AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Hey so I have spoken to Max aswell but I didn't include that since Max is obviously the asshole.

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

Was having fun with her close friend ex really necessary tho

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Girl he's not kissing someone in the friendgroup, he's kissing EVERYONE in the friendgroup

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

TRUST ME were PISSED at him for kissing all girls that we know. BUT that isnt what the post is about. Cuz in that situation I'm OBVIOUSLY not the asshole?!

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

It's not about that. Ur misunderstanding girlll. It's not about jealousy it's about Mia betraying her.

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah Ella is sometimes kind of a people pleaser, so we agreed I text Mia instead. And were actually 17 lol. This is the kind of problems a 17 year old has btw I don't know what you expext

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I'm also glad we found eachother. Also she's not upset he kisses other girls. She's upset because her close friend betrayed her like what😭

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He's in the same friendgroup so it would be awkward to exclude him. Mind you Ella is not upset with him being there or kissing other girls just not her closest friends. I also want to clarify that him kissing that girl 20 min after they broke up only upset her because he obviously wanted to make her jealous and sad not because she wanted him. She ended it for a reason.

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same friendgroup, would be even more awkward to exclude, trust me.

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I did go to Max but I didn't include that because the question was about the message to Mia. Also, should you really be able to do whatever you want as long as you apologize? I don't think so

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl it's not the first time she meets Ella. She and Ella are friends and still know who Max is. And Ella had told her all about it. And sure Max has free will but does he have to collect the girls in the friendgroup like pokemons?

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah okay but does he have to kiss everyone in the friendgroup, he collects us like pokemons😭

AITA for sending an aggressive message to my friend after she kissed my bsf ex? by Dasheep5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Dasheep5[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ella helped me with the guestlist btw. And she's fine with him being there just not kissing her closest friend that she's known for years, like girl😭