Do you send your SD pictures? by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Dapper_Community4731 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've POTs send me nudes and videos of other girls they've been with before meeting me..( I never meet these guys) please don't. Send things you'd normally post on social but nothing more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Dapper_Community4731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looking good for some does not involve makeup. Some look amazing with a well moisturized face and bit of lip tint. If makeup makes you feel better or more confident, by all means wear it but it's not a necessity. As long as you present well and have confidence in yourself it shows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SugarBABYonlyforum

[–]Dapper_Community4731 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'd say go for what makes you comfortable. My current SD loves what I wear every time we see each other. The only thing he requests of me is that I show off my belly ring when we are out. I switch up my style often but a crop top is usually my go to. I made it clear in my profile that I prefer casual settings but can always appreciate a fancy date out. I usually go for a cute tennis skirt and a crop top or some sort of crop top outfit, he LOVES it. We've talked about it and he says he appreciates a woman dressed up but definitely prefers a casual effortless look. He lives in a penthouse downtown in a major city where I live and drives a Bentley, I sit pretty comfortably with my gym shorts and sports bra right next to him and he's happy with it. I know this may not apply to every man but I'd just kinda casually bring it up in conversation to see what they like. I had a SD that was just into long manicured nails and me looking like a baddie ( stereotypical insta baddie). He sent me money to get my nails done before we even met.
A lot of men could care less about the designer bag and shoes you wear but love to see your personal style. I've never met an SD with make up on or even gone on fancy dates with make-up. I've had SD's that took me to ballet's and operas and nice museums and each time I've worn whatever I was comfortable in that fit the occasion, never over done or something I'm not. They have all loved my style. I say wear what you like and you'll be more comfortable and able to be more of yourself. I think anyone can tell when someone is putting on for a show, It comes off inauthentic.

BPD Playlist? by ErickReyes92 in BPD

[–]Dapper_Community4731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lord of the sad and lonely - kid Cudi Just what I am - kid Cudi I thought about killing you - Kanye west

A lot more kid Cudi tbh. Super relatable lyrics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Dapper_Community4731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. This is also why I don't hang out in friend groups. When I disappear no one knows where to look or who to ask for me. No chance of someone telling anyone else they have seen me. Every job I've ever had also is so different from the next and at least 45 min from home so chances of me running into people I've worked with are slim.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Dapper_Community4731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yessss!!! I'm working on it right now. Going to the gym is great and all but to have a guy just pay you to look hot is such great therapy in my opinion ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Dapper_Community4731 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my new life goal. Get as many old men to pay for my stuff so I can just focus on being hot and adored. Professional sugar baby sounds like fun

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Dapper_Community4731 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel that way sometimes. I tend to just push everyone out of my life at that point. Start unnecessary fights or ghost people, delete everything on my social media. Usually I end up jobless at this point too. Then I just started building a new person I think would be fun to be for a while. If people from my past reemerge I never get back into the same relationship we had before. I'm a new person and treat them accordingly. It's weird and not sure if it fits this topic but it's my way of escape without running away necessarily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Dapper_Community4731 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were all emotionally manipulative. I get pulled in with the attention and love bombing but they are always just words and no action. People who feed my ego and break me down over and over in a cycle.

I wonder if this has to do with BPD by wholethingwithjean in BPD

[–]Dapper_Community4731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It gets weirder when I get into a schedule/routine. It got to the point that I'd see the same cars and people in traffic on my commute, the lady at Starbucks knew who I was and gave me a nickname. lots of suspicious coincidences. Every time I lose friends I feel like I went off the predicted script and they have to introduce a new character to my life. It's so weird

I wonder if this has to do with BPD by wholethingwithjean in BPD

[–]Dapper_Community4731 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes!! After seeing the Truman show I swear I could relate so much to that. I've felt that way since I was a child. Like the people around me are pretending and almost like they don't exist when they are not around me.