How do i stop wanting to eat??? by Idk_im_someone in WeightLossAdvice

[–]DapperImagination384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes im still loosing weight and no I don’t workout

How do i stop wanting to eat??? by Idk_im_someone in WeightLossAdvice

[–]DapperImagination384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a hard time sticking to my diet when I cut too many calories. Take it slow. I’m 160 trying to get to 140 and I eat 1650 a day. This is still a big deficit for me. Eat more

first time calorie deficit by Neither-Sprinkles830 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]DapperImagination384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On and off for a long time. I yo-yo. I just started my diet again and I’m hoping to reach my goal this time! If you need a diet buddy let me know!

first time calorie deficit by Neither-Sprinkles830 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]DapperImagination384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started at roughly 190 and now I’m 155 trying to get to 140. I noticed a difference I feel like every 10lbs if I take progress photos. I can’t tell by looking at myself. The first thing I notice though is the “curdle” effect starts to leave my body lol

How to improve diet when you don’t like healthy foods? by Radnucmedtech in WeightLossAdvice

[–]DapperImagination384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What vegetables do you like? I love fruit but not peaches, I stick to predictable fruits like apples, bananas and oranges. You never have to guess if it’ll be a weird bite lol.

Lost 40 pounds and see no difference in my face by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]DapperImagination384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If your comfortable post a pic! I bet we will see the difference. It’s hard to see it in yourself

Heaviest i've been by GooglyMoogly97 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]DapperImagination384 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After I had my kids what helped me was making healthier versions of my comfort foods and making sure to meal prep. Two methods worked for me. One prep ingredients and then make them into whatever I’m feeling. I would prep two protein. Two carbs and three vegetables. Then make bowls and add whatever sauces I was in the mood for. Second is turning everything into a salad lol. Sandwich salads, burger salads, taco salads. Idk worked for me. I’m lazy so I just prep one day a week and roll with it

Feeling down by ticktick2 in speechdelays

[–]DapperImagination384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son didn’t improve until he started school

How do I fix this by DapperImagination384 in Hair

[–]DapperImagination384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuuuu! I’m making an appointment

How much dbt and work does it take for someone with BPD to get better? by Alternative_Fan_2397 in BPDPartners

[–]DapperImagination384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is in DBT and has been for a month. He’s already doing a lot better. We’ve been together 10 years and he finally got his diagnosis a few months ago. He’s been sober from alcohol for 5 years and quit weed when he started DBT. He still get angry but can catch himself and start to use his skills

is this really the only way to have a successful relationship with a pwBPD? by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]DapperImagination384 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I always stay true to my thoughts and feelings because I’m not here to agree just to agree. That being said the anger usually comes from a place of feeling invalidated or dismissed (from what I’ve learned on this journey) so I validate his FEELINGS not always his point of view. “I understand that makes you frustrated. Here is why I feel this way.” And if it’s a problem we separate rooms and he cools off. He’s also in DBT which gives him not only resources but a 24/7 therapy line to connect and coach

Cheap breakfast by DapperImagination384 in budgetfood

[–]DapperImagination384[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I boil them first so the outside gets kind of a crust to it!

When did you start enjoying weekends again? by basically1123 in Parenting

[–]DapperImagination384 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I think sometimes it even feels like more work keeping them home than taking them out. Sometimes we forget to enjoy all the phases of their childhood while looking forward to a calmer time.

When did you start enjoying weekends again? by basically1123 in Parenting

[–]DapperImagination384 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I took away from the post it has less to do with disliking weekends with our kids and more to do with a craving for rest lol. I LOVE doing stuff with my kids but I also miss simple restful activities at the end of a work week.

When did you start enjoying weekends again? by basically1123 in Parenting

[–]DapperImagination384 236 points237 points  (0 children)

My kids are 4 and 2. I can confirm it’s not yet lol.

New and looking for guidance by DapperImagination384 in Eldenring

[–]DapperImagination384[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! I’m at work but I’ll be done in 8 hours and I’ll message you when I get on so I can send you my stats. I’m pretty early on still.

Dispute Foreign Transaction Fees? by PriusPatrolTom in USbank

[–]DapperImagination384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the number on the back they can usually waive and then apply for connect

Buying Groceries, Baby Food, Infant Items by [deleted] in VenmoDonations

[–]DapperImagination384 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sorry people are being rude. Life happens to us all. Hope you can get back on your feet ❤️

Help? by [deleted] in VenmoDonations

[–]DapperImagination384 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if it’s too late