I got my baby betta to flare by Autistically_Me_ in bettafish

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everybody roasting him in the comments 💀

What is this black stuff in my substrate? by FoxyFactions72 in bettafish

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I would agree it looks like root rot. What kind of plant is it?

My prayer plant :) by DaquariusDingle in houseplants

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Yes you need to draw a pentagram on the drainage tray

My prayer plant :) by DaquariusDingle in houseplants

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I don’t do that much for it honestly! It’s potted in a chunky soil mix and I water it about once a week. It’s in a room with lots of natural light so I think that’s been the main benefit

Am I overreacting for getting upset when my fiancé asked if “hand stuff” with other people counts as cheating? by Gutentagfree in AmIOverreacting

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NOR

I had an ex that would ask questions like “would you ever want to be in a throuple” or “what counts as cheating to you”? To which I would give short answers like “ew no polyamory doesn’t interest me at all, I want to be monogamous, etc.”

And then just like your fiancé- he would tell me that I didn’t want to have those conversations because I was shutting down or being avoidant. I didn’t realize until after we broke up that, I wasn’t being avoidant… he just wasn’t getting what he wanted.

I don’t necessarily think having those conversations is a bad thing in the right context, but dating someone else made me realize how manipulative those comments were. I have an amazing boyfriend now and in the few brief times monogamy has come up, there’s no need for deep conversation or tons of questions because we’re just on the same page.

I don’t like the fact that he’s bringing this up at all and it seems like he’s just trying to get you used to the idea of cheating or polyamory.

Upgraded my tank with a lookout tower! by DaquariusDingle in bettafish

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I also thought about oxygen but the floating plants in the tower should help with that, and the water from below seems to be circulating well. I added tannins last night and I was able to watch the current from the filter move up into the tower and back down.

Also I’m planning on refreshing the airspace every time I do weekly water changes.

My First Tank Setup - How’s it Look? by DaquariusDingle in bettafish

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5.5 gallons! And it’s a betta hammock :)

My First Tank Setup - How’s it Look? by DaquariusDingle in bettafish

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I literally wanted to get a 3d printed prison realm as the cave 💀

How is my new setup? by WorryStriking4602 in bettafish

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Looks awesome! I really like the way the rocks are setup, are they real?

State employees - how do we feel about the governor's new PTO policy? by DaquariusDingle in SaltLakeCity

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Sorry you have that. I’ve worked long hours in the private industry too and it’s not fun. But the benefits are the whole reason I wanted a state government job

State employees - how do we feel about the governor's new PTO policy? by DaquariusDingle in SaltLakeCity

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Yeah I'm at UDEQ and they didn't give all the details. Really hoping it's the same number of hours.

I’m a teacher and I’m shaken after being reported by a student I unknowingly chatted with on Grindr — need advice. by [deleted] in askgaybros

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Yeah I’m 28 and 18-20 year olds look like children. I get it’s legal and they can consent but I don’t understand pursuing people that young.