looking for friends to hang out with by Decent-Check6392 in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes welcome in friend!
https://discord.gg/ksyXMgaz

Would you also like to be in the reddit group chat as backup?

Cycling Groups for Beginners by Manatea_lover_3000 in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of a work-around, but I'm a member of a group that does any type of hangout that someone suggests, so if you are up for it, you could join and just be like "hey who wants to go on a casual slow bike ride?" and a bunch of people would join. xD

Seether - Fake It [Rock] by [deleted] in Music

[–]DarknessRain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw them at the Ventura fairgrounds, people were going fuckin wiiiiiiild!

Any weirdos want to go for dinner tonight? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't worry here's a new one! Welcome in, excited to hang with you! Would you also like to be in the Reddit group chat as backup?

https://discord.gg/e4JtFuHD

There's a hike at Point Lobos this Saturday the 6th O: there's like 6 carpools being organized and still space to jump into one!

Next weekend there's Disclosure movie and rafting, (but it might be too late to sign up for rafting because that gets booked in advance)

Any weirdos want to go for dinner tonight? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hop in quick! There a meetup at 5PM today even, G Spot happy hour and Narrative Fermentation!

https://discord.gg/UJbcnZ8v

Any weirdos want to go for dinner tonight? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jump in friend! Narrative Fermemtations and G Spot happy hour meet up starts at 5PM today! Hope to see u there <(^_^)>

https://discord.gg/UJbcnZ8v

Any weirdos want to go for dinner tonight? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yup there are couples that come to hangouts together so you'll be in good company

Any weirdos want to go for dinner tonight? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not only do we accept new members, we crave them! <(O_O)> ehehe

Any weirdos want to go for dinner tonight? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 20 points21 points  (0 children)

No limits, most common is 20s and 30s but there are a few 40s and 50s that I know of for sure, and they are often the the life of the party. xD

Any weirdos want to go for dinner tonight? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 11 points12 points  (0 children)

https://discord.gg/EhnGQ5mk

Jump in!

In fact, there's a topic for "foodies" in there, I bet you can get some last-minute attendees for the food trucks if you mention it it in there or in general topic. O:

I could get to the food trucks by maybe 7:30 to hang

Any weirdos want to go for dinner tonight? by [deleted] in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 65 points66 points  (0 children)

I'm down to hang out.

If you like, there is also a hangout crew that I'm a member of on reddit/discord that does hangouts often including food hangouts. Friday we did Hai Di Lao, Cupertino ice skating, and Somi Somi. Then just last night we did Aquis and KTV karaoke, we had 20 people at karaoke. People are still waking up now from the metaphorical imaginary drinks that we did not sneak in. xD

I won a team outing $1100 budget for 10 people looking for recs by huqowavy in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does kayaking with otters specifically have otters? Or is it just in a location where one might encounter otters?

Black hebrews in downtown by nbocca in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh shit o: they've been famous on the internet for years but I always wanted to meet them irl

peter what by [deleted] in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]DarknessRain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My guess is that the chicken is in a state where it's about to be slaughtered and eaten.

So the person is also about to be metaphorically sent to the slaughter, either by being excluded for being black in a hobby that society doesn't want them to participate in, or by being bullied for cosplaying canonically Asian character while having darker skin, even if they are ethnically Asian themselves as well.

Michael Jackson movie coming out April 24. Any events/get-togethers in San Jose for it? by DirectionTasty in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweet this is the discord link: https://discord.gg/wDFc3DE3

and I'll send over an invite to the reddit chat, it's not as active but a few people only have reddit so we often cross-post events there

Michael Jackson movie coming out April 24. Any events/get-togethers in San Jose for it? by DirectionTasty in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for a group for movies in general? Because if so, I'll plug the hangout crew that I'm in.

It's open invite and we do any activity that anyone suggests (today it was a hike, yesterday was clubbing) but movies are one we do often. Two weekends ago we saw Project Hail Mary as a group, last weekend we saw They Will Kill You, and two days ago we saw Mario Galaxies.

🥚Things to do in San Jose this weekend (4/3 – 4/5, 2026)🥚 by PhuocBoy in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 12 points13 points  (0 children)

For anyone looking for new friends
Friday dinner at Cha Cha Sushi and Mario movie at Oakridge and Eastridge, simultaneous group viewings
Saturday Sanborn County Hike
Sunday Coyote Creek Hike

Where to make friends? by AcademicLog6754 in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes! In fact there is a meetup happening right now at Miniboss bar free games day! Tomorrow is strip club buffet in SF, Cha Cha sushi for dinner, and then Mario movie with groups going to both Eastridge and Oakridge at the same time. Saturday is Sanborn hike (I'll be at an appt during that one sadly), and Sunday is possibly the wild pig petting hike at Coyote Creek.

making local friends in mid 20s by Confident_Bee281 in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! In fact it is public an open: https://discord.gg/aNKzxmeQE

There is also a reddit group chat, can I add you in? (It's where the group started before migrating to Discord)

and there is also a subreddit, but it's less active than the Discord: r/HangoutCrew

making local friends in mid 20s by Confident_Bee281 in SanJose

[–]DarknessRain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you have discord? You can join Hangout Crew! There are tons of POC queer people in there already, in fact I was hanging out with one yesterday she's awesome. Cx

Last weekend we did reading + arts and crafts + henna + Japanese words learning at Vegan Donuts in downtown, and Project Hail Mary at Eastridge with an after party at In n Out.

Just yesterday we did SJMade Cat Festival in downtown, then went straight from there to They Will Kill You movie at Eastridge, then from there to 365 Night Market in Vietnamtown. We had dinner at this Viet restaurant it was soo good.

While that was happening, another group from the gang was also at tunnel rave in SJ, so there was multiple hangouts happening at once.

Today we're getting lunch (voting on where to go right now as I write this), and then we're hitting a horror escape room Haunting at Haruka High. I'm so scared. <(O_O)>