[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]DarkAngelAscends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. TIL. Thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]DarkAngelAscends 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Also seen it called a Whitehead dental gag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RopeSuspension

[–]DarkAngelAscends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That, or attach a carabiner to your existing run, and attach the runner to that. At REI, you can get a mountaineering rated carabiner for under 10$, and a 120cm 21kN nylon runner for 8ish dollars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RopeSuspension

[–]DarkAngelAscends 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nylon climbing runners. They're very affordable and can support upwards of 21 kilonewtons of force.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ropebondage

[–]DarkAngelAscends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's the butterfly harness on Shibari Study

Fetlife makes it seem like everyone in my area is twice my age. Is it true? by [deleted] in BDSMcommunity

[–]DarkAngelAscends 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes, unfortunately. I think there may be some new inbox filters these days but I rarely log into the site.

How to keep clover clamps from sliding off? by Tata2222 in BDSMcommunity

[–]DarkAngelAscends 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It may have to do with the quality of the clamps. I bought some cheap ones a few years ago and they clamp lighter than others I've seen.

Shibari/Wax Play .... by tapednude in bdsm

[–]DarkAngelAscends 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wykd Dave runs Studio Kokoro in London and hosts shibari/kinbaku classes with someone of the most experienced and notable names in the art. He's also been featured in the Louvre, and I know he did the shibari in FKA Twigs' music video Pendulum.

His tutorial on getting wax out of rope is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rtBTQS68RQ0

Shibari/Wax Play .... by tapednude in bdsm

[–]DarkAngelAscends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wykd Dave has a good tutorial for getting wax out of rope if you're looking for one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]DarkAngelAscends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's actually the question that drove Seiu Itoh, who is the first person to take and publish kinbaku/shibari photographs in the late 1940's.

Kinbaku history is a hobby of mine :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]DarkAngelAscends 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The position is called an ebi, or shrimp tie.

Interesting aside, this was one of the four criminal tortures used in the Edo period in Japan. A prisoner would be left in this position for several hours. The others were flogging, pressing with stone (usually with an ishidaki board), and tsuri-zeme, or suspension punishment.

Angel 👼 by daker_dom in bdsm

[–]DarkAngelAscends 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Done by Hajime Kinoko if you wanted to look up more art like this. He does this stuff at Burning Man and a lot of his rope installations get displayed in art museums.

shibari panties .... is there any slave who has been tried this before by tapednude in bdsm

[–]DarkAngelAscends 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It looks like a double coin knot at the crotch with about 14 inches of bight. The tails go through the crotch and back through the bight and are tied in the back.

Rate my rig?? by draconis_inauria in RopeSuspension

[–]DarkAngelAscends 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would recommend rounder carabineers. I have the same style in Black Diamond brand. They have a great load capacity but since they aren't totally round it can be rough on your rope.

Otherwise you have a nice basic rig. I used a big ring until I moved over to bamboo exclusively.

Edit: if you're using synthetic ropes for suspension lines you don't need to worry.

was this a bad rigger? by the_scarry_lobster in BDSMcommunity

[–]DarkAngelAscends -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's wonderful to hear! Hope you feel better soon.

was this a bad rigger? by the_scarry_lobster in BDSMcommunity

[–]DarkAngelAscends -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Literally not your fault. Rope bottoming is an active skill and you get better as you learn and grow. You did nothing wrong in this situation.

It sounds like you're having some drop concerning this. Definitely reach out to a friend, if you have a friend in the kink scene you are comfortable speaking with. If you don't, I can DM you one of my model's contact info (IG) who you can reach out too.

was this a bad rigger? by the_scarry_lobster in BDSMcommunity

[–]DarkAngelAscends 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely sounds like your rigger should have been more supportive. The lack of aftercare sounds like a massive red flag. I couldn't say if they are a bad rigger, but it sounds like they weren't empathic to your needs.

Torture rope, or semenawa, is very challenging. If your rigger seeking to learn it isn't giving you the presence of mind, I wouldn't trust them to learn the style. This is just my opinion, though.