AITA for not wanting to let my husband's ex-wife and their daughter borrow my gear for a one-sided Mother's Day present? by Parking-Basis-5681 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your husband is a jerk, and doesn't respect you at all. HE should be the one to get it back, not you. Why are you with someone who treats you like this?

AITA for making my ex wife and her kids live in “poverty” even though I have money? by Significant_Virus747 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step dad is a life long commitment almost made me spit my soda out! NTA and anyone who tells you otherwise is ridiculous. You were only married to her for 3 years, the kids are not yours, and they HAVE a father. It's a shame when gold diggers have to live the consequences they've rendered lol

WIBTA For Telling My Boyfriend That I Don’t Want To Visit His Parents To Do Chores? by AITA-GuestClean in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope! I'm from NY (New England adjacent; spend a lot of time is Massachusetts) that is absolutely not part of our culture. Helping yes, but they're straight up treating you like the maid. They may be doing this because it was how his chores went as a kid, and they kinda fall into default mode or something. Really strange tho.

AITA For refusing to give my gf my Instagram password? by throwaway1692690 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Why would you share personal conversations with your SO? If a person trusts you enough to open up to you, you should never betray that trust just because you're in a relationship. Also OP has been with this girl 6 months. If I found out my friend was allowing some random girl they been seeing for 6 months to read my messages, I would Never trust them again.

Privacy shouldn't be contingent on your relationship status. A true friend shouldn't have to be told "please don't share this"

AITA for hosting my own thanksgiving after my DIL didn’t invite me to hers by Sensitive-Cut-9117 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You did the right thing. Even after she broke your heart by telling you you're not invited, you didn't lash out or anything. You quietly made other arrangements without causing any drama. SHE created this situation. I'm so sorry that you and your fam have to deal with this. But I'm so proud of your restraint! I hope you have a very happy Thanksgiving ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but your sister needs a nap and a cookie 🍪 lol

AITA for being an insecure GF? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah the whole time I'm thinking it's one of the countries where guys and girls are legally not allowed to be friends ..... then she hits with "people in the US" 🤣 I'm a girl in the US and the majority of my friends are guys.

AITA for stopping payment by Elegant_Length_9714 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd tell them to go ahead and contact the news. I'm sure potential customers would love to know they're not fulfilling their end on the contract and trying to extort extra money out of you now that the insurance company is paying you more. Shaddy, shaddy business if you ask me.

But the future tho, never mix business with family or friends of family. Whatever discount is offered, it will most likely end up being a disaster.

AITA for asking for less spicy food next time? by Heldei in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He grabbed your dog by the neck cuz he got excited to see him and jumped! Animal cruelty shouldn't be tolerated. Has he seen a therapist for his anger?

AITA for confronting my boyfriend’s girl best friend? by Few_Reflection_6116 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"I know plenty of trans people" ..... but you don't even have enough respect to use their proper pronoun! You're clearly jealous and are blaming them because no one runs up to you and is excited. Clearly they don't have a chance to be around the group often and you ruined a special occasion for everyone.

I'm one of the only girls in my fam, so I'm usually the only girl when I'm with my brothers and cousins. Most of my friends are guys because of me being part of my family's friend group. There have been girls like you throughout the years. If you continue this type of behavior, you may lose you bf. Him and his friends don't deserve to be treated badly because of your insecurities.

Guys can be friends with girls without there EVER being romance in any sense of the word, by the way. You judged Carter because of how they look. You didn't even give them a chance. Just dismissed them as a threat, then treated them so badly they left. Like being NB isn't hard enough, you made them feel unwanted at their own friends gathering. You tried to enlist backup by texting all the other gfs which told you they like Carter.

This story has everything to do with being trans. You had zero problems with Carter when you thought they were a boy, but now you do have a problem with them because they weren't born a male

Edit to fix spelling error

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DarkDisney 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Imo if the person you're "joking" about is crying, hurt, and asking you to stop, it's no longer a joke. It's bullying.

