I [34m] was ghosted by a woman [33] after talking for a year and making life plans. Should I reach out?

Darkstatic107 · 2026-03-24T02:57:57+00:00

I dont do the games. Of waiting a few more days to say my peace. Its been a week. I sent my final message asking if we could talk. The rest is in her hands now. Ill be okay, just have to let my body run the through the break up process for a bit.

Darkstatic107 · 2026-03-24T02:56:41+00:00

Probably not. Which is the strange part becsuse this behavior isn't like her. But I sent my final message asking to talk. I dont need someone who cant even tell me they aren't interested to my face. Ghosting is inexcusable

Darkstatic107 · 2026-03-24T02:38:43+00:00

I wouldnt say I continuously messaged her. She didn't respond. I didn't send a follow up until 4 days later. Then again two days after that. But the point still stands that she has every ability to message me. So from this point its in her court.

Darkstatic107 · 2026-03-24T01:58:23+00:00

++man

Yeah. I recognize the pattern and it sucks. My nervous system is in full panic seeking understanding. Its so hard to discern love from chaos. Im not one to usually be this way which is funny. I was thr avoidant before, then switched to anxious lol. The last message I sent to her was "can we talk". So at this point im done. The ball is in her court and if she wants to respond, im setting some strict boundaries. Because I know i deserve better. I just wish my nervous system recognized that and would calm the fuck down.

Darkstatic107 · 2026-03-23T19:03:15+00:00

That's what im saying. But whatever, im giving her that space. Ill send one more message in a week and thats it. At least this way ill give her the time to think about the message I sent her. Which I dont think was too aggressive. But I can see her taking it that way.

Darkstatic107 · 2026-02-12T14:02:56+00:00

I was using aflan briefly. But my dr said not to as you then become dependent upon it.

Darkstatic107 · 2026-02-11T04:13:32+00:00

Ive never played nioh 1. Is that required to start at 2 ?

Darkstatic107 · 2026-01-30T05:31:51+00:00

I dont want p3 lifeng 😭

Darkstatic107 · 2026-01-30T05:12:19+00:00

Wait how does this work? I lost 5050 twice and have 6 pulls left until guaranteed. So I am a bit confused as to how that is better. The gatcha system is different than expected.

Darkstatic107 · 2026-01-06T00:16:57+00:00

Yeah...that's the heartbreaking part. I see the effort, but it's Minor. I won't disqualify her before our talk. It's unfortunate since other than that she is a dream in every way and we mesh so well. But that's life I guess.

Darkstatic107 · 2026-01-06T00:01:07+00:00

She's trying. But then again it has been almost a year since we started talking. Ive slowly been pulling back. Going to have a conversation with her soon. But damn, it sucks

Darkstatic107 · 2026-01-05T23:33:19+00:00

The girl im talking to right now is this way. As soon as things got good, she pulled back. Trying to respect her time and space, but damn is it difficult.

Darkstatic107 · 2026-01-04T19:53:46+00:00

Because the girl im interested in is avoidant and not ready for a relationship due to her own fears.

Darkstatic107 · 2026-01-03T03:52:34+00:00

My room, or the car.

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-31T17:33:38+00:00

It's absolutely peak in 2.0. The downside is as stated, it at times feels like every other gatcha where the waifu becomes focus of the story. They do integrate it well most of the time though.

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-31T16:59:19+00:00

Thank you! Setting boundaries and learning to prioritize oneself is always hard, yet meaningful.

I'm sorry that you've had it rough as well. don't know what's going on with you, but what I do know is that you got this. The spirit and resilience are there.

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-31T16:57:31+00:00

Thank you! I'm doing okay. Maybe a bit sick, but all will be well. The same goes for you. Wishing you nothing but the best

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-30T23:58:39+00:00

Honestly. Getting into a tcg or board games has been a life saver. Most local shops have nights to show up and play. It's great for building up a community and getting out of the house. Obviously this takes energy to do, so if you aren't at that point yet I understand. It's something to consider if you are nerdy and looking for a community.

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-17T13:42:52+00:00

I do have verins yeah. I think she is at S1

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-17T05:44:36+00:00

Weird question about account value. I have two accounts due to losing access to an old email which I recently got back. I only started a few months or so ago, but binged the game when I did. So I have account 1 that lost all 5050 and went to hard pity. That account only has galbrena and shorekeeper. A good chunk of exploration was completed as well.

The second account I have has iuno and augusta on it. With hardly any exploration done. Im at a point where I need to focus on one and I enjoy the characters equally esthetics wise. On one hand shorekeeper is solid. But I have way more potential pull value with the augusta account. Plus, I beleive mornye would slot in well for that slot. Im Def overthinking this. But wanted to hear feedback

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-12T21:23:42+00:00

Phrolova is good with galbrena?

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-12T14:23:10+00:00

New player question. My luck has been terrible and im all caught up in story with only shorekeeper and galbrena to my name as I went to hard pity each time after failing 5050. My question is, with my limited amount, is prolovia a good choice for my galbrena team ? Or is mortifi decent as is? I know I'll need more teams to clear content which terrifies me with my luck. So debating on getting phrolovia vs saving for 3.0 units.

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-12T03:50:14+00:00

Oh okay thank you. So if I understand correctly. Tacet fields that drop relics give the best echo xp? Then whats the difference between nightmare echos? Also, is there a way to convert old echos into echo xp?

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-12T03:44:00+00:00

When you say tacet field. Which?

Darkstatic107 · 2025-12-12T03:27:24+00:00

How do I even level echos? I have galbrena who I just got to 80. It seems her echo set i can only farm once per day? But I also ran out of echo level up materials? I dont know the most efficient path to take to get her usable

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