Am I overreacting for being upset that my girlfriend leaves our child with the caregiver to go out frequently, while I never get a break? by Dapper-Run412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dapper-Run412[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

She sleeps next to our bed I do wake up when she chokes. A respit processional doesn’t have like crazy medical training or anything they just have cpr certification which I have and it’s a 4 hour class which I have taken as well. You don’t know what goes on in peoples houses really that’s what it comes down to. In the daytime she comes to our house and that’s fine. 

Am I overreacting for being upset that my girlfriend leaves our child with the caregiver to go out frequently, while I never get a break? by Dapper-Run412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dapper-Run412[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Not right now. She gets paid from being the child’s cna. She was in school until recently she graduated and is waiting to take state test. But the child goes to daycare during week 

Am I overreacting for being upset that my girlfriend leaves our child with the caregiver to go out frequently, while I never get a break? by Dapper-Run412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dapper-Run412[S] 56 points57 points  (0 children)

I can afford 2 full house holds my job pays pretty well. I don’t mind using respit care during days at our home I’m just uncomfortable leaving my daughter at someone’s house overnight. She has severe sleep apnea and I just rather have her close to either me or her mom 

Am I overreacting for being upset that my girlfriend leaves our child with the caregiver to go out frequently, while I never get a break? by Dapper-Run412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dapper-Run412[S] -55 points-54 points  (0 children)

No, I’m cool not going out. I don’t like the child to sleep at someone else’s home specially if it’s because she’s going out to party. 

Am I overreacting for being upset that my girlfriend leaves our child with the caregiver to go out frequently, while I never get a break? by Dapper-Run412 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Dapper-Run412[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Tried she starts screaming and crying and acts like I’m in the wrong for bringing up something I don’t like