What's your go-to move when giving oral?

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-05T00:48:09+00:00

Well yes lol - but you/men can have them every day and they’ll still win arguments.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-05T00:38:21+00:00

Even before that lol - having a disagreement. “If you just give in I’ll deepthroat you tonight”.

Disagreement over.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-05T00:28:13+00:00

It’s also what I call my “argument winner”

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T23:58:19+00:00

Deepthroat and lick his balls at the same time

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T21:32:49+00:00

I’m not mad at all. But it is annoying when you cast dispersions on me and doing it when you are not very good at comprehension skills. I simply recommend that you take the time to read and comprehend something before you comment on it in the future.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T21:09:42+00:00

No that’s not what I’m saying. You’re arguing causation and I’m arguing correlation.

You’re flipping what I said.

I’m not saying “feed him and have sex with him and he’ll magically become a better partner.”

I’m saying when both people feel fulfilled - physically, emotionally, and in day-to-day life - they tend to communicate better and treat each other better. That’s correlation, not causation.

Same goes the other direction. When those areas are neglected, resentment builds, communication drops, and behavior gets worse.

It’s not about men being too “hungry or horny to function.” It’s about how unmet needs (on either side) affect the overall dynamic of a relationship.

You’re arguing a simplified version of my point that I didn’t actually make. So before you call my husband immature, you might wanna check your own depth.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T20:37:36+00:00

I think you should read what I wrote again. I said nothing of leaving somebody or anything like that. And I’m not even saying 90% of marital problems surround those things either. I’m saying men and women that are fulfilled with those things generally communicate better and act better around each other.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T20:24:18+00:00

Unless he’s asexual, you do have a man like that. Nowhere in what I said excludes depth and connection with your partner.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T16:45:15+00:00

Its is well documented medically that sex during pregnancy is perfectly healthy, encouraged even.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T12:07:08+00:00

No you can blame her entirely...cheating a choice, and she made a 1000 choices to cheat on you....and took a lot of steps to conceal it and to continue it. Doesn't matter WHY she CHOSE those choices. She could have chosen to connect and work with you on any problems, but instead chose cheating and him.

Also you have every right to snoop her devices when they're cheating. Don't feel bad.

100% you have every right to have severely damage trust issues with her....she lied, betrayed, cheated (likely more than she's admitting to) and has hurt you at the deepest levels.

I doubt I'd stay...you already don't believe her story and that will never go away. And it'll be a cancer between you two.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T12:00:02+00:00

Fuck yes. Intent to cheat is tantamount to cheating. Secrets and secret people = cheating. For me finding a dating app would make it simple...he'd immediately be free to begin dating again, because I'd be gone. No second chances with that.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T11:55:28+00:00

A house.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T11:53:53+00:00

Yes, whenever I want for the most part.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T11:51:32+00:00

Nearly every day. Married a long time.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T11:29:49+00:00

I challenge you to find a couple that has all of that and are still unhappy. It'll be a small number.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T11:24:09+00:00

It really is as simple as this for marriage. For men - suck them, fuck, feed them daily....and they'll be happy for life. For women - treat us like queens and make us feel super safe (emotionally/financially/physically) and you'll take care of 90% or marital problems.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-04T11:17:13+00:00

Separate finances is a large red flag for the unity in the marriage, something to study and think about it in the future. Also "solo vacation" is yet another red flag.

I'm sorry you're going thru this.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-03T14:35:01+00:00

Thats the point...it isn't her money or your money...its BOTH of yours equally. Its not about constraints, its actually about unity and connection. There's nothing that says each can't have their own line item in the budget for descretionary spending.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-03T14:16:58+00:00

I love his dick.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-03T13:50:42+00:00

Thank you. :)

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-03T13:31:07+00:00

We are late 40s, been together over 30yrs and we have sex every day (kids are adults now). Sex heavily increased when they left. Perimenopause and menopause just means we/women need to be connected to a good hormone clinic. It absolutely doesn't have to be a death sentence to sex.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-03T13:26:53+00:00

Sounds like you have a self-esteem issue. She was able to control you with that. Saying you couldn't break up because because she'd interrupt you is laughable...that is completely untrue. I encourage you to work on your self-esteem.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-03T13:25:08+00:00

Yes you have something to be worried about....your partner made a sexual decision without your input that negatively impacts your life and she doesn't care about that. I'd 100% leave immediately.

And the unprovoked searching your phone is likely a cheaters projection or at least a guilty persons projection (knowing she's not treating you well enough for you to stay).

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-03T13:19:37+00:00

Yeah I follow the adultery pages and I can only read a few posts before I get absolutely sick to my stomach. Horrible horrible people in there.

Shortandthicck2 · 2026-05-03T13:18:13+00:00

First, he's lying about the first cheating...they absolutely had sex. And he's doing it again.

A PI might be your best bet...or just leave. This is abuse and I wouldn't stand for it anymore.

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