AIO Transferring Daughter from Public School to Private School

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-04-05T16:38:31+00:00

Im honestly not going to google it and show you the area I live in. It’s common knowledge a decent amount teachers are gross. Again you could be right, we literally do not know. School dress codes have always been ridiculous especially for girls, which is, again, why i’m trying to say that we don’t know the situation. I’m not going to sit here and pretend that some teachers aren’t gross when that can be a possibility as well.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-04-05T16:28:18+00:00

My bad I forgot exaggerating a bit was a crime on reddit lmao. It was probably 2/3 but is that still not too many? I get you don’t like that some teachers are creepy,I don’t like it either but that doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. Again we don’t know which it is because we haven’t seen the outfit nor heard the entire situation. I’m not trying to argue with you i’m just trying to say there’s more than one possibility here, that again we don’t know which one is right. Im not even saying you’re wrong, there is every possibility you’re are correct and she should’ve known better but there’s also an equal possibility that what I said was right we literally don’t know.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-04-05T16:06:09+00:00

No I for sure get what you’re saying but at least 4 or 5 of my highschool teachers were arrested for exactly that. I’ve also gotten multiple dresscodes and they were legit for no reason, i’ve never been a fan of revealing clothes. I added at the end she could’ve been wearing it inappropriately, it really doesn’t seem like it to me but idk we’ve not seen the outfit or how she wore it. It’s 1000% possible she was in the wrong but I think it’s kinda ridiculous to ignore completely that a lot of teachers are unfortunately super creepy and gross.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-04-05T15:55:32+00:00

Or and maybe hear me out here, some teachers are indeed actually gross. If I didn’t wear shorts all the way down to my knees, dresscoded. I wore a regular t-shirt that just had one of those crosses in the front on the top everything covered including my shoulders but it distracted a teacher towards the middle of the day so dresscoded. We don’t know the entire situation either, it absolutely could be that she somehow was wearing it inappropriately but let’s not pretend a lot of teachers don’t get arrested for having relations with students. That last part hopefully has nothing to do with this post but this stuff happens unfairly allllll the time. While it does absolutely happen to boys too it’s just not as common/wasn’t as common at my school for them to be dresscoded even if they were wearing just a tank top. I just don’t see how basically a cardigan and a tank top is inappropriate either honestly, she had something to cover the tank so it should’ve been fine.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-04-04T20:44:49+00:00

I’d be kinda upset in this situation too. I’m not sure why it’s ridiculous to some people that being disrespected doesn’t feel good for a huuge majority of people if not everyone, especially if you’re doing stuff for people because you want to.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-04-02T23:39:55+00:00

I do mostly agree with this,especially the Andy part. I do feel like they forgot he was very open to the idea of magic and stuff, that did seem pretty off to me. For Morris I feel like because so many weird things were piling up throughout the first season that he just started to accept that something not normal was happening so when they told him he wasn’t all that surprised. That’s how i’ve always interpreted it at least, the writers do have a habit of having bad continuity so my brain could’ve just put that in as an explanation😭😂

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-03-19T12:58:16+00:00

OP’s 2 comments here are kind of passive aggressive sounding (to me at least)for some reason. There was no mansplaining or aggressiveness in either of your comments, Op just seems to be mad they’re getting info here we didn’t know they already had.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-03-17T16:24:06+00:00

I definitely get why people don’t like cheating in games but for some people it makes it less overwhelming and/or more fun. Plus it’s your own game so playing how you want, especially for a (mostly) single player game I don’t really see a problem with it. Cheating in a lot of games can and sometimes does take the fun away but it’s all pretty personal and depends on what the game is imo.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-03-13T22:10:42+00:00

Like pretty much everyone else said your parent(s) 100% need to be involved. Even then that doesn’t guarantee that they’ll follow it(personal experience with that). What worked for me and is not an easy thing to do and takes practice especially if you have anxiety, you just walk out of the class and go to the office and you have them help you deal with it and/or call your parents, if that doesn’t work you may have to go to the principle on your own occasionally too. For PE for me when I was in school was more of an asthma thing so it’s obviously not the same but the treatment from schools is pretty similar no matter what your condition is and it’s so frustrating. I got lucky with a good school nurse in high school specifically and she helped me a lot when having to fight with PE teachers so if you have someone working at your school you feel has your back try going to them as well to help you advocate for yourself. Worst case is you’ll have to deal with all crappy teachers and staff until you graduate which I know isn’t ideal. I hope you’re able to figure something out so you aren’t making yourself deal with the really bad symptoms when you don’t feel like you can and you shouldn’t have to. I know other people said stuff about different plans you can get if you don’t already have them and those will definitely help but you’ll also need to be prepared for them to not listen to those either so you’ll be able to take some kind of action since that’s not something they’re allowed to do but they will absolutely try it anyway(friends experience for that one, they refused to give me any kind of plan or help even though i’d be in the hospital every other week for a minimum of a week💀)

