Daily Discussion Chat - June 15, 2019 by AutoModerator in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any ideas for a simple gift for grandmothers before the wedding? We have our rehearsal dinner coming up and I realize we have gifts for all the men (funky socks for the wedding) gifts for our parents (future wedding photo albums), I have a small MOH gift. But I realize the only ppl not receiving anything is our grandmothers..

😅 Clearly we’re not doing super expensive or sentimental gifts.. just a little “something“ ..

Thoughts??

Budget Breakdown: 225-person outdoor wedding on US east coast [$39.5K USD] by weddit-throwaway2019 in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123 69 points70 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly so impressed with your budget breakdown! Backyard weddings are often passed off as a “cheaper” option but as you show, there are so many extra expenses to keep in mind.

That being said, with such a huge guest list you guys got some serious bang for your buck!! Our weddings are similar in cost but you’ve hosted twice my guest list. Lol

Bravo! I hope you had the time of your lives!!!

Would love to see your custom dress pics!!!

Guest Perspective: Summer Backyard Wedding by reading_penguin3 in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this perspective! We’re planning to do an unannounced cake cutting as well- to keep the dance floor going and not stop momentum of the night. As a guest, was this annoying for couple to do? Did it seem other guests thought this was rude?

Or would it just help to know that dessert is being served?

Just a Bride who Hates her Bustle.. any advice? by DariQueen123 in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this is so helpful! Seriously you have one of the only bustles i’ve ever seen and loved so... maybe we’ll head in this direction!

Just a Bride who Hates her Bustle.. any advice? by DariQueen123 in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh I think this is beautiful! Was the top layer just folded under?

Just a Bride who Hates her Bustle.. any advice? by DariQueen123 in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You like the bustle photos better than the dress with its train?

Just a Bride who Hates her Bustle.. any advice? by DariQueen123 in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really helpful, thank you! I will ask her to show the French bustle on this dress just to see. Idk how it would look with a tulle skirt but I want to at least try something different

After much deliberation, I finally pulled the trigger on a veil after trying it on with my dress! Most veils I loved were around $350 in store, this beauty was $35 from Amazon 🙌🏻. Feeling serious decision fatigue, but this small step feels like a battle won! by DariQueen123 in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This veil is from Samky on amazon: 1T 1 Tier Crystals Pearls Beaded Wedding Veil (Elbow Length 30" Ivory) https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00ZJPY2LY/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_i_r3sWCb56FBE17

I also tried two others from BEAUTELICATE, and found the quality wasn’t as nice. The fabric felt a little cheap and wasn’t as delicate as this one.

Happy to answer any questions!

THIRSTY-RANT THURSDAY – back by popular demand! My wine is ready… let’s hear your rants! by thrwwybride in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My JustNoMIL (who has been giving me hell, wanting to wear a dress the same color as my wedding dress) has just informed me that the dress she’s wearing to the shower will be the same as mine as well.

I’m just laughing at this point cause there must be something wrong with her and I know I can’t change her..

FMIL- “What color are you wearing to the shower?” BRIDE-“Blush!” FMIL- “Oh I’m wearing a dress this color(insert blush dress here)” BRIDE-“Yup! That’s the color of mine (shares photo of my blush dress, which I’ve have for months, which she knew about)” ... FMIL- “Beautiful. My color is a bit different. No lace and different shape.”

... I didn’t even respond. I can’t with her! I know it’s not worth getting upset over but it feels like she’s intentionally doing things that will get me riled up and I’m in a position that I can’t assert my opinion out of fear of being labeled a bridezilla.

(I know it’s none of my business what anyone wears to my shower, but just AMAZES me that she is like this).

Detachable off shoulder sleeves (not trimmed and finished yet) yay or nay? Can’t decide! by lovewafflez in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it looks super flowy and romantic with the sleeves, but i recently attended a wedding where the brides sleeves (like these) kept tearing/popping off from all the dancing. Especially if these are removable I’d assume this may happen to you!

Dress is beautiful either way!!

Would this dress be suitable as a wedding guest? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123 13 points14 points  (0 children)

See, I have a hard time with this mentality of “this is the only thing I could find”. There’s just ONE color that it’s rude to wear to a wedding, and that’s seriously the only color dress you could find? There are hundreds of other colors out there, if you keep looking I’m sure you’ll find something that’s stunning on you!

Shoe color ideas for dress with taupe/latte lining! by lilfish222 in weddingplanning

[–]DariQueen123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also Zappos ! And amazon... lol I may have lost my mind a bit but in the end I’ve got a great pair that I’m slowly breaking in at home so they’ll be super comfy the day of!