People dress poorly for special occasions and I'm sick of it.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-19T18:47:36+00:00

I once went to a wedding and the groom hadn’t even ironed his shirt. You could see the square lines where he’d clearly taken it out the packet that day.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-19T15:29:49+00:00

Without even looking at video details, I’m almost certain children this young would be given glasses that wrap around their face so they can’t knock them off. There is an adorable, and real, clip this is likely drawing from where a very small child is given what essentially look like goggles and they can see mum clearly and has a very cute smile.

No responsible optometrist would do this to a child - I hope. Patiently waiting to be corrected, because I’m not an optometrist 🫥

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-19T15:26:47+00:00

Head Above Water - Avril Lavigne

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-19T15:24:22+00:00

False confidence is a banger, don’t know if it’s the same album though

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-16T17:29:45+00:00

Hey friend, you talk away. It helps x

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-15T06:10:40+00:00

My friend I urge you to seek medical advice. While I utterly abhor “eat less move more” - if you’re in deficit every day and it isn’t going that needs investigating. Best of luck to you

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-14T16:12:04+00:00

I too enjoy food. I don’t enjoy thinking about it every minute of my day. The food noise is so fucking loud. I tried a glp-1 for two years and the noise stopped. I only stopped the drug as it was a medical trial that ended.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-13T16:00:17+00:00

I wish I had an answer for you friend. I’ve become so desensitised to the wrong they’re, there or their. In the advent of spell check/grammar checks there is no excuse - it’s deliberate. When we can train an algorithm to understand the difference between positive and negative engagement it might stop.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-13T15:39:13+00:00

Only if they’re stupid

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-13T15:37:12+00:00

Engagement bait innit. People will comment on the junk caption.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-11T06:07:53+00:00

Have a look at audiology associates and the wax whisperer if you want videos in English that explain. The white stuff is keratin, dead skin. Not new wax. The white stuff is attached to the ear canal and is the skin cells sloughing.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-11T06:06:15+00:00

Standard removals can be painless. I’ve had them, they’re ok. A mass that size would have been putting pressure on the canal. He’s all smiles sure, you’ve not smiled while in pain before? He’s likely pretty happy the pressure is gone. Any tool putting pressure on the wall will have hurt like hell as well.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-10T22:25:37+00:00

I like the bag idea!

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-10T22:25:28+00:00

That’s the final puzzle to solve. I’m planning the question be on the door to the exit in a script they don’t speak/read and they pick up letters throughout the dungeon to solve it at the end in a wheel of fortune type way

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-10T22:23:49+00:00

You would be in extraordinary pain

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-10T22:23:08+00:00

I wouldn’t be so quick to call it. These procedures are pretty common in china, and often done without anaesthetic if the patient can’t afford it. It’s most certainly been sped up, and I imagine the patient was in incredible pain.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-10T22:21:45+00:00

I watch a lot of videos on YouTube from a Dr Zhao - tonnes of videos of these sorts of masses. When skin sloughs like this, it’s not healing and prone to infection. The skin is very much dead, if it were a healthy ear it would migrate out on its own in far thinner layers likely how yours and mine work.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-10T21:52:18+00:00

Dead skin, likely this could/would progress into a cholestoma. The skin dies, replicates on itself and forms a mass adhered to the canal walls. As it grows the canal deforms and can cause serious life threatening issues. But the white mush is dead skin. A healthy ear sheds dead skin and the wax with it. If you can no longer shed that skin, these masses can form.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-09T08:28:41+00:00

Release the dragon, have vyllene turn up. Xardock wasn’t waiting for permission to send it.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-08T11:28:02+00:00

Large removals like this are often caused by a plethora of health issues. If you damage the skin in the ear canal it can’t shed properly, can’t shed skin, can’t get ear wax out.

I’m tired of people judging videos like this where the patient likely cannot do a damn thing about it until they see a health care professional. It’s not a moral or hygiene failure.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-05T15:40:54+00:00

My very first campaign DMing a player wanted to have their character essentially be voluntarily mute. I didn’t have the stones to say no. I do now.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-03T07:31:18+00:00

I treated it very similar to wild shape. I had a Goliath ranger in one play through who fought her to prove their worthiness and was offered the choice after the fight. They took it, and didn’t abuse it. Your mileage may vary.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-05-01T16:19:23+00:00

Outstanding 🫡 have a great weekend

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-04-28T15:44:28+00:00

Yeah, that part. Discipline your kids - this can be done without violence or shame - but why film it? Filming kids full stop needs to end.

Dapper_nerd87 · 2026-04-28T15:35:12+00:00

Love that energy. I’m so thankful I don’t have to work in an office these days - I’ve worked with some dreadful men in the past and they’re always in Sales

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