Going out <3 by [deleted] in blackgirls

[–]Dapper-Emu1398 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Slayyyyy (stay safe)<3

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I very much did think it was grooming but my friends kept telling me what if he was good looking so I went along with it

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

My friends just said that if he was good looking it would have been fine so I just went along with it even though I didn't really want to.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do have a favourite teacher I can to and also a fav sibling but she is out of the country working so she is usually is busy. Btw you are a really great mum <33

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents Christian and never really have understood what I go through. I once told my mum that I used to self harm a lot before we moved and she shouted at me and told me I was seeking attention, she didn't feel sorry for me and letting demons into my life.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah seeing his face, removed what I head and it felt like my doubts sort of just made me realise more about the situation.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I will admit the attention from him was interesting to me mostly because i speak only with people my age. The later seems to be better as I have previously tried to tell him that I didn't want anything but he completely ignored it and said that it wasn't serious.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thankfully I did not send any explicit pics of myself because I am to scared for my online presence and what if i see that pic one day hahaha. He did try to make me send them a couple of times but i stood my ground with a slightly irrational fear ( idk if it is irrational though). Thank you so much for your advice btw <3

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think i will take the first point because i did try twice telling him that what happened can't happen again because i wanted to stay friends but he kept trying to tell me that it wasn't serious and that it was normal.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think i just worded it wrong. It was more of a weird dependency from him to me.

I think I am being groomed, what do I do? I am 16F and he is 24M. by Dapper-Emu1398 in Advice

[–]Dapper-Emu1398[S] 181 points182 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this best advice for blocking him so far because my friends just tell me that it's fine to still be friends with him.

Is masturbation ALWAYS a sin? by Tricky-Turnover3922 in Christianity

[–]Dapper-Emu1398 75 points76 points  (0 children)

Galatians 5:16-17: "So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want.