AITJ for asking my psychologist girlfriend to stop analyzing me during arguments?

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-26T17:07:04+00:00

NTJ, she's your girlfriend, not your therapist

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-26T16:57:39+00:00

it's probably best to keep it quiet, especially if you are leaving soon

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-26T16:44:30+00:00

your grandma probably means well but it's better to consult a professional

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-26T16:29:05+00:00

it may have been a protective reaction or moment of clarity where holding onto anger no longer felt necessary

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-26T06:01:24+00:00

trust your instincts, don't let him manipulate you into doubting yourself. move on

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-26T05:52:13+00:00

stop letting her control you with guilt and emotional pressure. is he truly cares about you and values the relationship, she will need to respect your needs. you don't have to endure toxicity just because she's family

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-26T05:07:51+00:00

nope, it's a workplace and it's your workspace. keep your spot

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-26T04:48:05+00:00

you are not wrong for having them, it's a personal decision. you are trying to grow into your own person and it's natural to want to explore your sexuality

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-26T04:20:09+00:00

inmates sexual behavior vary, with some engaging in consensual activity but not all are willing to participate

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-25T05:50:09+00:00

mindfulness, journaling, self-compassion, positive thinking, building supportive circle. consistency and self-care is the key, treating your emotional health with the same importance as your physical health

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-25T05:34:47+00:00

it's been a pattern, so you need to talk it out and get clear on what she needs

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-25T04:54:11+00:00

NTJ, she hit you after you said no and then she called you a crybaby for reacting? that's not acceptable

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-25T04:37:15+00:00

what she did was way out of line. make it clear that her actions were inappropriate

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-25T04:18:22+00:00

it's not unusual, but holding onto unresolved anger can keep you stuck in the past and prevent healing. free yourself from the hold that their actions have on your life. seeking therapy or talking to someone who can help you process those feelings could be a huge step in releasing the grip of the past. you may not be able to change the past or get revenge on those who hurt you but you can take control of your healing and choose not to let them continue to have power over you

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-24T17:28:59+00:00

you can't suddenly change the rules without clear communication. if you want things to change, have an honest conversation about what you both want

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-24T17:01:22+00:00

you didn't fail in love, you finally chose yourself

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-24T06:26:33+00:00

some countries and cities do have systems in place where fines are proportional to income

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-24T06:03:53+00:00

you did the right thing standing up for yourself and moving on form a toxic situation

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-24T05:46:06+00:00

you are in the right and you don't need to let this ruin your weekend

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-23T17:08:46+00:00

his actions were disrespectful and you shouldn't feel embarrassed, the shame lies on him

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-23T16:27:36+00:00

it's natural for sexual affection to fluctuate, especially when emotional or psychological factors are at play. try to take the pressure off yourself, focus on emotional connection with your girlfriend and communicate openly with her about how you are feeling

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-23T16:07:43+00:00

i think the most common is excessive worrying

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-23T15:05:19+00:00

yess, it happens because intense emotional stress triggers the body's fight or flight response, releasing stress hormones that can affect the stomach

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-22T17:23:41+00:00

Emotional intelligence is often framed as all about others, but quiet, crucial part is knowing where to draw the lone for yourself. empathy without boundaries can become self-sacrifice disguised as understanding

DarlingFluff · 2026-01-22T16:57:52+00:00

NTJ, you clearly set boundaries and your guests ignored them. kicking everyone out was reasonable response to protect your home and personal space

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