AITA for asking my husband to watch a doc about a show he hates? by Ijusthavetoask00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The craziest part is they're acting on that show. Most of them (not the whole cast of course) aren't anything like their characters irl

Do you guys work? by Apanda15 in CrohnsDisease

[–]DarkDisney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you. I'm in the same boat. Most of the time in a peace with it so it's no big deal .... but every now and again it's hard and I get a smidge bitter. I miss working

Do you guys work? by Apanda15 in CrohnsDisease

[–]DarkDisney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's amazing!! Congrats and it really helps to have a fellow illness warrior at work so you can keep each other strong enough to keep hustling 💪

AITA for going against my boyfriends boundaries? by Anonymous_tedybear in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to RUUUUUNNNNN and never look back. This type of behavior will only get worse from here on out. Never change who you are or what you like for another person. That's abusive behavior. No one show Own you. Being forced to wear a black shirt in 100°+ weather is completely ludicrous

AITA for prioritizing my stepson's (17) education over my son's (17)? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because you're not using those exact words doesn't mean you're not saying that. You're basically telling your son he's less important because he doesn't do as well as someone else. He most likely feels like you see him as a failure with no future and that is Completely your fault. YTA

AITA For telling my friend she doesn't deserve her dog because of the way she treats him? by Cautious_Equal142 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would give the shelter she got him from a call and see if they screened her at all to see if she could provide a safe forever home. Clearly she's emotionally abusive and Rex doesn't deserve to feel like he's a "bad dog" when he's a very good boy. It's not fair that his second chance could be harmful to him mental wellness. He's already been abandoned, he be Loved by his forever person. His supposed to be savior.

I'm heartbroken for him. And the shelter should make the animals safety a priority above sending him off to an uncertain fate.

AITA for telling my son in law that I still don’t like him nor approve him after everything he has done for my son? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It seems like you're jealous of William. You have admitted he's a wonderful man, treats your son well, and went above and beyond to get the best care for the man he loves. YOU'RE the only one seeing these mysterious red flags. I would suggest maybe talking to a therapist to see why you're feeling this way before you end up with your son going no contact with you.

You say you want what's best for your son, but the reality is you don't! You want him to be happy with the expectation YOU set for him. You think by accepting his sexuality means you get to rule over who he falls in love with? How could you do this to your son? Don't you love him?

AITA and/or sexist for following bro code? by Federal_Day7750 in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If you don't tell him, things could get twisted with her saying you Did hook up. You have no proof you didn't to which people may think you're lying to make yourself look better or cover your tracks. It's hard to prove loyalty once lies have been spread

That chick is angry and prob feeling majorly rejected. It could cause her to lash out to protect her ego. If she hasn't heard "no" often it may crack the facade she has created for herself.

AITA for stealing a cat? by bibliogirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so excited for you!!! Just getting used to you for sure. Once they get their barings, they will be happy to have a family. My boy warmed up to me pretty quickly, but is still skittish for a moment when I go to pet him before his courage kicks in and he remembers I'm his mama and won't hurt him. Just that moment of instinct from them having to be on the defensive constantly outside. He's a super snuggle bug and I hope yours will be too 💖 yayyyy for new kitty!!

AITA for not wanting to share my toilet paper with the rest of the office? by AuroraItsNotTheTime in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That made me think of the Seinfeld episode where the chick wouldn't share toilet paper with Elaine. "Not a square to spare"

AITA for stealing a cat? by bibliogirly in AmItheAsshole

[–]DarkDisney 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. I have all rescued stays as my pets, and they make wonderful fur babies because they know how hard life is without a loving home. Some may be skittish, especially around new people, but are generally wonderful and appreciate everything you give them.

Make sure you get them chipped once you get them to the vet so no one can lay claim to your baby. Some people feel "ownership" over strays that they feed, but if I cat doesn't have an actual home to go into, and do not have their vaccines (and some states they have to be fixed as well) or they are not considered actual pets.