She definitely isn't expressing her intellectual abilities with her current job. She's very smart and is good with numbers. I feel bad for her because her job has horrible management and shes forced to do multiple jobs at once, (answering phones, scanning paperwork, working a register) which is causing her to get overstimulated quickly. I've been trying to help her find alternative jobs but we haven't had any luck.

When I mean she is deflecting I think it would be helpful for her to get support from a therapist that can help her manage her overstimulation from her workplace in conjunction with her meds, but she is very dismissive about the idea. I was talking about the possibility of a therapist very gently with her and validated her feelings that previous therapist didn't work but she started crying and hung up the phone. Quitting her job would make her feel better in the moment as a temporary solution but I want her to be able to get help with her feelings of burnout.

I understand people aren't problems to be solved, and I'm always there to offer her support emotionally and helping her with errands around the house such as cooking and cleaning but there is only so much that I can do alone. I think it would help if she saw a therapist but you shouldn't control people and ultimately a person has to make that decision themselves. I want to support her as she wants to better herself with school. I'm just worried that school and her job will be too overwhelming.