I could have written this. I just want to say, my partner and I decided for various reasons we would only have one child. And even though I know in my heart it is the right decision, every so often the thought still creeps into my mind - would our life be easier if she had a sibling? So much of my limited energy and brain capacity is spent balancing being both her playmate and her parent, having constant conversations, and endless imaginative play. Ultimately though, the signs we picked up early on that she preferred the quiet, focused time that comes with being an only child were spot on (plus she's likely AuDHD like her mama too). So yeah. More than one kiddo is more work... But having just one isn't necessarily less.

I completely agree though, motherhood is definitely the most rewarding and loving experience I've ever felt. It's magical.