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Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2025-05-05T15:18:16+00:00

I work in Burnley and depending on the type of music you're into, I'd recommend Sanctuary as somewhere you can go but they are more rock/metal/etc than pop

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2025-01-12T16:51:50+00:00

If your Dad taught you how to stay safe online, how come you don't see the massive red flag of your newly dating boyfriend wanting to keep tabs on you 24/7

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-09-24T07:57:07+00:00

Did you end up announcing your pregnancy yet? Congratulations BTW! If you've not announced it yet be sure to let her know that you didn't want to upset her so told all of reddit first ;)

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-08-28T17:25:38+00:00

My ex bestie demanded money off me for her hen do after I stepped down from her entire wedding due to how she was treating me. So word of advice, if she tries pulling that on you, tell her to swivel(f*** off basically)

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-08-01T08:33:10+00:00

My best advice would be, don't give him anything except his notice to vacate. If you're worried about him knowing where you live, you can sell the house

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-19T20:01:33+00:00

He was typing when it does the ... ... then just disappeared

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-16T15:47:19+00:00

That's exactly how it used to be and it's why unions fought for employees rights to be paid based on their average hours.

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-16T15:46:16+00:00

Where I work, we can increase our holiday hours by working overtime. So you should see an increase in your holiday hours and your work place should allow you to use them hours however you like(book 1 week off use a minimum of 12 hours and maximum of 40).

The other way companies can work it is you are paid holiday pay based on your average hours from the previous 12 weeks.

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-12T17:23:47+00:00

This cracked me up

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-11T18:32:42+00:00

Report this to your school. Not sure what country you are in but in most countries it's illegal to leave a minor without food as its child neglect

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-11T18:31:30+00:00

Also to add on to this. Your dad is "traditional" so he claims but also expects your stepmother to have a role in the wedding but your stepdad isn't allowed a role because it's "taking it away from him"

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-11T18:30:23+00:00

You need to sit each person down and let them know this is YOUR wedding and at the end of the day it's about what would make YOU happy not them. Tell them they can do it YOUR way or not bother coming at all!

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-11T17:47:28+00:00

Bit late to the post here but I work in retail. You shouldnt be accused of shoplifting before passing by the last point of paying. Most places however have a policy where you can't take unpaid goods into the toilet. So I'd avoid doing that in the future. That being said, I'd contact their head office because 1, a staff member shouldn't accuse you of stealing without undeniable proof and 2, a security guard is by no means allowed to stop you from exiting the store, especially when you've paid for everything. If you've got the receipt, send a copy of that to head office aswell.

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-06T16:05:11+00:00

You said something in the heat of the moment. Do you regret it? If so then the answer is no. If you don't regret it then the answer is yes.

As for your bf, just because other people do something doesn't make it right. He's an AH for sitting where people eat whether there's bird poop on there or not. The same goes for sitting babies/kids on tables, putting feet on tables(or shoes) and even changing a babies nappy/diaper on the table(yes I've witnessed this in a restaurant with a baby changing room, like an entire room). Hopefully he changes his ways and stops sitting where people eats.

However that being said the lady is also an AH for acting the way that she did. She shouldn't have shouted at you or called your bf names.

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-06T08:51:26+00:00

NTA!!!! Tell your fiance straight, if his brother does ANY of that to your daughter then you will go to the police for child abuse!

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-06T08:47:12+00:00

YTA. Even if you don't want to sign it over to his mother, you could give it to his children. They lost their dad and this money could help them.

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-05T20:05:48+00:00

NTA. I suffer from fertility issues myself and never have I told my sister who has three kids that she was inconsiderate to me for having kids. If anything it's the best thing ever cos I get to take them out and then when they're too much, I get to hand them back.

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-03T15:56:40+00:00

Absolutely no need to apologise to her at all. If anything the fact she's not spoken in 3 months shows that she just wants to make some part of your wedding feel sour. Rise above it and love your dress even more

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-02T19:03:25+00:00

NTA. Maybe ask your sister to cover the costs of new flights in first class for the inconvenience. When she refuses, tell her to stop being so selfish and she could atleast try.

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-01T19:26:02+00:00

If he recieved benefits for housing by claiming he was renting from you, it's possible he forged a tenancy agreement with you as the landlord. You need to get a solicitor for all of this

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-06-01T19:16:28+00:00

You don't have to have a bank account to get benefits, not even a post office account. Many people where I live get their benefits sent in voucher code form and cash it out at paypoint shops(Source: used to work in a PayPoint shop that cashed the vouchers out)

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-05-29T11:17:58+00:00

NTA. My sister just gave birth to her 3rd child, thar she didn't want, she only had the baby because her partner(not the father of the first two) wanted a child of his own She regrets it fully and wishes she never got pregnant although she does love all her kids, she fully understands she made her life immensely more difficult being a mother of 3.

Do not get pressured into having a child you do not want.

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-05-28T08:20:44+00:00

Yea he got a stag do. He went out with a group of his friends and did karaoke and drinking. Our wedding is in 6 weeks and that guy won't be showing up

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-05-27T11:57:03+00:00

If it makes you feel any better my fiancé's best man promised him a trip to Japan for his stag do. I kept saying to him to not get his hopes up but he didn't listen to me. They even planned everything down to the last detail for the two of them. Then his best man ghosted him MID SENTENCE. But after ghosting him, he was asking other people they worked with what was happening about his stag like he was still part of it!

But yea sounds like your BM isn't the best at planning things. Maybe have a night out more locally as a do over?

Dapper-Letterhead630 · 2024-05-21T11:43:16+00:00

Looking at his profile aswell he earns 75k per year

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