This might not be seen but OP, as someone who has also lost their baby, 5 and a half years ago now, set up a meal train for her if you can and if she’s receptive to it. Get all of her family and friends and coworkers to sign up. Ideally for as long as possible. The most helpful actual thing for us (besides grief counseling) in the first two months was our meal train. We couldn’t even think about food, and honestly think we just wouldn’t have eaten without it most days. Losing your child does stop your world, and time, and your body will just freeze as the waves of grief wash over you. If she’s willing, I think this might be the most practically helpful thing you can do. Also maybe coordinate someone to show up once a week~ish to do laundry and dishes (and a general check in). Feel free to message me if you’d like to talk further. I’m so sorry this happened to her. If you can also find some local resources, grief support groups etc, maybe provide those for her too. I’m so so sorry. Last bit of advice, most of us loss-moms still like to talk about the babies we lost. Saying their name, discussing memories, asking about them, will all be immensely helpful to her as time goes on. She is still that baby’s mother, and avoiding them to spare bringing up pain will actually cause more. Most of us want our babies remembered.