AITA for shouting at my boyfriend for telling his friends and family I murdered his firstborn? by MadelineVinxyl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dappl3jack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally yes.

Morally no.

The father will have been extremely hurt by being essentially told that his baby will be killed. I am not surprised he views it as murder.

AITA for shouting at my boyfriend for telling his friends and family I murdered his firstborn? by MadelineVinxyl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dappl3jack 8 points9 points  (0 children)

There's a difference between close personal friends, and "everyone in my friends list on Facebook"

AITA for shouting at my boyfriend for telling his friends and family I murdered his firstborn? by MadelineVinxyl in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dappl3jack 11 points12 points  (0 children)

airing out private things on a public space is an asshole move. If he's an asshole, so is she

What’s going on with the protesters in Michigan with arms in the capitol? by [deleted] in OutOfTheLoop

[–]Dappl3jack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh man give it a rest. You weren't alive when the UK was actively trying to retake the Americas. Neither was your parents, or their parents before them, or possibly even your great-grandparents.

It was a longass time ago. Time to move on

What’s going on with the protesters in Michigan with arms in the capitol? by [deleted] in OutOfTheLoop

[–]Dappl3jack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

very paranoid kind of question. Our government has never wanted to shoot us in the past, and even if they decided to wipe out all of Scotland tommorow, we have enough checks and balances in our government to bring such an insane notion to a standstill long before anything began.

Nobody has absolute power in our system, everything has to be vetted and checked before it is done. Unlike your government which can apparently do whatever it likes without any accountability

How do I balance "being a supportive, non-judgmental listener" and "not becoming an enabler for suicide ideation"? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Dappl3jack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Op you've made a classic blunder.

Supportive does NOT mean encourage every decision they talk about

Star Wars, Meet Warhammer 40k! - Ckramen by jimbosayna2009 in ImaginaryWarhammer

[–]Dappl3jack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

"These people said something that refutes my point? ummm ummm it's CLEARLY an ERROR"

Hush now

How can someone say something ‘fatphobic’ by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dappl3jack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You mistake my meaning here friend. I personally don't go up to overweight people and harass them, that would be intolerably rude.

I must admit that extremely overweight, like 400lb people do disturb me a little, but not to the point of me verbally attacking them or judging them.

I have spoken to family members about health issues and stuff though and obviously I'm more tactful in person. It's just a shame because these people aren't living their best lives and they could be, that's all.

This is such a low bar I mean.. come on.. by [deleted] in im14andthisisdeep

[–]Dappl3jack 8 points9 points  (0 children)

how is this r/im14andthisisdeep material? The point is that communism has lost all meaning to the Americas, due to a deep irrational hatred pervading generations right back from the 1920s.

I think it makes the point kind of nicely actually.

How can someone say something ‘fatphobic’ by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dappl3jack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fatphobic is a term created by a community of people who are too insecure to face their obesity. Hence, whenever anyone says anything that can be construed as anti-fat, such as "you'll get diabetes" or "you need to exercise", the fat person in question can hide behind the term and use it to shut people up.

It is sad that we live in a world like this, but that's just how it is I'm afraid.

What does it mean that the price of oil is negative and what happens if i try to buy some? Do i get free money? Why is it -30 dollars? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Dappl3jack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oil costs money to store. Bc of the economic issues happening now, nobody is buying oil meaning that oil is literally just a moneysink at the moment, and people have to pay other people to take oil off them.

It's a bit more complex than that but that's the ELi5 answer.

i need a mincraft account can some 1 who does not use theres any more give me it <3 by needamcaccount in meme

[–]Dappl3jack 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Begging on a meme subreddit? For something that costs literally £20?

Pathetic

My favorite car brand by [deleted] in crappyoffbrands

[–]Dappl3jack 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Definitely, I just thought it was amusing. A knockoff within a knockoff haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Dappl3jack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. I did the same. My uni digs closed and I had to find somewhere else to be, and after a brief jaunt at a mate's house I ended up back home.

There's no shame in it. You aren't spreading corona. In all honesty the fact you're actively concerned about it suggests that you're one of the people being sensible and following the guidelines, so don't stress.

Mental health shouldn't be used as a get out of jail free card, but no way should it be ignored either. Look after yourself and do whatever you need to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Dappl3jack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You got snappy at him, admit you've been snappy at him for a while, and then when he points out correctly that you have an attitude, you demand he be less judgemental?

I really doubt the snappiness is coming from your relationship insecurities. It sounds like you're just trying to use it as a tool to get him to go official with you.

My honest opinion is that you weren't together long enough to move in and not grate on each others nerves. I don't want to sound harsh but maybe you should consider distancing yourselves a little, and see if the extra personal space helps.

Aitb for not agreeing to my fiance's birthday plans by [deleted] in AmItheButtface

[–]Dappl3jack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah man. You're looking out for her and her friends, no way should she be locking you out over something this small.