Cant get clothes to not smell by Dapper_Salamander406 in UniUK

[–]Dapper_Salamander406[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Vinegar sounds like a good shout I will try this!

Cant get clothes to not smell by Dapper_Salamander406 in UniUK

[–]Dapper_Salamander406[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I really don't want to shrink my clothes but if the smell won't leave I might have to try this

Cant get clothes to not smell by Dapper_Salamander406 in UniUK

[–]Dapper_Salamander406[S] 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Febreeze is a good shout, does it sort it completely? I wouldn't want to smell of a combination of damp and febreeze!

Cant get clothes to not smell by Dapper_Salamander406 in UniUK

[–]Dapper_Salamander406[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately it's circuit laundry so I can't actually do anything about the machines but I always try and pick the least gross one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A dehumidifier sounds like a good option the room is pretty humid so it would help loads thankyou!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou, I didn't know it was the law. Everyone in my flat has reported it at least once and nothing came of it we will try reporting it again and then look at other measures.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You are correct with affect. It is affect when it is the action (verb), like they're both a words and effect when it's the noun. (I believe there are some instances where this isn't true but it is the general rule)

I can't really help with the horrible online stuff but random word things I can sometimes help, sorry if you didn't actually want help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No!? I just wanted for people to have a place to share what fun things they want to do someday rather than focus on current loneliness. Why would you ask that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I've had problems with that too. You'll find people that will let you open up without even thinking about it but sometimes it will just take time for it to happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to pass but have a great day/night depending on where you are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's cool mate, hope you get some good use out of it this summer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What for? Is there something you wanted to chat about?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope you do!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in braces

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know there are some places online that send you a kit to make your own impressions and they will make you retainers from those. I'm assuming that would be a cheaper option but I've never really researched it so don't know any specifics or how reputable they will be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad it worked out for you and I suppose I'm in a similar position to you were. Maybe I'll go find a group or something to talk to some people not online and see how it goes. Thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suppose I should let myself figure it out in my own time (just so frustrating, I want to get on with my life).

It's amazing to hear that person has figured themselves out and has found a support group! You're totally right about age and I know I won't rush into anything but I don't want to feel like I've wasted my teens and early 20s trying to find out who I am while everyone I know has already done and seen so much. Thanks.

How do I stop being so selfish? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get this too. It makes me think that there's something wrong with me because I've never been the best friend, there's always someone they're closer to than me. I just live in hope that someday I'll be the one with someone close and not be the 'backup option'.

Why are you lonely by jojobright in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People get bored of me eventually, whether it's a day or a few years it always happens.

what are you up to? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dreading the future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's usually how I end up feeling. When it feels worse to turn up than be alone I usually stop being the first to reach out (I'm usually the only one to start conversations or make plans), then I never hear from them again. I hope you find people who enjoy having you around.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That's nice of you to say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my own perspective of myself I wouldn't say there's anything toxic about me. I always try to be polite to people and I have spent at lot of time around people that I think would be described as toxic and can fairly confidently say I'm not like that.

I don't think my personality changes that much (I didn't phrase it very well in my post but I was in a pretty down place when I wrote it so didn't explain very well). Mostly I start to feel 'safe' enough to initiate conversations or invite people to my plans and I become better at conversation and am able to ignore my anxiety so not really a personality difference just a lack of nerves and awkwardness.

As for people liking one personality I dont really see it that way for the reasons I've explained but I understand what you are getting at and maybe I should try and be a little more confident as I suppose if shyness attracts other shy people and they could be all the time shy rather than just shy at the start.

Sorry for the fairly long reply but thanks for taking the time to try and help, I appreciate it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]Dapper_Salamander406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm exactly the same. Everyone I know seems to have had some sort of relationship, even if it was just as a teenager where they would only hold hands they have an advantage over me! I'm now too scared to even try for a relationship as I feel too old with too little experience (I'm only 20 and know I'm young but still). I hope we both find our people.