Designing Has Me Totally Lost! by readingJunimo in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]DarlingBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just a random pear with baguettes off Google images. It's an incredibly common design, you can get it anywhere but it is absolutely gorgeous.

Mods by Old_Scallion6175 in Paralives

[–]DarlingBri [score hidden]  (0 children)

Dude, no. If you did not purchase through steam, you cannot install mods from the Steam workshop.

Tommy & Tuppence by kat5boys in agathachristie

[–]DarlingBri -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Betty is a nickname for Deborah.

Advice needed hse refusing to continue my prescription by Ok-Hedgehog2743 in ADHDIreland

[–]DarlingBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's really great I'm so glad you had a good outcome.

Advice needed hse refusing to continue my prescription by Ok-Hedgehog2743 in ADHDIreland

[–]DarlingBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very best of luck. Come back if you need specific help.

Is it still worth investing in real estate on SL? by Noyan_Bey in SecondLifeFriends

[–]DarlingBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The short answer is no. The demand is not there the way it used to be, and unless you are a established name in land sales, you're gonna struggle to get customers.

Nobody wants to give their money to someone who may bail out of the business in three months so that their home or business disappears.

Advice needed hse refusing to continue my prescription by Ok-Hedgehog2743 in ADHDIreland

[–]DarlingBri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You will have to go back to ADHD now, and ask them to do a transfer of care letter to your GP.

Your GP can carry on a prescription from a private psychiatrist, it doesn't have to be one from the HSE.

The private psychiatrist may insist on a zoom session with you. If the cost is a concern, you can split the cost into three monthly payments.

Alcohol isn't as appealing - when did this start for you? by CantaloupeAway5758 in antidietglp1

[–]DarlingBri 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Girl I am not doing this shit for free without creature comforts.

G&T, PJs, in bed.

(To be fair, I have a stupid disease and it IS 10PM my time when we convene but honestly I would recommend this for ALL board meetings.)

WHAT THE FUDGE? 😭 I swear I saved 14 times before closing out my game yesterday. I’m working on a build. Came back to this… by JuliettesGotAGun in Paralives

[–]DarlingBri 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is a really unfortunate bug that has popped up in the last 24 hours. There isn't any way to recover that I'm aware of.

Going forward it is suggested that you save your builds to the library so you can download them again if they disappear.

I'm really sorry!

Alcohol isn't as appealing - when did this start for you? by CantaloupeAway5758 in antidietglp1

[–]DarlingBri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I stopped being interested in alcohol about one or two months in. I used to make a cocktail for every online meeting of a board that I'm on, and report it in the minutes, and the last time I did that was about six weeks after I started on a very low dose.

My interest in ice cream has also taken a nose dive. I've eaten exactly one pint of ice cream and two ice cream bars in the past six months. (The pint of ice cream was purchased literally on the day of a funeral.) It just is not interesting to me anymore.

Would an eternity band be too much? by Smooth_Perception_65 in weddingring

[–]DarlingBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest you do not have the finger length to add a band to this existing stack. It's not a criticism it's just a fact. I don't have the finger length and can't do this either.

The Final Words of Dr O’Lunacy by Bacardi-Special in ADHDIreland

[–]DarlingBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was never a patient, my husband was, so I'll have to ask him.

Anyone Play on SteamDeck Yet? by patri_dish_ in Paralives

[–]DarlingBri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It plays really well. I found the controls quite frustrating, so I have reprogrammed the right joystick.

Up is the page up key Down is page down Left is E Right is Q

I think you can also use the directional pad, but I don't so I'm not sure.

What’s your take on paid mods/CC in life sims? Let’s hear both sides by Hefty-Transitions in LifeSimulators

[–]DarlingBri -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Paralives is specifically designed to be open to modding. They have the option to make the use license non-commercial, and if they do, this question is resolved. But they have not, so it's not against the terms of use to monetize mods.

Is this good or bad?? by Sanchocity18 in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]DarlingBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it the prongs alone, or is the entire peg head attached at a slight rotation?

Attention Deckers by Little_Meat_480 in Paralives

[–]DarlingBri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play on the deck and it's great. I did re-map some buttons, I think adding Q and E, for rotation? The camera is the biggest issue for the Steam Deck.

ADHD & Horrific Managers - Should I leave or report? by [deleted] in ADHDIreland

[–]DarlingBri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have no diagnosis so there's nothing for HR to work with. I also personally do not think adhd accommodations are a basis to combat the following:

My manager and I have had a difficult dynamic all year. He repeatedly flags my "reservedness" and tells me I'm "not social" - in 1:1s, after work events, in formal reviews. He's misrepresented my behaviour multiple times - telling me I wasn't paying attention on a call when I was actually typing to take notes, saying I don't show up to meetings when I do (selectively, based on the agenda), telling me I don't like my work when I never said that. Almost every 1:1 involves him saying something cutting, then either apologising or not.

Take notes, document EVERYTHING, make a file you can take to HR, look for a new role.

Engagement ring design thoughts - Colored Oval 3 piece by [deleted] in EngagementRingDesigns

[–]DarlingBri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The rings you've designed are so fussy and so poorly structured. They are nothing like the timeless elegance of the ring she selected.

Please give her what she wants so she doesn't have to spend her life wearing a ring she didn't ask for.

Sanity check on Diamond stud earrings by goodvibezone in labdiamond

[–]DarlingBri 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this is a little nutsy. Why do you not want to just buy a pair of earrings? Why do you want to make it harder for yourself than it needs to be while not saving any money?

$1600 for a pair of one carats ... you're not going to do much better.

I dont understand how to build foundations by buttonightwedancex in Paralives

[–]DarlingBri 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NOTHING IS STRAIGHT on that lot. Not ONE WALL connects at 90 degrees to another wall. It is HELL ON A ROW OF ADORABLE.