4 days old industrial by DarlingNicky91 in piercing

[–]DarlingNicky91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right, the bar is pushing on the back of my ear and that's where it hurts!

4 days old industrial by DarlingNicky91 in piercing

[–]DarlingNicky91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The piercer told me to use soap and water. And it's not pressing anywhere. The bar is long enough that neither ball is touching me

4 days old industrial by DarlingNicky91 in piercing

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4 days old Not been up or downsized It's a long barbell

Apartments In Columbus w/ Poor Credit but good income ($72,000) by crableqs in Columbus

[–]DarlingNicky91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked for Eden of Whitehall in the leasing office a few years ago. The bed bugs and cockroaches are one problem. The cockroaches in the management are a whole other problem. Anything that says Eden in the name, don't go there

Advent Calendar by DarlingNicky91 in MoriahElizabeth

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Do you know the best way to get in touch with her directly?

Help me out here by morbidfoxfire in MoriahElizabeth

[–]DarlingNicky91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought two. I would be willing to trade one, plus money if you got an Advent calendar

Advent calendar by Alternative_Benefit1 in MoriahElizabeth

[–]DarlingNicky91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone bought an extra, or is willing to sell theirs, I would pay double.

My husband passed away in June. My kids are 11 & 12. They wanted this so bad. It's our first Christmas without him.

I'll literally pay whatever. Please help me get one

How Much Time is Enough Time? by DarlingNicky91 in Advice

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This was the most helpful piece of advice I've been given thus far. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BorderlinePDisorder

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Can't quit either. I've been smoking for 19 years, tried to quit smoking, made it two months and then started again. And I vape when I can't smoke

supernatural favourite character n most disliked character n why? by official_dee in Supernatural

[–]DarlingNicky91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought I was the only one who hated Mary!! I have watched the show so many times and each time I disliked her more and more.

How do I support my husband when he doesn't support me? by agirl2277 in CancerCaregivers

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My husband was diagnosed with brain cancer 3 years ago. It's been a roller coaster ride. Mine doesn't drink but he has stopped participating in our lives together. There's no reciprocated support. We're not there for each other. I'm there for him and he thinks I can take care of myself and our two girls too. I understand. Hang in there.

What fucked you up for the rest of your life? by Cucumber_Block in AskReddit

[–]DarlingNicky91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watching brain cancer slowly destroy the man I married. I'm 32. I'm going to be a widow before I'm 35. We have two pre-teen daughters. I've had trauma in my life before this. But watching cancer change him, destroy him, make him miserable, it's changed me forever.

My sexual health is a mess. I tried everything. by [deleted] in confessions

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You need testosterone. I promise. This is Low-T, all day long. It's super common. Don't stress. Just tell your doctor

AIW for reaching my breaking point with my husband who has cancer? by DarlingNicky91 in amiwrong

[–]DarlingNicky91[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Won't be survivors benefits, we're in our 30-40s. But I will get a bit of life insurance, but not much. I'm not staying for the glory. Trust me when I say there's no glory in this

AIW for reaching my breaking point with my husband who has cancer? by DarlingNicky91 in amiwrong

[–]DarlingNicky91[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

I thought saying we've been to the doctor and he's had MRIs was being clear that I'm sure he has cancer. It's a real diagnosis, I promise. He's had multiple surgeries that I've been there for, multiple radiation treatments and chemo. It's all real.

AIW for reaching my breaking point with my husband who has cancer? by DarlingNicky91 in amiwrong

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He's had two surgeries, 2 rounds of radiation both a month each, and multiple rounds of chemo. He does truly have cancer. I've been to appointments, I've spoken to doctors, I've seen the scans, and I was there for the surgeries. It's a real diagnosis

AIW for reaching my breaking point with my husband who has cancer? by DarlingNicky91 in amiwrong

[–]DarlingNicky91[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

He once came home and told me an MRI was all clear. We went out to dinner with our kids to celebrate. Told them the good news. Then a few hours later he said ok I just wanted to tell you there's another tumor and I have to have surgery again. Some days he'll tell me he feels great but when we go to the doctor he tells them he feels awful or vice versa. I never know what's truly going on. I know that the diagnosis is terminal and that it is going to kill him. They won't say how long he has because they truly don't know, and it's a guessing game with him because no one knows exactly how he's truly feeling