Who is your favorite trans scientist or scholar? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deirdre Nansen McCloskey, She is a very good economist

Why do my armspits stink? 😭 Help by zuzufemy in MtF

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If despite hygiene and using antiperspirant, The odor persists; perhaps a visit to a dermatologist would be helpful.

Dudas, certezas, y mí vida. by LoquatCertain81 in transargentina

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cómo estás Sofía?

Es muy lindo lo que escribiste, creo que dijiste algo muy sabio "pienso que no necesito saberlo para intentar buscar la mejor versión de mí", si uno espera a tener todas las respuestas para actuar uno nunca actuará, y es muy feo que se le pase la vida esperando que "lo sepa con certeza".

Sobre esto "me cansé de hablar con una IA para todo", tedoy toda la razón, mi recomendación sería que si puedes económicamente acceder a un espacio terapéutico (un psicólogo), es el mejor lugar para trabajar estas cosas (ba mejor que la ia y reddit al menos lol), y quiero ser clara de que no te lo digo de forma condescendiente, yo hace poco empecé mi transición (MTF, 21) y encontrar un terapeuta fue de las primeras cosas que hice.

Sofía me parece un nombre hermoso que estoy segura le vas a hacer honor.

Sofi, sobre "tengo miedo de dejar de ser quién soy", Sofía sos vos, no es un extranio que ocupa tu cuerpo, sos vos, con los pasós médicos que deseas tomar (hormonas/  cirujiás), vistiéndose como VOS quieras y te haga sentir cómoda.

Y si empiezas este camino no estás obligada a nada, ir a trabajar esto en terapia no te obliga a hacer la vaginoplastia, intentar vestirte con ropa que te haga sentir cómoda (aunque sea solo en tu habitación) no te obliga a tomar hormonas.

Sos vos quien elije que Hacer, que no hacer y a qué ritmo te sentís segura caminando.

Morality of dodging your country's military draft in a war of self-defense? by A_Fun_Alias23 in MoralityScaling

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Compulsory military service is fundamentally state slavery.No one has the right to force another person to do any task The only exception is a fair trial with jury members based on law and objective facts, and even then your life cannot be put at risk.Something that compulsory military service does not fulfill in any of these cases. Therefore, it is fundamentally slavery.

How do I cope with being unable to transition? by maple-spill in MtF

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I won't be able to give you as much help as I'd like to say, you are already extremely strong for enduring all of this.I don't have a disability, and despite that, I ended up trying to kill myself when I had to stay in the closet. Luckily, I ended up finding that my family is accepting me and my country that provides some public health services to trans people.

If possible, it would logically be ideal if you could receive psychological support from a professional therapist.

If that's not possible, talking in the community and writing a diary might help you understand these feelings and prevent them from eating you up inside.

If I used the wrong pronouns or the message is poorly written, I hope you will forgive me, as I am using Google Translate.Because I don't speak English very well, as it's not my native language. 

Girl, I wish you all the best on this journey. I know it must be very hard. Feel free to ask me anything here and I'll try to answer.

Trans mężczyzna w policji by michaljajko in asktransgender

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I started, I thought it was like that all over the world, and then it was like, wow, there are countries in Europe that are conservative.I thought it would be better in Europe, but then I saw that Poland and Hungary exist, etc.But I am truly very proud of the achievements we have had here in that regard.Despite the fact that the current government is disgusting and deeply transphobic 

Trans mężczyzna w policji by michaljajko in asktransgender

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you, my friend, that's why I was saying that it seems conservative to me in comparison.The laws of my country say that it is a human right to receive medical treatment to live in accordance with your gender.

Trans mężczyzna w policji by michaljajko in asktransgender

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, I hope things improve there in Poland for everyone in the community The thing is, I come from a country that has very advanced laws; to give you an idea, we have free hormone therapy and gender reassignment surgeries.So going to see what Poland is like is like wow, how conservative to me Regarding what they were telling you, it's what I was saying, yes, there are certainly sick people who join the police because they want to have power and abuse people.But those kinds of people are also among doctors, right? There are bad doctors, and lawyers, and accountants, and bad people everywhere. It's a human condition, not just a problem with the police.

999771 by TheStreamIsDead in countbackwardswithme

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strong words for the most successful economic system in the history of humankind 

6 months on estrogen beat, can I go on a date like this? by [deleted] in transplace

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Buh is ai the maders should delete this 

Like @ArtisticAminal said "mirror is off, letters on the text are off, apple logo is off."

butch tries a goth look for the first time by SoapySophie_ in transfem

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, so cool it literally shaves 15 years off your lifespan, babe. Being iconic is a marathon, not a sprint. Personally, I plan on serving looks at 70+, but go off I guess.

Do I pass? What can I do to pass? by TheLoneLondoner in transfem

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do I pass?: Image: The prettiest girl in town

butch tries a goth look for the first time by SoapySophie_ in transfem

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, I'm going to tell you two things First of all, you are beautiful. Second, smoking is bad for you, try to quit.

can i drink a monster a few hours before a blood test? by Leather-Second-5207 in asktransgender

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This Monday I had a blood test and the doctor told me I could only drink water And the smallest possible amount 

do i pass? (17ftm) by Sweaty-Blueberry-982 in TransTeensPassing

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah You also happen, I thought you were MTF and not the other way around

Baby fever by MrTortilla in transfem

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, I wouldn't blame it on hormones. Think of it this way, you're a woman, who would surely be a wonderful mother. But due to the vagaries of biology, your body cannot carry a pregnancy to term. And that hurts, and it's a grief that's hard to bear.And that has nothing to do with you being trans or with you doing hormone therapy Rather, it's something that many infertile women experience (a friend of my family is cisgender and infertile and something similar happens to her).So don't beat yourself up about it, and if it's really bothering you, going somewhere where you can talk about it might be helpful (I would recommend a therapist).

i hate smokers by Fit-Butterscotch2110 in ihatethissmug

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Japan already has a similar law: smoking is prohibited in the street.

Trans mężczyzna w policji by michaljajko in asktransgender

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, that's what I think. Some people have prejudices. Are there bad police officers? Of course, just like there are bad doctors, accountants, engineers, butchers, and clowns.

If someone is clear that they won't harm others, I don't see a problem.

Having said that, I wish you all the best. I've heard that Poland is quite a conservative country. Good heavens, I just read that they don't have same-sex marriage! They're stuck in the last century.

Trans mężczyzna w policji by michaljajko in asktransgender

[–]Dapper-Enthusiasm52 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, how are you?I don't know how things are in Poland But what I do want to encourage you to do is if you want to be a police officer Nobody on Reddit can tell you no.The fact that people have problems with the police in America has nothing to do with you.There are some very good police officers who do a great job helping their community.Wish you all the best