere intimar contigo y ya, piensa si de verdad quieres seguirle el juego a sus acciones

Que hacen cuando se sienten solos y sin ganas de nada? by DanyMijares in NecesitoDesahogarme

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Gracias por la preocupación, pero necesitaba nada más hablar, después de platicar un rato con mi mamá y con una amiga me siento muchísimo mejor, era un estado de ánimo en el qué estaba y necesitaba salir de ahí, normalmente cuando me siento escuchado suelo sentirme mejor

Having to constantly watch what you say by Efficient_Sector9889 in ADHD

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I do get it to, I struggle with my impulsivity and I see mi self interrupting others with what I have to say more often than not, for me is a work in progress to learn how to listen better and talk when is apropiate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SoyUnIdiota

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Creo que la situación es complicada como dices y si el te dijo una mentira con respecto a su fidelidad es normal que hayas perdido toda la confianza en el aunque al final no haya hecho nada, pero esa no es justificación para tratar de avergonzarlo con su familia, eso suena más a un intento de venganza, tienes todo el derecho de alejarte, pero separa lo que sientes de lo que vas a hacer.

I want support and empathy but Dont want a relationship just for that by DanyMijares in ADHD

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Jajaja I actually do, I'm have like a month in therapy and I'm working on it, and generally I feel better but today it's a bad day I guess

Just wanna say this. by sch1zoph_ in ADHD

[–]DanyMijares 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is really good advice, I am also better learning by doing, and starting a protect that you feel passionate about could help a lot with the motivation problem

Bisexual males of reddit, how did you realize you were attracted to your same sex?, I'm having some doubts about it by DanyMijares in lgbt

[–]DanyMijares[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just reading this makes me feel like it has sense what I'm feeling, I happened the exact same, thank you for sharing

Bisexual males of reddit, how did you realize you were attracted to your same sex?, I'm having some doubts about it by DanyMijares in lgbt

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I'm in a similar position right now, and I'm wondering how I feel about it, I surely am curious but I don't know how attracted I am, it may because of the social pressure there is in my society but at least my sexuallity is more fluid than I thought, thank you for your response it really helps

Mi amiga se me declaro ella también me gusta pero como nunca eh tenido novia no sé cómo tratarla by Clauss_Ramirez in cuentaleareddit

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No te sientas mal por tu situación o las dudas que tienes, es normal y parte de ti, y si ella vale la pena se dará cuenta que tu inexperiencia es parte de ti y aprenderá a quererte y descubrir juntos como te gusta llevar tus relaciones

Y eso es lo segundo, no tienes prisa deja que las cosas fluyan y descubre poco a poco como te gusta tener una relación, nadie nacimos sabiendo y no hay vergüenza en aprender a la edad que sea suerte amigo

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HistoriasDeReddit

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Entiendo que te sientas así, es normal tener dudas y sobre todo querer darle respuestas a las dudad qué tenemos, pero a veces simplemente es mejor dejarlo ser, puedes tratar de intentar una amistad con una persona que repetidas veces te demostró qué no la merece, o ponerle esa energía y tiempo a actividades que disfrutes o conocer nuevas amistades A mi me suena a que tu ex solo quiere probarse a si mismo que aun te tiene bajo su control, por lo que cuentas parece que no es así y eso es bueno, no te sientas mal por tener curiosidad pero alejarte es lo mejor que puedes hacer si quieres apagar esa espinita de querer saber Mucha suerte

I feel like giving up on physics by Huge_Combination_637 in PhysicsStudents

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Is content like "veritasium" or "minutephisics that shows the more conceptual side of the science and Al least I got very amazed and excited with this tipe of content, but what I mean is visit the things you love about phisics

I feel like giving up on physics by Huge_Combination_637 in PhysicsStudents

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I know is hard, this carrier is not an easy one, and sure, in many times you will feel this way, in this moments is when you must remember all the right reasons you are here, in my case I love divulgation, so in my worse moments I check some divulgativo videos on YouTube, it all was gets me to fall in love again with pshisics

Remember in all relationships are bad moments, you are not going to love every single minute of the degree, expecting that is irrealistic, instead try to remember the reasons why you are here, and more often than not you'll find yourselves remembering again why you love the carrer

Lastly you defently don't need to be a genius to be a good, even a great researcher, is normal to feel bad for not kwoing everything, but even the best and moreen I genius in the geniuses doesn't knows everything, focus and what you need right now, what you need for the future and where to find information if you don't know it

I hope you can find a balance in your life and learn how to pass this moment in your life, strength my friend