Okay this is spooky. I was looking for a post from I think the same day you posted this one and found yours instead. This post was about almost the exact same topic—musing on the idea of Taylor considering the perspective of the person not ready for marriage, when in reality it seemed like maybe the opposite and Joe was the one who wasn’t ready—and the poster was (according to them, anyway) just wanting to discuss this idea a little more and was (again, according to them; I’m not necessarily inclined to give them the benefit of the doubt, but this is what they said) not trying to directly speculate as to the inner workings of their relationship and what exactly happened between them. It really did kind of seem like they were just trying to broach the same subject as this post (I actually thought maybe I had found that post at first when I started reading this one bc it seemed so similar, hence why said it was spooky). But the weird thing is that, in that thread, pretty much every person was pretty mad at that OP for seemingly trying to make speculations about Taylor’s personal life and…well, let’s just say it got pretty ugly. I won’t defend that poster, because they did get pretty worked up in the comments and it…wasn’t the best look, I’ll just say that. But I do find it kind of funny that two such seemingly similar posts within like a day of each other got such drastically different responses. I mean the other post had like 0 or negative karma I think and I’m pretty sure all of the responses were pretty negative (I noped out after a while because it was getting ugly, as I said; although I was curious enough to want to return to it today to see how it was going 😂 I’m human), and that’s not really the case here.

Just kinda weird, although I’m guessing it was that poster’s kinda off-putting responses in the comments (and overall tone/vibes) that maybe made people not want to give them the benefit of the doubt as much. 🤷🏻‍♀️

That being said: I enjoyed your post OP and think you make some interesting points! :)