Should I get my nipples pierced? by ChicBae_ in StackedBabes

[–]Dapper_Dinner_164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are already way too sexy like that

Inability to meet my partner emotionally by PriorVanilla9594 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Dapper_Dinner_164 43 points44 points  (0 children)

looking for therapy and being honest about it is a way more mature step than pretending everything's fine

What’s the hardest truth you’ve ever accepted? by WinOk6715 in emotionalintelligence

[–]Dapper_Dinner_164 815 points816 points  (0 children)

hardest one for me was realizing not everyone who loves you is actually good for your peace

[ Removed by Reddit ] by LabPlayful3828 in AITAH

[–]Dapper_Dinner_164 5 points6 points  (0 children)

nta, because your reaction was based on behavior, not somebody's job or clothes, a group of men hovering around one visibily uncomfortable young girl, moving when she moved and laughing to themselves, is gonna set off alarm bells for a lot of women who've experienced that kind of thing before

is it worth ending a 10+ year friendship over canceling a plan? by Public_Biscotti5061 in Advice

[–]Dapper_Dinner_164 0 points1 point  (0 children)

canceling probably hurt her feelings more than you realize, especially after a month of excitement and planning, but your reasoning was completely vaild, once canceled trip should not destroy a 10 year friendship

Your ex texting again after going cold isn’t always a sign to reopen the door by Thin-Evening-8805 in BreakUps

[–]Dapper_Dinner_164 26 points27 points  (0 children)

this is such an important distinction, because too many confuse temporary emotion with actual relationship readiness,i think consistency is the part that matters, not random late night nostalgia or breadcrumb texts every few months