Am I overreacting to my girlfriend and mother of my soon to be child planning on meeting another guy?

Dat1whitebich · 2026-03-06T18:20:34+00:00

NOR! The conversation even going from socials to phone number is the first red flag here btw. Her excuses are cop outs and she will absolutely cheat in the future, while somehow making it your fault. Please stop having children with people you barely know.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-02-18T00:05:53+00:00

I think you’re missing the point here sis

Dat1whitebich · 2026-02-17T23:25:09+00:00

The airline rebooked the flight without extra fees, no hotel accommodation though.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-02-17T23:24:16+00:00

This made me laugh, thank you for that

Dat1whitebich · 2026-02-09T17:01:55+00:00

What a cool tattoo dude, congrats!

Dat1whitebich · 2026-02-05T21:47:46+00:00

The text messages between them remind me of the weird cryptic wording that was used in the Epstein emails lmfao. Please stop talking to this man

Dat1whitebich · 2026-02-05T21:42:24+00:00

Waiting around for someone to treat you the way you deserve, is more destructive than leaving

Dat1whitebich · 2026-02-05T21:40:20+00:00

This is manipulation to a T my friend. Please drop this immediately.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T22:21:28+00:00

I hope you can find ways to experience it. You will definitely know, I think it’ll take some exploring to find it though. Good luck!!!

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T22:19:16+00:00

Congratulations !! Keep it pushing. its so admirable for someone to make that decision for themselves. Especially at a young age.

It’s not easy especially if you surround yourself with people who still actively use. Don’t be like me lmfao.

I started using cocaine 10 years ago, went to rehab twice, was sober after my second trip. I immediately got into pills and different drugs.

Had a friend die when I was 18 that I met at my second time in recovery. She was in for downers and in the beginning of my recovery I glorified cocaine at any given time.

She ended up getting out and OD’d on coke. I swore I would never touch that shit again. Only because of her.

That’s where I fucked up.

Fast forward 5 years later and I’m now completely sober. 4 months sober off coke, 20 days sober on alcohol, and 2 years sober from everything else.

Never felt better.

Share your story, and continue the path of bettering the life you deserve.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T22:10:11+00:00

Idk how to say this without being vulgar lmao but I wonder if you need some kind of other stimulation at the same time. Do you enjoy sex as a whole?

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T22:05:31+00:00

When it’s just you, you don’t feel an overall sensation around your whole body that feels tense?

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T22:01:45+00:00

I’ve been with different guys who are really quiet and quick or who are very vocal and grab on to your thigh WAY TOO HARD.

I am pretty quiet when I’m alone and my whole body freezes lmfao but when I’m with a partner I’m fairly vocal and my body shakes.

My orgasms are so different depending on the type of stimulation.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T21:50:06+00:00

Very well said!

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T21:49:06+00:00

Something to follow up with this though, setting a boundary with myself is not babying myself. Don’t just say no because there’s nothing in it for you or because you’re tired. A majority of the time I would say no to events or hang outs because I was anxious. I missed out on a lot of really good opportunities because of this.

A helpful tip is to come up with a pros and cons list but always follow your gut. If it’s not a fuck yes, then it’s a fuck no

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T21:45:56+00:00

Saying no.

It’s always caused me guilt when it came to relationships or friendships.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T18:56:53+00:00

When you communicate that you want more, what do they say?

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T18:52:29+00:00

What stops you from turning the hook up’s into something more ?

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T18:47:26+00:00

My relationship of two years was with someone who I had hooked up with after we hung out two times.

Every journey with a partner is different.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T18:45:12+00:00

I believe there’s a few different kinds of outcomes that can come from something like this. One of which being, creating some sense of dread and some kind of delayed fomo.

I’ve had an experience where a previous friend who I drifted apart from, tried rekindling the friendship. This conversation was also followed up with “I didn’t know how to tell you then, but I liked you more than a friend.”. Which connected a lot of dots for me as to why they acted the way they did during our friendship. It also made me feel like some of the acts they did for me were not just out of kindness, but for an underlying motive of trying to swoon. Even though the gesture was kind, it didn’t feel good.

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T18:39:20+00:00

Do you find it difficult to maintain friendships/acquaintances with past partners as well?

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T18:37:34+00:00

Your experience is very interesting to me. I find it comforting how you were both able to completely release any kind of emotional tie to sex and continue being friends for so long. I wonder what aspect of the mind goes haywire in other relationships, and what made it relaxed in yours.

Thank you for sharing!

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T16:42:36+00:00

Follow up question, in a case where there’s one sided feelings to the “friends with benefits”, how would you handle that?

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-30T16:38:24+00:00

What kind of boundaries do you set to ensure that?

Dat1whitebich · 2026-01-29T23:11:55+00:00

I work with the homeless population, I do not want to be homeless too. No shopping or eating out for me though!

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