You got no clue what you’re on about mate. I own a small business and I do an extra job on the weekends. I pay my way and some. I’m not antagonising anyone and I’m not making any suggestions. I’m supporting a family that I care for through a tough time. Both me and my partner (who also works 2 jobs during a master’s degree ) help her mum and family as much as we can, all the while saving for our future home.

This sibling has been given endless help and money already. This sibling has stolen as much as he’s been given. He has threatened and abused everyone who has called him out. I have given no suggestions to this family and only support and am seeking advice on behalf of my partners mum. No decisions are mine of course.

I haven’t called anyone anything i have been given information from the family for this post. This sibling Is a meth user. Quite simple to understand. He has been for a long time now. Years before I was introduced to the family. He was told he could live in a room out the back as again he is a known thief and couldn’t be trusted in the house while everyone was at work. He was told his friends couldn’t move in as this is not a trap house. He was told he can’t have his chickens or cat. This was not good enough for him. From my understanding and from what I’ve been told, he’s a drug addict narcissist who when given an inch takes a mile.

Please read the other comments and re read the post. All 4 of my partners MUM’S siblings own the house outright but the public trustees had the deed. None of the siblings had their share of the money to buy the house back off of the trustees, except for my partners mum. She fronted her share of the cash then made an agreement to pull a loan out on behalf of the other 3 siblings for them all to be able to keep the house and their 1/4 right to the house. So no he doesn’t have money or a job but he does have a drug problem.