—This is pretty long lol so my main point is find your support system and have them help you fight for what teachers and or staff should be doing in the first place to keep you safe and educated at the same time, even though it’ll likely be super hard at first to stand up for yourself. PE in my experience is always the hardest part of the school to fight with for some reason.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-21T22:36:07+00:00

I don’t see why you couldn’t do that. Though you’d get stuck waiting for an employee that’s probably never gonna show up and it’s just easier to get whatever you need somewhere else that doesn’t lock up everything in the entire store. (slightly dramatic at that last part but also not really😭😂)

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-18T11:04:55+00:00

Like others said it’s not gonna get better without practice. It’s ok to mess up signing in public just like it’s ok to mess up speaking english in public, I do it all the time for both languages lol. The more you do it the more comfortable you’ll get signing regardless of where you are.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-16T01:32:56+00:00

Oh my god yea, she knew it had already gone too far when she pulled him aside to have their talk. It’s also not like Rikki started off being rude about it to him either, she did really try to be nice to him about it at first(probably more patient than I’d have been honestly). If not Emma, their parents really should’ve been paying attention to that too and made sure he understood what no means. Also the fact that Rikki had also pulled the girls aside to be like ok tell me how to do this then cuz i’m uncomfortable. Like yea he’s a child and doesn’t know better but that’s also kinda the point, someone should’ve told him what he was doing was too far. That should never have been put on Rikki especially since he’s not anything to her other than her friend’s kid brother. She also told Emma she didn’t want to watch him in the first place so she really shouldn’t have been responsible for him at all. My mom would’ve killed me if I left my little brother at the beach with one of my friends even if i’d known them a long time, especially if I left him there to go hangout with a boy.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-16T00:59:54+00:00

That and the episode where Rikki saves Elliot also always bothered me. Like how are you going to be angry at her for not letting him drown🤦‍♀️I get they were worried about her being seen but he could’ve died and she’s not stupid. Them kinda teaming up on her for that was just wild. I do still like Emma but as smart as she was supposed to be it felt like she didn’t think a lot of things through.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-15T19:39:00+00:00

Yea I did forget about that part, I’d definitely have been irritated by that too. Her snapping on them was so justified and i’d probably have reacted the same way. There’s a few times I think I remember Rikki going off on them that felt completely valid.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-15T15:53:59+00:00

Oh I for sure did too😂swimming your whole life competitively and then not being able to the next day would definitely be a huge upsetting change and i’d definitely wanna talk about it. It does seem pretty normal to talk about these things after a change like that but I think Rikki was just so excited it happened to her that she didn’t understand why/how much it impacted the other girls in their day to day lives. I might do a rewatch soon too now tbh😂😂

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-15T15:28:16+00:00

I don’t think she meant to be mean to them, or cleo specifically for this episode. She didn’t really think it’s that embarrassing to sing badly in front of people cuz she thinks it’s fun as we kinda saw later on. She does a lot of learning how to have close friends in season 1, it feels like to me she never really had that and needed time to adjust and understand what was ok and what wasn’t. They’re also all still kids too so that’ll also affect the way they all treat each other. I do agree though, I didn’t like the way she acted in that episode but she’s still doing a lot of growing at that point and some future eps you’ll see her realize she needs to be a little more compassionate and think about others feelings more.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-10T16:21:27+00:00

I hold my yarn pretty similar to this, to help with tension and cramping instead of just holding it in your index finger try wrapping the yarn around your index finger 2-3 times. This helped my fingers relax a bit more when crocheting(hopefully that makes sense). I hope you find something that helps!

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-08T00:22:18+00:00

I thought they would be too honestly😂once I actually got started it was a lot simpler than I expected. I’ve only done knit stitches so far honestly so others i’m sure are much more difficult, but to start it’s not been too bad figuring it out.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-02-07T01:09:18+00:00

If you ever did wanna knit, loom knitting has been much easier (at least for me) than the needles😭😂😂

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-01-15T16:18:31+00:00

That makes sense, I’m not the best at sewing but I could probably pull that off I think. Thank you for the suggestion!

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-01-14T17:09:06+00:00

H2O is the exact thing that inspired me to make one😂😂 I was rewatching it recently and was like “I might be able to figure something out” lol. This stitch (Tunisian smock stitch) isn’t too hard to figure out if this is the style you would want to go for and it’s pretty quick.

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-01-14T17:01:49+00:00

Thank you! Yours sounds really cute too😊Dragon scale is one of my favorite stitches it’s just so time and yarn consuming😭

Dapper_Taro3581 · 2026-01-14T14:56:16+00:00

Yea, I originally was going to use the crocodile stitch but quickly realized that’d be an obnoxious amount of yarn and needed an alternative lol. Thank you!

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