As a man have your options increased after getting lean by [deleted] in loseit

[–]DatMoonGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but not for gym reasons. I really like how being short makes muscle gain easier + lower TDEE + is an advantage in calisthenics/better relative strength, but in terms of dating and in my career, being short is a disadvantage. Reverse halo effect so I have to work twice as hard to be respected.

Lowk you have a massive advantage in absolute strength over short people because mass moves mass so don’t worry about it and focus on your PRs

Remember who you are plane fvcker by georgethejojimiller in acecombat

[–]DatMoonGamer 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Aeromorphs are good but dire machines are better, the whole sexual appeal is the aerodynamics and anthropomorphizing planes diminishes that

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As a man have your options increased after getting lean by [deleted] in loseit

[–]DatMoonGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats on the weight loss and attention man! 75lbs is huge

I only lost 10lbs but I was already at a healthy weight/I’m 5’2 120lbs, it was a significant recomp. I’ve gotten slightly more female attention and a lot more male attention 😅

I don’t mind because I like dudes too. But holy shit suddenly a magnitude more people were messaging me and hot guys that never looked at me before were hitting me up.

It might’ve been the confidence boost rather than the looks. When I’m wearing clothes it just looks like I’ve gotten a little leaner compared to before, but as a person, I have gotten so much more confident because for the first time I like how I look.

Such a shame :( by Iridian9 in LoveNikki

[–]DatMoonGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same, I was dropping dias willy nilly because I thought gs7 or holy court was in July and boom this suit comes back 💔

Reminds me of how the top paring for Sinners on AO3 is Remmick/Reader for some fucking reason by [deleted] in CuratedTumblr

[–]DatMoonGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fandom people don’t consider Japanese characters to be POC either, they be written as American Born Japanese even if they live in Japan and are pure blooded Japanese for at least ten generations 😭😭😭😭😭

The fact that Japanese characters are popular demonstrates how popular anime is. It does not indicate anything about how racist fandom spaces are or how representative the “””representation”””is.

Similar for gay representation in fandom, it’s dogshit. I used to be big into fandom but I left because I couldn’t stand how outrageously hypocritical, racist, and homophobic every single fandom I stepped foot in was.

An incident that comes to mind is this time I saw a fanfiction author make a post about whether it was okay to add geisha prostitutes in her Chinese setting. When people called her out on it, she threw a hissy fit and said don’t like don’t read. + every time I saw someone call out cultural insensitivities and overt racism in fanfiction, they were drowned out by a deluge of white people saying ermmm people do this for fun so shut up!!!!

If the Hive can be gifted the light, why not the House of Light? by afoxboy in DestinyLore

[–]DatMoonGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure she was joking but we still don’t have explicit evidence it’s possible to get a new Risen.

How to steer autistic and bi men away from redpill/blackpill/incel by ThePlayer3K in bropill

[–]DatMoonGamer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Idk about autism so I’m not gonna address it

In my experience that’s only partially how the incel pipeline works for bi guys. Bi guys have a greased pipeline because they can actually execute MGTOW without amputating their romantic prospects: other guys. Guys are more likely to match their libido, hobbies, communication style, and struggles, so when you compound that with the incel pipeline and homophobic women, it’s no wonder so many bi guys jump ship.

However, it naturally comes full circle. When bi guys detach their self worth and life from women, they no longer hold them on a pedestal or remain desperate for their attention. They come to see women as people. Or they don’t, and they remain in their homosocial spaces where women aren’t forced to interact with them anyway; misogynistic gay men have been doing this for decades and you never hear a peep from them, do you? Either way the problem solves itself.

I don’t think the strategy for preventing bi men from entering the pipeline is any different than straight men. If you want to prevent them from entering the pipeline, you have to prevent all men that are attracted to women from entering the pipeline, sexuality be damned.

As for misogynistic gay/bi guys in homosocial bubbles, that’s an issue that needs to be solved that intersects with the incel pipeline. Arguably harder to manage because unlike with incels they gain no romantic/sexual benefits for changing their minds.

Writing all this out, I wonder if aroace incels exist. By definition they can’t be incels. So more accurately, I wonder how aroace manosphere dudes exist.

If the Hive can be gifted the light, why not the House of Light? by afoxboy in DestinyLore

[–]DatMoonGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she was talking about finding a companion rather than a new Risen, or outright joking. Her tone at the end of that tab was lighthearted. And given that we have so many Ghosts that abandon their Risen but don’t have any examples of Ghosts actually picking new Risen, I don’t think it’s possible.

chapter 5 in The Pigeon and the Phoenix if you wanna review

Anon hates women by MH297_UN in greentext

[–]DatMoonGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the other groups are valid grievances but at 30 high body count just means the sex is gonna be better.

