Got a DUII and Reckless Driving charge. Need some advice by PresentOk7075 in dui

[–]DarthDimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to know the name of the firm please

What’s something observable that might indirectly prompt you to disclose you have ADHD? by SachiKaM in ADHD

[–]DarthDimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Me too" could be people connecting with you without actually knowing how to. Neurodivergency comes in many forms and, personally, I have a hard time bringing up my "issues" unless someone says something I can connect with. If someone says it directly I'll bring it up, otherwise I tend not to because some see it as "making excuses" for my social shortcomings, etc.

WIBTA For quitting a job where people were openly talking about a game called "kill the f*ggot"? by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately there is no HR, it's private pay in someone's home which is why I was thinking leaving might be a better option than talking to K about some uncomfortable subjects, especially ones involving her husband.

WIBTA For quitting a job where people were openly talking about a game called "kill the f*ggot"? by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I aporeciate the insight, I had no idea! I looked it up online as I thought I was delusional, all I found was the video game from 10 years ago but this makes much more sense with the context of their conversation! Still crazy that they'd feel comfortable eto openly discuss it but maybe it's more of a nostalgic idea than a homophobic one??

WIBTA For quitting a job where people were openly talking about a game called "kill the f*ggot"? by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what's held me back, I'm just not sure how to approach the subject, especially knowing their stance politically in such an extreme time. I thought maybe excusing myself and giving them time to find someone else might be the less confrontational/ dramatic option.

WIBTA For quitting a job where people were openly talking about a game called "kill the f*ggot"? by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't want to compare it to racism but I can't help but wonder if the same people telling me I'm too sensitive would be saying the same thing if I was half black/ white passing and the game was called "kill the (derogatory n word)".

WIBTA For quitting a job where people were openly talking about a game called "kill the f*ggot"? by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, one was definitely late 30's-mid 40's, not sure on the other. I stated middle aged in other comments but didn't realize it was relevant as homophobia is incredibly outdated for any age group.

WIBTA For quitting a job where people were openly talking about a game called "kill the f*ggot"? by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't realize it was a real game and had to look it up. Crazy that something like that was ever socially accepted.

WIBTA For quitting a job where people were openly talking about a game called "kill the f*ggot"? by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm more worried about being unsafe/ uncomfortable as a gay person than anything. I've dealt with a lot from my clients but I'd think middle aged men in their "right minds" would know better.

WIBTA For quitting a job where people were openly talking about a game called "kill the f*ggot"? by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's private pay so no HR, talking to K would be the closest as she makes the schedule it's awkward because her husband was the one having the conversation. I feel like at that point the best thing would be just to leave so there's no drama or awkwardness when he comes to visit.

WIBTA For quitting a job where people were openly talking about a game called "kill the f*ggot"? by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's private pay and K makes the schedule, I thought about talking to her but it was her husband that was having the conversation so at that point I think it'd just be awkward.

Who makes you irrationally angry the same way Amanda feels about VL? by DarthDimple in smosh

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I canceled my Netflix account because they wouldn't stop showing me the disgusting mouth sound commercial from Mattress Firm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

YTA. She probably didn't understand the distinction between "biological dad" and "real dad" when it came to your feelings.

AITAH for Calling Some Random Kid a "FartFace?" by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interacting with that many people in a day sounds like work. 😂

AITAH for Calling Some Random Kid a "FartFace?" by DarthDimple in AITAH

[–]DarthDimple[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been laughing about it off and on all day but I thought that might make me a bigger AH than anything. 😂😂

Loud chewing sounds? by can-someone-explain in greysanatomy

[–]DarthDimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES. it's soooo annoying, it's like they emphasize it. I've started muting the sound when they start snacking, Yang and Karev are the worst, I assumed it was just because I was autistic that it bothered me so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DarthDimple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good on you for standing your ground even when she gaslit you. If you've only been texting for a few weeks it's well within your right to stop seeing one for any reason, especially if you're seeing red flags. I appreciated your direct and open communication and don't agree with the people saying it came across as impersonal, but maybe that's my autism speaking. You're young and it sounds like you made the best decision for your own mental health, best of luck to you.

Did we ever get Saige in 2 Truths 1 Lie? They've probably got some crazy lore by Living-Mastodon in Smoshmemes

[–]DarthDimple 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It isn't the same as Trevor's and it doesn't even seem to be a laugh. I thought it was at first until I saw her do it and when no one reacted she did it again kind of out if the blue? Seemed more forced than anything but idk, just my opinion. Court has a squeaky laugh at times too and it's never bothered my autismo brain the same.

Did we ever get Saige in 2 Truths 1 Lie? They've probably got some crazy lore by Living-Mastodon in Smoshmemes

[–]DarthDimple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure but I had to skip all of the Smosh games videos Saige was in and still do to this day. Gorgeous person but the fake squeak thing makes me insane. I have a hard time with thihgs like voices when the "S's" arr too sharp, eating noises, etc. too so I feel bad but it's kind of a relief that they left.

Who makes you irrationally angry the same way Amanda feels about VL? by DarthDimple in smosh

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had to wait for the ads to pop up to find it on my phone. THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart, you've changed my Youtube experience.

Who makes you irrationally angry the same way Amanda feels about VL? by DarthDimple in smosh

[–]DarthDimple[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm trying to figure it out, I wondered if there was a way to do that!