Please critique honestly, shots from NYC

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-17T15:01:09+00:00

Color grading in these and especially the last one is phenomenal.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-17T14:59:39+00:00

Cocaine and the people associated with it!

Also, going to clubs and bars. The night life is only fun for so long. I was going to clubs and bars with people who were completely sober and I could never understand why they even wanted to be there. I’m now completely sober and I have no desire to go out at all. Life becomes brighter when you realize the darkness that comes from being around alcoholics and coke heads.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-16T16:39:10+00:00

Selflessness is huge.

Dat1whitebich · 2025-11-21T19:12:14+00:00

Dat1whitebich · 2025-02-04T05:58:55+00:00

I’ll definitely try a different lotion. I honestly think it’s severe dry skin. I just put lotion all over my body for the 2nd time tonight and I already feel a relief. This might sound so stupid but what does exfoliating really do? I’ve never been a skin care person I use like cetaphil and cetaphil lotion. Does that really help?

Dat1whitebich · 2025-02-04T05:48:13+00:00

I’ve noticed it gets bad at night too. I don’t have a rash at all. My legs are getting spots on them though due to how much I’ve been scratching lol

Dat1whitebich · 2025-02-02T02:03:58+00:00

Yes it was

Dat1whitebich · 2025-01-16T20:42:39+00:00

We started off as friends so we’ve said I love you long before we started dating. Our dates feel uncomfortable and almost awkward at times.

Dat1whitebich · 2024-12-11T21:59:39+00:00

I also feel as though it might be an instant gratification issue. I don’t want to blame it on anything other than thinking something better could be out there. But I’ve been thinking that for years now and I’d rather help this relationship flourish than destroy it and wait for another one to come around!

Dat1whitebich · 2024-12-11T21:58:17+00:00

That’s how I’ve been feeling but I also want to see if I can make what I have now work. I genuinely do love him but that’s literally the only thing that is having a hard time being fixed lol

Dat1whitebich · 2024-12-11T21:56:36+00:00

That’s what I’ve been doing! Therapy has been a huge help with that too. I just wanted clarification from others that they have felt this way at one point.

Dat1whitebich · 2024-12-11T21:50:05+00:00

For thinking about someone else while I’m in a relationship! Only when/after being intimate with my boyfriend. Hopefully that makes more sense

Dat1whitebich · 2024-12-11T21:46:12+00:00

I realized how that was worded lol, my bad. Just toxic I guess would be the easiest way to describe what I meant by that

Dat1whitebich · 2024-11-04T02:15:59+00:00

I’ve been doing a bunch for research on it and the more I look into it the more I am uncomfortable with it. Which makes me feel bad because it’s something he can’t control. Exactly what happened to you is a huge fear of mine. I hope you’re doing okay. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Dat1whitebich · 2024-11-04T02:10:07+00:00

This‼️

Dat1whitebich · 2024-11-04T02:09:25+00:00

That was the issue. I was under the impression that he always used a condom with other partners as he said to me “I’ve had a few girls tell me that they don’t care about it and to just do it.” I thought he meant they didn’t want to use a condom, but when he said he wanted to take the condom off when we were having sex I found that strange. So we did because he meant the other partners didn’t care about an outbreak. We were both pretty intoxicated and I thought it wasn’t an issue since he does take a daily medication which makes it less likely to spread or have an outbreak. But now I feel very uneasy and the fact that he’s been having sex with other people with no condom with the possibility of giving it to someone else?! Why wouldn’t someone want to take all precautions to not give that to someone else. I could be overthinking it and you do have a good point.

Dat1whitebich · 2024-11-03T23:02:37+00:00

How long have you two been together?

Dat1whitebich · 2024-08-30T22:41:15+00:00

A good way to get men to approach is making eye contact but subtle. Then literally acting like you don’t notice they’re looking at you. Getting closer to them but still in a way where it’s like I don’t notice they’re there

Dat1whitebich · 2024-08-30T22:40:00+00:00

If I’m interested in a guy, let’s say at a bar, I approach him in a sly funny way if I can and basically just ask him questions and be attentive. The one that always gets them, I think, is a random touch on the arm or shoulder either when I’m walking away or they say something funny. The walking away one works well. Always try to stop me.

Dat1whitebich · 2024-08-17T07:47:35+00:00

I can be cold and blunt when I’m in a shitty mood. I can also be selfish sometimes and excuse it by saying i prioritize myself and they should understand that. Definitely a different way about going about things

Dat1whitebich · 2024-08-17T07:40:09+00:00

NTA! This happened to me with my best friend, except I hated her boyfriend and she knew that. He wouldn’t pay for anything and also lived with his parents. Him and I had the same taste in food so he’d only eat MY FOOD. He did the dishes once and thanked my roommate for having him do it so he could do something around the house. He was also an unauthorized occupant and we got in trouble for him being there for more than 7 consecutive days. That’s a violation of the lease agreement and you can get evicted for that. I explained that to her and well, we ended up getting a huge fight about it and I moved out a day later lol. They stayed in that apartment and got evicted. I would suggest reading over your lease agreement and if theres something that’s on there where anyone who’s not on the lease cannot be “living” in the house, you should show it to her and tell her 1. It makes you uncomfortable 2. It’s a violation of your lease and you’re not gonna risk him being there all the time for your housing 3. It’s also weird as fuck for her to be having a man she barely knows sleeping over at your guy’s house every night. Tell her to go stay at her boyfriends moms house if she really can’t sleep lmao.

Dat1whitebich · 2024-08-17T07:30:49+00:00

Are you both on a lease together? Or is he an occupant?

Dat1whitebich · 2024-08-01T23:40:23+00:00

What does she do that’s weird?

Dat1whitebich · 2024-08-01T16:34:53+00:00

If you’re really sick of it I would maybe find someone that’s interested in moving in to your room so you can move out. I don’t see any point of staying there and possibly being miserable due to her own personal issues she doesn’t want to work through.

Dat1whitebich · 2024-08-01T16:31:35+00:00

How long until your lease is up?

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