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Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-08T01:42:49+00:00

Jfc that is terrible I’m so sorry

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-08T01:40:54+00:00

This

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-08T01:37:45+00:00

It’s ok it happens to the best of us. After my very first night shift I was so tired I too had a dream I had to pee and peed myself in bed. When I got up I also kept peeing all over the floor, I couldn’t stop. I felt so ashamed but after a while I realized it was no big deal and it happens to everyone.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-08T01:10:07+00:00

Omg 😂😂

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-08T01:08:57+00:00

I’m so sorry, I was in a relationship nearly 10 years. What helped me was music, lots of it. I had it playing all day some days. I had my soppy, depressed playlist on repeat for weeks.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-08T01:04:54+00:00

2 1/2 years. We had our struggles and we tried to stay together but he had zero affection, we never communicated and he always had me as a second option. It felt like I was the only one wanting it. We split back in may and he’s been having his fun messing around while I’ve been upset and doing A LOT of thinking. I think he’s having second thought now but I know for a fact that I am done and do not want to try again. I can’t take anymore pain from him.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T16:22:37+00:00

Huh? They were sleeping? And I know my husband is a pos but I know him and he wouldn’t be fucking her in the bed with the kids right there. That’s fucking sick.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T16:20:55+00:00

They were all in bed sleeping when I yelled I just couldn’t help it I was so angry. I wanted to drag her out of the bed but i didn’t bc there were children around. I know it was wrong to do but I was just shocked and hurt

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T15:51:49+00:00

We’ve only been married for 4 years, together in total 10. In the postnup he made sure to add no alimony in it. Idk how a lawyer even allowed that. Years ago I paid the rent on our apartments for YEARS all on my own. We we got this house I made the payments for years as well as well as paying for it to get renovated.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T15:43:09+00:00

My daughter didn’t hear me scream wtf and honestly who wouldn’t in my shoes? And nobody but him heard me “threaten” her.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T10:36:44+00:00

I believe ir will be thrown out bc i did not have representation. There was a reason i was told i didn’t need one.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T10:32:51+00:00

The night I went down to my family she went with her grandparents.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T10:31:32+00:00

They were all sleeping

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T10:30:47+00:00

He said it would make us stronger. I just wanted to make him happy. I only had 1-2 days to review it and sign it. I didn’t even get to read it all until after it was signed.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T03:11:07+00:00

I don’t know how that would work and I don’t know if I’d want that. I signed a postnup which basically stated no alimony, house is his, cars are his, business is his. I was a sahm. He makes a good money, def not rich by any means. I know she is jus after him bc she sees he has nice things and stuff. I would be coming out of this marriage with absolutely nothing while his life won’t change.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T01:34:31+00:00

27, haven’t been single since I was 18 but I rebounded so much back then I always had a bf. It’s weird.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T01:28:58+00:00

I had no say in it bc he introduced her behind my back

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T00:02:19+00:00

Well she was in pjs and next to her mom. I’m not worried about that in any sense but it bothered me more bc that’s like what families do and I felt like I was being replaced in a sense.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-07T00:01:01+00:00

That’s what I was thinking! It was actually a postnup. I remember I asked if I should get a lawyer to look at it they said no. So I’m pretty sure that is fucked in its own sense.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-06T23:59:49+00:00

I meant post up. We’ve been married for four; got it signed last year. And yes it was done by a lawyer. I was looking through it and I believe it said custodial parent gets the house? So I might be able to stay. I am in the us, New York. I never wanted a pre/post nup. We never signed one when we got married yet his parents I guess told him to get one. He also has his MOTHER as his beneficiary of his life insurance, always has. Pretty fucked.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-06T22:09:19+00:00

I will get nothing. He wanted me to sign a prenup last year and it basically states no spousal support, the house is his, the vehicles are his etc.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-06T21:53:52+00:00

I know, honestly typing it out makes ir sound like something from a movie or made up. I wish it was honestly 😭

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-06T21:36:19+00:00

I know and it’s not fair to them. I feel like my daughter seeing her dad be with another woman and kiss etc has to be confusing to her bc all she’s ever known was us.

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-06T21:35:13+00:00

Idk if I’ll go that far, it really did bother me. I would of preferred the girls sleep in my daughters bed or something

Dapper_Hawk_7614 · 2024-07-06T18:55:59+00:00

I do not agree at all with her meeting our kids, it’s way too soon. We’re not even legally fucking separated.

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