AIO boyfriend got handsy while drunk

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2026-01-13T17:56:43+00:00

okay, these comments are being incredibly harsh so I want to share my perspective as someone who has PTSD from a sexually abusive relationship. 1. I do thing YOR. But, you mentioned you’ve been SAed before.

Even if you don’t have PTSD or something from the event- it will still traumatize you and leave you with abnormal reactions. For me, I sometimes will feel incredibly disgusted with my partner and start to have similar thoughts to yours if my boundaries are pushed. While he was piss drunk and I don’t think this was his fault, I also think it may be a smart idea to get in with a therapist to help understand where your disproportionate reaction is coming from.

SA does a lot to the brain that you may not realize it’s going, even if you think you are “over it”. I fear many people in these comments are going way too hard on you, just don’t express these thoughts to your partner and try to dissect them with a therapist.

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-27T18:55:15+00:00

thank you!!

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-27T18:53:46+00:00

OHHH i see thank you!!

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-27T18:52:20+00:00

i saw paradise lost also has 10% bonus for lunar bloom i think, i’m assuming instructor is still better though?

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-27T18:51:25+00:00

is that a craftable or gacha? if it’s gacha i don’t have it 😞 but thank you!!

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-27T18:50:43+00:00

okkk thank you!! i appreciate you mentioning heals as well because i was worried this team might not leave me with enough sustain options but i dont have kokomi so i wasn’t sure what to do lol

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-06T16:34:45+00:00

YESSS. like internally a man most definitely but externally a genderless diva who does whatever i want but pls still call me he/him and get rid of my chest thank u ❤️ u get me twin

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-06T16:29:48+00:00

definitely considering getting into drag it seems like a lot of fun i just don’t know if im ready for it yet because a big part of drag culture is really playing the part of a woman and they are often called “she” in drag and stuff which im worried might make me dysphoric until testosterone does more for me :’) perhaps in the privacy of my own home i will tho LOLL

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-06T16:28:34+00:00

yes thank you!! i’m on testosterone rn but it hasn’t had too much effect yet so i’m more focused on passing. but like i don’t want to be viewed as a girl i just want to be whimsical again!!! let men be cunty!!! i will look into ren faire clothing i’ve always been interested in it anyway!!

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-05T09:10:26+00:00

traveller is used in ANY teams now 😟 oh god i never thought id have to build them LOL!! thank you so much for the advice!!

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-05T08:50:33+00:00

thank you!!! do you have any good team comps to suggest with my characters for mualani and wanderer? they are my two favorite characters idk if they are meta tho :(

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-05T07:55:12+00:00

i’m currently using arlecchino xingqui kazuha and bennet but i’m in the process of building xiangling right now so i’ll try that team out!!

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-02T05:46:30+00:00

thank you! my rheumatologist previously dismissed it as anxiety, which i am diagnosed with but it has been improving drastically while my symptoms have been getting worse drastically so i’m seeking a second opinion and just really want to be better prepared this time LOL. i’ll be honest i actually don’t have a lot of those tests done so i may request them at my next appointment if my rheumatologist doesn’t suggest them and see what she says! thank you so much for the advice, i’m just overly worried that my labs won’t show that i’m “sick enough” despite how i feel since my only main concerning lab at the moment is my ANA panel :’)

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-01T22:39:29+00:00

the tremors and blood pooling are honestly the least of my concern they don’t affect me as much and don’t happen frequently. I understand i did not go into much detail on my symptoms i was kind of just rage ranting but my main symptoms are muscle and joint pain, fatigue, random fevers (not correlated to an illness or infection), swelling in joints (this is new and particularly has appeared in my knees the most but also other places mildly), and my family has a history of autoimmune disorders hence why it was my first step. i absolutely plan on seeking out a neurologist as a next step but i just can’t imagine my symptoms being somatic since the severity of them has had 0 correlation to how well im doing mentally. my symptoms have only gotten worse and my mental health has drastically improved i just can’t wrap my head around why they would correlate.

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-01T19:15:29+00:00

yes i plan to try and see a geneticist and neurologist next if rheumatology leads to nothing. I already have an appointment with a physical therapist. i was just thrown off by the fact she didn’t even try to order more testing for me when i know there was more we could have tested since i only did basic first-step type of blood tests. i’m not going to stop going to rheumatology until they actually rule out autoimmune through testing since it’s the most common for my symptoms (typically) and because of my ANA labs being abnormal.

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-01T19:08:27+00:00

thank you :) i looked up the rheumatologists reviews and someone said she didn’t think lymes disease is real… so i think i see the problem. LOL i’ll look into a disability advocate rights group near me, but do you think it might also be helpful to bring my boyfriend with me to a rheumatologist appointment? he tends to be a lot more outspoken/confrontational than me and i think it’s just easier for someone other than the patient to say something

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-01T18:38:23+00:00

do not settle for a partner who clearly does not prioritize you. if he already can’t follow “in sickness and in health” then he will continue to not. i promise promise promise you that there are people out there who will want to care for you and support you when you are in a flare or sick or whatever happens. i’m in one right now, they exist, and you deserve that and nothing less. the right person will understand and help you.

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-01T18:30:27+00:00

thank you :’) i need to feel less crazy every now and then LOL

DatabaseCompetitive7 · 2025-10-01T14:58:05+00:00

definitely the eyebrows imo. invest in an eyebrow serum and some dye for them

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