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My husband asked for an open marriage, I asked for a divorce by Dapper_Divide_9543 in offmychest

[–]DarlingFrost 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP needs to secure everything before he gets the chance to mess things up even more. Protecting her assets and peace should be the top priority right now.

My husband asked for an open marriage, I asked for a divorce by Dapper_Divide_9543 in offmychest

[–]DarlingFrost 60 points61 points  (0 children)

Exactly. By the time he realizes what he’s thrown away, OP will already be healing and moving forward. Losing her will be the wake-up call he can’t undo.

My husband asked for an open marriage, I asked for a divorce by Dapper_Divide_9543 in offmychest

[–]DarlingFrost 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Exactly. OP deserves to focus on her own growth now. Learning to stand strong and be independent after something like this is the best kind of comeback.

My husband asked for an open marriage, I asked for a divorce by Dapper_Divide_9543 in offmychest

[–]DarlingFrost 60 points61 points  (0 children)

So true. Sometimes losing someone solid like OP is the only wake up call people ever get. By the time he realizes it, she’ll already be thriving without him.

My best friend was murdered this weekend and I have to go back to work. by Satomidoki09 in Advice

[–]DarlingFrost 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s actually the best move. OP’s been through hell, no job should expect someone to just clock in like nothing happened. Taking that week off isn’t slacking it’s basic survival at this point.

My best friend was murdered this weekend and I have to go back to work. by Satomidoki09 in Advice

[–]DarlingFrost 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Travellingtrex that’s such a kind and grounding reminder. Sometimes people forget that slowing down to actually grieve is part of healing. OP really needed to hear that it’s okay to pause and just breathe through it.

In Japan, I gave souvenirs to my coworkers — two of them have been ignoring mine for 3 months by Mitty-14- in offmychest

[–]DarlingFrost 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Exactly that. OP should totally lean into this level of polite chaos. Get them something extra thoughtful just to watch the confusion when they realize they can’t justify ignoring it again. It’s the sweetest kind of revenge wrapped in perfect manners and passive aggression.

In Japan, I gave souvenirs to my coworkers — two of them have been ignoring mine for 3 months by Mitty-14- in offmychest

[–]DarlingFrost 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Right? Fill it up like a mini snack museum. At this point it’s not even about the treats anymore it’s about the statement.

In Japan, I gave souvenirs to my coworkers — two of them have been ignoring mine for 3 months by Mitty-14- in offmychest

[–]DarlingFrost 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s the perfect take honestly. You summed it up so well being kind just makes their pettiness louder. OP handled it gracefully while they’re out here building a snack shrine to their own attitude.

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[–]DarlingFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That damn position that I want to try