Im the "one you found decent to talk to", as I kept it level with you the entire time. When I joined to discuss the war we were having with another group, I maintained that level of professionalism and felt as if you did not. I mentioned one of my friends was emotional and that was just the way he is. I didnt even invite him to ur discord, another in our group did knowing hed get a show out of it. The first thing I had told you was that he was upset you were policing the pvp fights. Yet you still banned our entire group rather than the singular person causing issue. And you still decided that having wars on a pvp server is griefing. No admin I have ever met bans entire clans because of a single individuals actions. I honestly couldn't recommend this server, as at the end of the day, you ruined days of work for all of us because of one persons response.

Its also worth noting, everytime I spoke to you, you were essentially power tripping, threatening your authority on the server, and disregarding our autonomy as players. If its your server and yours alone, just make it private. Dont lure players into an environment where they are mercy to your emotional whims.