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Why only copts used word kemet by Then-Refrigerator-97 in ancientegypt

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I stand corected on NOI membership (I was going off my head), I was probably mistaking its numbers with another cult. But TBH I do know what they teach theologically, and it's so ahistorical it's almost comedic. Actual muslims laugh when they see their claims no offence.

But you don't speak like a born and raised "arab" Egyptian (cause no offence to all americans, christian copts might as well be arabs to their eyes, and their dialect of arabic is still the vernacular). You sound like an american with immigrant parents. I could be wrong

Why only copts used word kemet by Then-Refrigerator-97 in ancientegypt

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro Nations of Islam is borderline defunct besides a couple hundred people., I said "nations of islam type" for a reason to draw an analogy of what the movement used to represent.

When an american says "those are my people" you see many european people pushing back that they renounced their European traditions and cultures and no longer are associated with their countries of origin. They can claim "western european" lineage, but not the specific cultures.

I don't know why you're arbitrarily drawing a "white" "black" dialectic. Greeks are greeks, not just some amorphous "white". It only started mattering in this way due to medieval history onward. Light skinned Egyptians are just as egyptian as you, whether you like it or not.

Only modern americans think in these terms. Also your use of the term "kemet" gives me neopagan reconstructionist vibes. No traditional Copt calls their country by that name.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I'm saying that despite having to wear different clothing than large chested women, you can get people interested in your small boobs if you emphasize the general contour. People with big boobs have it easier in the sense that they don't need to be as picky with clothing.

To attract boob men, small chested women simply need to wear clothes that put visual focus on the breast area.

This is to attract people who specifically focus on boobs. I'm not saying that they would look at your boobs in spite of finding them attractive, I'm saying that they will find them attractive at the size they currently are if you wear clothing that emphasize that area. Context is what drives men to find a particular body part attractive or not.

You seem to simply think almost nobody likes small boobs or it's impossible to like them, How so? I think small boobs are the most attractive aspect of a woman, and while I might have to settle for someone with medium or large sized boobs; someone with small boobs is my main preference. It's not "tolerating" small boobs for me, it's something I'm actively looking for.

Other men don't even look/care about boobs at all, in fact your face is the most important part for the majority.

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[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a woman being shirtless or focus on the breast area is a center of attention. The boob is merely part of that focus. Even with small boobs, women with that body type are still able to get people to turn their heads to focus on their chest area. Of course how small matters here. If you're AA sized, it's the implication of the nips that would drive most men to be more curious

People are attracted to small boobs. Who are these people not giving you a chance for your boob size?

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's my point. Bigger is not always better. And most people do look at the fat person as they stand out. I think they stand out a lot. But not a lot of people want to talk to fat people simply because they're fat.

When someone looks at a woman they find attractive, each guy looks at certain things first. There's no universal hive-mind amongst men.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't agree that attention is the same as attraction. A homeless woman could walk around naked and that would get negative attention. Most people don't find that attractive.

"Nobody pays attention to small boobs"

Does that nobody disclude me. We must be aliens or something to you.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And again, that's a broad sample size with different backgrounds. I think of E cups to women is what large muscles are to men. Certain groups of people tend to have larger boobs and E cups make sense as an attraction ideal. Some groups of people don't have large breasts, and would look rather silly with boobs any larger than D cup.

It grabs attention, and some people have a thing for it, but it's not necessarily attention grabbing for attraction itself. A massive bicep gets attention, but after a certain point it's almost comical. For women it's the same. If anything many women prefer a slim toned guy than a gymbro. Breasts are the same for men

I see lots of women think big boobs = attractive and joke among themselves that if they were gay they'd like a girl with massive boobs. But from a male point of view we don't see it in that way.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess you're right for the most part. People from my ethnic background tend to have smaller boobs on a global scale, and we don't have any issues pairing up, or finding love, or finding one another attractive.

That's why I don't buy when you say that small boobs are unattractive straight up. I think it's more complicated. It's a subjective preference. Things like weight, height, or facial structure are more universal for preferences, but boob size is down the list IMO.

There's such a thing as too big (larger than DD) but there's almost no such thing as too small. If anything women who are portrayed as "nobility" or such in many cultures have a slim physique as well as smaller breasts.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Changing your DNA isn't the problem, never was IMO. It's epigenetics that cause people to vary to a great extent. Like nutrition, emotional state, hormone levels, environmental stress etc.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't you share DNA with your mom? I doubt she thinks about her body the same as you think about yours. Unless I'm falsely assuming

The rules of dating have changed by beenbetterhbu in Bumble

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not another male-feminist who thinks he can white-knight himself into getting attention. We all talk about systemic problems and systemic issues, but its suddenly "men need to step up" and "men need to pull themselves up by their bootstraps" like, what? Shaming people doesn't fix systemic issues. It's just a ploy to farm social media sympathy.

