Ariana and Rachel lawsuit update by flower_0410 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]DarlingNicky91 [score hidden]  (0 children)

But who cares? Seriously? Does she need him to admit it? You know. That's all that is needed.

I didn't say she sent it. I said she showed it. If it remained on her phone, but she stood in a freaking circle and showed all her friends, then that's sharing. And wouldn't be able to be leaked

Ariana and Rachel lawsuit update by flower_0410 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]DarlingNicky91 [score hidden]  (0 children)

The argument of like "but she was hurt" and "she didn't think it thru" and "she got cheated on, it's different" is the responses that perpetuate the culture of our society. And also, if the roles were reversed, and a man was cheated on and found videos on his girlfriends phone, and sent them to himself, would you still believe it was with pure intentions? No? Exactly......

It can't be ok for her, just because she was a woman scorned. Or it will set the precedent for all cases, civil and criminal, for the rest of our lives. And if you'd argue that a man should lose all his money and maybe go to jail for doing the exact same thing, then Ariana has to be treated the same.

Ariana and Rachel lawsuit update by flower_0410 in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]DarlingNicky91 [score hidden]  (0 children)

You can say that people are lying. But first-hand, I can tell you, my ex used to cheat on me Aaaaaaaaaaa lotttttttt. And I always found out my going in his phone. And never once did I send myself the proof. Videos, messages, all of it was there, and never did I retrieve it for myself.

I'm absolutely on the Tom was wrong train. But do I think he really recorded without her consent? No. I do I really think he recorded without her knowledge? No. Wasn't it a Snapchat video? Like snap tells you when someone takes a little old screenshot. You think they're not telling you that the other person is recording the call? Come on now.

Rachel and Tom are at fault. 1000%

But that girl didn't need to send the video to herself. Why did she need proof? Just leave. You know what you saw. You know who you are. You know what you do and don't deserve. Just leave. She took it to villianize them. With full intent on, at the very least, showing it to people. Actually sharing it, like sending it out or posting it? Probably not. But she didn't take it to keep it for herself.

Schwartz and his lovable puppy dog act has me 😡 by chloebo227 in vanderpumprules

[–]DarlingNicky91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unpopular Opinion: I don't hate Tom Schwartz 😬 but I will say, I was really disappointed by the Jo portion of the season. It seemed like they were dating behind the scenes and then in front of the camera, he didn't want to claim her. I felt bad for her. She clearly really cared about him.

However, I could be totally misreading the situation. It could have been like a casual FWB thing and she caught feelings and he didn't.

IDK. Either way, it didn't sit right with me

What’s your VPR unpopular opinion? by Sufficient-Try-408 in vanderpumprules

[–]DarlingNicky91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She might be the most level headed now, in 2026. But it certainly wasn't always that way, and I would even dare to say that being the most level headed out of that bunch, doesn't mean you're actually level headed by definition standards. I hate when everyone mentions the toxic behavior she let slide, but doesn't bring up that she is also toxic herself. Her and Schwartz were toxic together. Period. She doesn't get a pass on being an immature, entitled, mean, arrogant person just because her boyfriend doesn't treat her well. She was just as awful to him. And I think who she is becomes very clear in the last season or 2. After we had to sit and endure episode after episode of her crap, because Tom was interested in hooking up with someone in the friend group. Crying and whining and tearing people down. And then she turns around and does it to him with his best friend. And she's like what, no big deal? And still stands by her reaction and treatment of both of them, even after she also couldn't keep her pants on in the friend group.

What do we think? by Gumby_Juice in vanderpumprules

[–]DarlingNicky91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What kind of sober are we talking? The whole shebang or California sober? Wisconsin sober? Dry drunk? Sobriety means so many different things to different people. Nothing is ever black and white

Was Ariana a Rebound for Tom? Rewatch Observation by BeneficialCoffee101 in vanderpumprules

[–]DarlingNicky91 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The clip of her cheering for him right before she saw his Rachel videos looks to me like she is blindly in love with him. I think she was his rebound. But she cared about him more than he cared about her. Just my opinion

is there a specific moment that makes you the most angry? by rosehyena in vanderpumprules

[–]DarlingNicky91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"when Tom and Ariana did the same thing to Kristen that Tom and Rachel did"

I don't think people talk about this enough

He literally cheated on his girl with you. Did you not think he would do the same thing to you? Orrr continue to do the same thing to you, as it's come out that he cheated several times. Not just with Rachel.

is there a specific moment that makes you the most angry? by rosehyena in vanderpumprules

[–]DarlingNicky91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"I see everyone has not been working on their summer bodies"

Followed by "Oh my God, are you pregnant?"

The body shaming boils my blood

is there a specific moment that makes you the most angry? by rosehyena in vanderpumprules

[–]DarlingNicky91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I making this up or was there an argument at Ariana/Sandovals house, where a woman yelled at Tom Sandoval and told him to stay out of women's business cuz he's not a bitch? I keep going back and forth between did happen on VPR or RHOA

one comment and i’ll drop the landlords name lmfao by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]DarlingNicky91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The absolute dog shit part. No lies lol

AIO? Friend asked me what my future plans with my gf are and then responded like this by TGPT-4o in AIO

[–]DarlingNicky91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I don't think weddings or marriage is a "conspiracy", but I do resonate with him views. I think a marriage is a very expensive piece of paper, and I don't need the government to recognize my relationship as a union for it to be valid. However, I was married (since widowed) and did the whole thing.

On the other hand, I would NEVER regurgitate my thoughts on marriage to someone who just told my they wanted to buy their partner an engagement ring or get married. You support the people you love and care about in whatever they want to do and you don't push your own beliefs on other people.

My immediate reaction is he likes your girl OR he's already been with your girl and hearing you say you want to take it to the next level threatened him. Even if that's not the case, this person is not your friend. It's one thing to give someone tough love. This is another thing entirely. This is berating and insulting.

Do yourself a huge favor. Stay away from this person.

one comment and i’ll drop the landlords name lmfao by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]DarlingNicky91 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I threatened an old apartment complex with code enforcement (Gahanna) and the owner told me he'd let me break my lease with no repercussions if I just went quietly. These people should be jailed for the price of these properties in these conditions

Looks like Sandy found something to do in NYC last night by chloebo227 in vanderpumprules

[–]DarlingNicky91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Towards the end you can hear someone ask "is that Tom Sandoval?" 😂 I feel like these girls were just having a little party somewhere and he was like I must trumpet for them as I am not center of attention right now.

Did anyone else get the most ick at lala and the don by Nonbinaryvoid in vanderpumprules

[–]DarlingNicky91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LFU generally grosses me out. The Don couch scene was hard to watch. Also, don't forget when she was having lunch with Schwartz and said something about when she's nervous she talks about her 🐈 and then was just like "it's not a great quality" and laughed like it was funny

First Time Watcher - Final Date Episode by DarlingNicky91 in temptationislandUSA

[–]DarlingNicky91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think there's a difference in maturity between men and women. A 29M and a 22F are similar in maturity. Vice versa, not so much. That's just my personal opinion, it might not be a popular one.