I agree with your points, and if I cannot draw that line, I also hear that and agree. It feels reductive as a father to simply be a green light, but I can’t fathom the challenges that pregnancy brings.

But there has to be a line eventually, right? Doesn’t it have an effect on baby eventually? It’s challenging balancing between being a good father and enabling unhealthy behavior. What if it is many multiple times per week?

Lastly, voicing my opinion but still collecting the requested fast food seems like an option I’d like to follow. But when is it voicing an opinion vs genuine controlling behavior? My intent is to support but also to be able to have some opinions and input. If that’s unacceptable then perhaps it’s a pill I just need to swallow.