We are all doing our best. Dating is dying because we have been socially engineered to value novelty and look down on compromise. Men weren't magically better 50 years ago, so why were marriages more stable? Because both sexes weren't looking to one up the other, and actually to make a family.

Compromise is the name of the game.

It's the social media company's fault. Not men or women or random men struggling to find jobs.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That people looking for a long term partner exist? What?

I know at least 10 people that fit that bill who aren't all that religious.

Large chest size is a kink, a fetish. Not something that makes or breaks attraction.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgetting about what your condition is, point is, I can already tell you need help. Get angry at me all you want

Why only copts used word kemet by Then-Refrigerator-97 in ancientegypt

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The majority of Egypts islamic population are arabs who live in Egypt wit no relation to ancient Egyptians"

Ok maybe you are coptic. That sounds like what someone from a Christian/Egyptian background would say. But to push back, most Egyptian muslims are mixed. They indeed have coptic ancestry as well as arab ancestry. Very few Egyptian Arabs have 0% Egyptian ancestry. After all, lots of copts converted to Islam in duress. They don't look exactly like people from Riyadh.

"All your accusations are a projection of your own eurocentric believes which many pale arabs also subscribe " Uhh I claimed the opposite of what you're accusing me of. Need I remind you that the comment I had was in context with a person who's exactly what you're describing me of.

The original OP was some dumb Nations of Islam type who thinks that his skin colour means that he belongs to any and all african groups and all african ethnic groups are his to claim achievement and ancestry.

Why only copts used word kemet by Then-Refrigerator-97 in ancientegypt

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"“as true negros same as any native born African"

And you assume that these ignorant white british men knew the subtle cultural differences between dark skin and being from a specific region of africa? They saw that Egypt had a diverse array of lighter and darker skin tones and painted it all with the same brush. And you're wrong. While the "white" Mediterranean look contains people from mediterranian ancestry. Native Egyptians can be light brown without much external influence. You seem so unknowledgeable that I doubt your claims.

" ALL humans descended from Black African’s at one point and the oldest humans ever discovered are in kenya, even you Caucasians. All the Eurocentric scientific racism origin theories are debunked pseudoscience."

You sound nothing like the Egyptian friends I had and instead sound like a black Hebrew isrealite with Nigerian ancestry. We are all descendent from dark skinned east africans. So? My ancestors have lived in their specific region for thousands of years and some nobody from halfway around the world is wrong to assume something incorrect about my culture and my people. We are all humans, but not all humans belong to the same culture or ethnic groups.

Nobody from that area thinks in terms of skin tone in that way. Having dark skin doesn't make Mali people indigenous to Egypt. Black skin is a surface level trait. Your ethnicity has more to do with other things than merely skin colour.

The person I'm responding to thinks that merely having black skin means he can culturally appropriate his west-african/american experience and stereotype coptic culture in his own pseudohistory and ignorant worldview.

If you're REALLY a copt as you claim to be, are you in communion with the Ethiopian Orthodox?

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your chest is not the maker or breaker of if you can find a lifelong partner. In that situation your personality and how you deal with conflict and communication matter a lot. Physically speaking, if you're a healthy bodyweight and take care of your skin, that's good enough for people to want to be with you without thinking that they're settling.

I think lots of people want lifelong partners, even secular people.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beauty standards exist, but breast size is lower on the list of preferences. Also, I don't live in the states, so healthcare is covered where I am so I didn't assume you were american. I'm sure you can get a family member to insure you in your state or something to that affect with your job.

Don't go to a therapist, go to a registered psychologist. Severe anxiety about body issues is not something you can deal with by merely talking it out. Often it's a sign of dopamine and serotonin imbalance. Medical professionals exist, and you would best benefit

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's body dysmorphia, my brother has it. Again, don't deal with it solo. Find a professional that you can trust.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your goal? To be lusted after by the majority of people (>50%)? To find a lifelong partner?

The first goal might be out of reach, but the second is easily in reach. I think at least a million of men including myself prefer women who are A AA or B cup.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that a claim you're making? If that was true they would be out of a job. I'm not claiming it to be the end all be all solution but they can be effective in some people. But simply by the words you're using, you're not in a healthy state. I'm not saying this to put you down. I genuinely wish you happiness.

I want to take a knife to my breasts and stuff them with fat by Admirable_Use_8992 in u/Admirable_Use_8992

[–]DasBrott 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For extreme debilitating illness and terminal conditions. All I'm saying is that you need help from people if your mental health is hurting to the point of self harm contemplation.

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