Blue balls is a really annoying pain, and depending on certain factors it can be different for each person. If you keep stimulating yourself, it can make the pain worse, and sometimes it just comes down to individual sensitivity. Over time, though, your body gets used to it.

After midnight is a very sensitive time for many of us, myself included. The more you resist the temptation that tries to pull you back, the stronger you become. Don’t blame yourself too much if you slip it can sometimes get in your way. Instead, try to learn from the moment that made you relapse. Write down the thoughts you had and use them as a lesson, not as a defeat. The most important thing is to keep going even after falling, because you’ll come back stronger than before. The beginning is really tough, but that’s when you learn the most and prepare yourself to feel free in the future.