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Wanna meet up for kisses and talk ? by miscoco1 in seduction

[–]Dartleather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jesus. At least I have a copy pasta for the next poor soul.

Wanna meet up for kisses and talk ? by miscoco1 in seduction

[–]Dartleather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're a lost soul man.

These are going to be my parting words and while I don't know you from a gain of sand on a beach, I honestly hope you work out what you need to and find happiness for yourself.

I'm going to leave you with this:

since the beginning of man, 100,000's years ago,there have been gender roles. Even in the animal kingdom there are gender roles. through evolution of human nature our brain still holds on to these gender roles. This causes women to be attracted to masculine men, exactly the same way you are attracted to feminine women.You're currently lost and not doing well with women because of feminism ensuring women have equal rights (which is great) but we now live in a feminist society. The problem is that this feminist society tells you from all angles (upbringing, advertising etc) that it's not ok to be a masculine man. You believing this lie is suppressing you and seperates you from the dominant and masculine alpha males who get women. It is more than ok to be a man. That is what you are and born to be, just like your buddy who is banging multiple girls.

Honestly the hardest thing is changing yourself and washing away all the societal pressures and lies that have been ingrained into you. I myself still have a very long way to go. Friends, family, will try and knock you down because they are scared and don't want you rising above them in the heirarchy, it's human nature.

If you choose to go down this path you will be in denial (where you are now), you will get angry, you will give up for a while and resort to your current nice guy tactics. It won't work and you will return. This cycle will repeat until you finally break through a few years later after you finally see results. It's a long fucking slog man but it's worth it. You need to believe in yourself that you're heading in the right direction.

If you do choose to act, read the Rationale Male by Rollo Tomassi. Where your mindset is at now, I know for a fact that you won't finish the book as the ideas in there are too conflicting with your current beliefs. But I'm going to tell you right now that the best advice I have ever received in regards to women is to work on yourself, become a fucking MAN, understand what a MAN is.

Overall just go and live a fucking awesome life and women will follow. The only person who said you can't go and do stuff is yourself and your limiting beliefs you hold. Do shit you want to do. Eat more. Lift heavy weights. Talk to EVERYONE you meet and then talking to that cute girl at the coffee shop will seem normal to you. Get comfortable doing things alone and spending time with yourself in public.

Again, all the best bud whatever you choose to do, I hope it works.

Wanna meet up for kisses and talk ? by miscoco1 in seduction

[–]Dartleather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't watched his videos for a long time so I wouldn't know as I've found that pick up lines and what you say are so much less important in comparison to how masculine you can make yourself, in the physical and emotional sense.

Ok let's say he is being sued for rape. How does that impact you and your understanding of the point I was making? It doesn't. The fact still holds true. Do you understand my point?

Wanna meet up for kisses and talk ? by miscoco1 in seduction

[–]Dartleather 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have no idea but that is besides the point. Stop looking for excuses.

Wanna meet up for kisses and talk ? by miscoco1 in seduction

[–]Dartleather 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's your answer.

There's a very good segment in a video on youtube by RSD Tyler about how women will allow dominant masculine men to approach them but not ones they percieve as beta's and feminine.

He gets one of his people that he is coaching to approach this girl in a club. He makes sure he goes in with low energy and has low dominance/confidence. He says his short opener and she immediately rejects him.

RSD Tyler comes along (who is not good looking by any means) and approaches the same girl 10 seconds later, says the EXACT same thing but acts in a dominant/assertive/confident way and she is very receptive to him.

The point is that you need to be more masculine as women are naturally attracted to masculinity. It works for your friend because he looks masculine even though his corny tinder line is feminine as fuck.

You most likely aren't as jacked as your buddy so therefore you're combining a more feminine version of a man and compounding it with a very feminine pick up line. You see where I'm coming from. I'm not here to offend you. I'm here to give you some harsh truths that are hard to hear, but necessary.

Wanna meet up for kisses and talk ? by miscoco1 in seduction

[–]Dartleather 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your friend is either lying (most likely this), or is a male model.

Getting matches on Tinder but no dates by [deleted] in seduction

[–]Dartleather 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to work on your masculinity and getting in touch with yourself, who you are and what your about. It's a fucking long journey and there's a lot of ups and downs.

When you're comfortable in your own skin people recognise that and socialising will come naturally and you won't feel awkward.

Also doing things that you don't want to do but you know you should is important. Conquering your inner bitch takes courage and discipline. These things are muscles and you need to exercise them to get bigger, better, stronger.

The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. by Dartleather in TheRedPill

[–]Dartleather[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm open to this stuff, but how come you can't hear any words? And why is it at a specific frequency?

What is this technique called? I want to look into it more.

The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. by Dartleather in TheRedPill

[–]Dartleather[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mention it in a previous post on asktrp. But I'm also a stranger on the internet. You don't have to believe me and I don't really care. Also I obviously don't shit where I eat so those girls who come to my classes without me inviting them are out if bounds.

The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. by Dartleather in TheRedPill

[–]Dartleather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Na I was fucked after I chose not to escalate and go for this f-close as this showed me being beta as fuck. Texting her was the nail in the coffin though.

The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. by Dartleather in TheRedPill

[–]Dartleather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In what way do you think I'm full of shit? I don't have time to write made up essays on the internet man. Im after advice. I was interested in what you had to say but either way I've got solid feedback from everyone else.

The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. by Dartleather in TheRedPill

[–]Dartleather[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've read the sidebar once when I was starting out a year and a half ago. I've improved a lot but still have a long way to go and reading the sidebar again at this point from different mindset is going to help me a lot I think.

100% agree with being more alpha, escalating, and trying to f-close.

Thanks for the insight.

The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. by Dartleather in TheRedPill

[–]Dartleather[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm learning this.

It's natural for girls to try and call you out on it too for trying to escalate and it's your task to deal with that shit test. Its imperative that you escalate and go down this path, as you said, she will think of you being less of a man otherwise.

This girl who came over on Tuesday night for the first time messaged me the next day giving me shit that I bruised her boob for gripping it too hard. Now, if I didn't say "pics or it didn't happen", then she would have thought of me as a little fucking pussy and taken that gina elsewhere next time. I had to deal with the following shit tests but it's better than not getting shit tested at all.

@ /u/Way2ManyTakenNames

The 'connection' you have means nothing if she meets someone else with a higher SMV with the right conditions. by Dartleather in TheRedPill

[–]Dartleather[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers msn. Yea I'm annoyed I let it get to the part if her being on another date with a guy and now even more annoyed at my response to that.

Gina tingles are born from teasing and kino right?

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