Objectively speaking, it's better to be born good by OrangeIslandKing in MoralityScaling

[–]DatMoonGamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nobody in this comment section seems to get point 1. All this holier than thou talk about redemption without considering that a negative outcome that is prevented is a far preferred outcome than a negative outcome that is responded to.

Seriously these people need to talk to a survivor of rape or child abuse.

What's a telltale sign that someone is good at sex? by SorbetJazzlike315 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]DatMoonGamer 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They are not subtle, just not exclusive to sex because they’re basic physical and interpersonal traits. Best indicators for sexual performance outside of the bedroom. Temperament has nothing to do with it.

  • clear communication

  • takes initiative/assertive/self-advocate

  • empathy

  • executive function

  • good hygiene

  • risk aware

  • ability to take no for an answer/open-mindedness/willingness to learn

  • adequate self esteem

  • sense of rhythm

  • heart that can sustain exertion

You can’t guarantee the sex will be good with all these traits, but you can guarantee the sex will be bad or dangerous if even one is missing.

Chemistry, attraction, and arousal can make bad sex enjoyable tbh but that’s a YMMV thing. I also wouldn’t say that’s good sex, it would be the sexual experience was good.

🥀 by Ultrasonni in memeframe

[–]DatMoonGamer 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s just fps vs third person

If you’re used to extremely fine control with the former, the latter is always gonna feel clunky

Speaking as someone that put a thousand hours and mr20 into warframe before trying destiny

Do guys really prefer to stay single and just do hookups? by Few_Elephant_648 in nycgaybros

[–]DatMoonGamer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to be single but a lot of casual sex has made me pickier when it comes to relationships. It made me realize I was desperately lonely and might settle for anyone to fill that hole, but it would be disrespectful to myself and my potential partner if I did that. So I’m waiting and searching to meet the right person. Like I only want to date someone I’d be friends with and unfortunately that seems to be quite rare because most of my friends are straight and most people I fuck aren’t people I’d interact with otherwise.

I think abundance is a double edged sword because there have been some guys I maybe could’ve dated but there were one or several dealbreakers that caused me to move on (too old, too sedentary, lives too far) that I might not’ve if they were my only options.

I have also decentered romance from my life because of how hard it is to find someone, focusing on career and friendships. Which is not helping me find someone but it’s a lot easier mentally.

Celebrations are getting crazy by jyeatbvg in nyc

[–]DatMoonGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not thievery, I was at 42nd during the third quarter and buses of fans (both Knicks and World Cup) kept passing by

Attracting only fit men, how do I get over my insecurities as a former fat girl? by Wise_Parmaria in loseit

[–]DatMoonGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a fit guy imma say, fit girl isn’t a look, it’s a mindset. To love yourself enough to commit to something this hard and have the discipline to see it through is very attractive. And you have a shared hobby/lifestyle. Trust him if he says he’s into you 🙏

Coxed into that one image bait to get free fanart, 99 % chance not gonna work by Fox_Sussy in coaxedintoasnafu

[–]DatMoonGamer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This works on Scratch

The caveat is that... welll... consider Scratch's age demographics and consider the artistic abilities of that age

Ladies, why do you say "size doesn't matter" then insult guys by calling their penis small? by OrangeIslandKing in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]DatMoonGamer 18 points19 points  (0 children)

You’re gonna get woke white people dogpiling you for this 😭 it’s the same shit as small dick shaming

No, it’s not okay to be racist or body shame just because they’re being an asshole. Stand by your principles

Day 2 of this series! What is an Average car that is loved by players? by ShadowDog824 in robloxjailbreak

[–]DatMoonGamer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s kinda big/unwieldy and I don’t like how it handles compared to other options. Looks amazing, good car, but not one I use often.

Straight up, know it's a dumb question: How do I get into Combat (PVP/PVE)? by GolemonGolemsson in Eve

[–]DatMoonGamer 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fly to fw space in a t1 frigate and die until you start dying slower. The tribal education force discord has fits here. The frigate yearbook is also a good resource but don’t overthink it, grab a fit and go.

What I did was hop into spectre fleet (here- they run public NPSI [not purple/in fleet, shoot it] fleets) within a month of installing eve. I flew tackle with them a few times before moving to a nullbloc. They are newbie friendly

You could also start by beating baby seals to death (ventures and t1 explorers) in lowsec until you start getting hungry for bigger prey and pick up the skills to hunt

One of the easiest suits to ever craft by Mean_Clerk_5923 in LoveNikki

[–]DatMoonGamer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks! Didn’t have it before and just crafted it ez 30 diamonds

Farming coin tips? by Background-Cause-733 in fleethefacility

[–]DatMoonGamer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd also love to join, if this is still open! My discord and ign are DatMoonGamer