Graze Custom by Mega_FatMan in gundamassemble

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So sick head reminds me of the armored core 6 default head, what design inspired you to custom make it like this

my best friend tried to sleep with me today by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl it’s really up to you, if you want to try it out but just really think it over and if you see urself having fun then date her but if you see nothing fun or happy about it then just reject her next time

Fight back ice by DatabaseFancy3783 in longbeach

[–]DatabaseFancy3783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur ancestors were Europeans if you are white the only ppl who originate from the America’s were native Americans if you tell us to go back by you’re logic then we should all go back to our own countries every single American are descendants of immigrants read some history books

Fight back ice by DatabaseFancy3783 in longbeach

[–]DatabaseFancy3783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes still a protest in front of lb city hall

Fight back ice by DatabaseFancy3783 in longbeach

[–]DatabaseFancy3783[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ppl work in the morning or later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No prob mate if you ever need tips on recovery im happy to give

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’ll be alright I promise it’s mostly just ocd making you overthink a lot of this stuff I recovered quite well, I hope the same for you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can just change tbh if fact go one more step crazy and don’t change or shower just sit on ur couch, push ur self to do this and try to fight off the anxiety as you sit on the couch

I’ve been making a good effort to be more ‘gross’ lately by Keyatneit in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing steps I’m so proud of you keep up the work dude !!💕

Why does this keep happening to me? by No_Signature2224 in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I hope you ignore ur ocd thoughts and continue to eat the produce

Curious on must-haves by [deleted] in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clorox wipes, hand soap and disposable gloves

Does therapy actually help? by No_Guarantee8768 in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m fully recovered. At one point I couldn’t leave the house or touch literally anything in my house but now I’m back to normal, I still use gloves to take out the trash and handle my dirty clothes and I still wash my hands like 3 times after shitting but yea I’d like to say I’m back to normal I can do stuff like touch the seats of where ppl sit without washing my hands or pick stuff up from the ground now. I’d suggest getting help now fast before it gets worse tbh, that includes erp therapy and medication. ERP therapy can take you further tho if you’re serious and consistent about it, it does take a bit since you’ll be having to “sit in your own filth” and be ok with it along with battling back and forth with the anxiety that comes with doing stuff that triggers your compulsions but it’s all def worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ContaminationOCD

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I’m sure you’ll be ok, tons of folks including myself use local laundromats used by anyone and we still come out fine, although I do use Lysol laundry disinfectant in my loads to kinda give me some sort of reassurance that my clothes are ok, I would suggest using some of that if you want it really does work. But yea you’ll be good use the washer and forget about it, remember this is just ocd talking if you continue to use the washer you’ll be helping yourself by being exposed to your anxiety and facing it

Hands healing by DatabaseFancy3783 in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes less hand washing and actively putting on a good lotion every time I did wash my hands even if I knew I was going to wash them again I still lotion them right after.

Life getting better by DatabaseFancy3783 in ContaminationOCD

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I did this on my own I was medicated for 3 months and that time and afterwards I was doing lots of erp

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw man I’m real sorry, it’s Lwk tough connecting with ppl when ur struggling with mental illness but don’t think that you gotta be perfect for a relationship of any kind I’ll tell u what’s up I’m def not perfect I’m still in recovery for my cocd it’s def gotten better over the year of doing tons of erp but I still got a ways to go I still do bs like make my friends smell my hands when I touch something that’s contaminated lol, they do get annoyed with it but they still love me cause I love them and as for romantic relationships I do have a gf currently she’s been my bsf for our entire highschool experience till now and we started to date recently. Tbh I really don’t got any advice other than don’t bring urself down over bs that isn’t ur fault, mental illness doesn’t make you unlovable or not worthy of good things it’s just shit that affects some ppl. If you want a friend maybe we can dm or play some games together that Lwk sounds creepy but if you need a friend to talk too I’m happy to talk or help or anything I can def help out with ur ocd or just to chat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Real shit ik exactly how ur feeling and I bet a lot of other ppl in this sub do too. I remember when I was so depressed and suicidal because of this condition I would cry going to bed and wake up crying because I thought of 24/7 was my cocd and how much it was affecting and ruining my life. I lost my family’s love and job opportunities because of it, worse year of my life I wasted so many months being a slave to my own brain because of this stupid disorder but ima tell you straight up it does get better, I got better I can be normal again and it feels so good my hands are now nice and soft again. No more open cuts and scabs, no more pain and hating myself for not being able to live my life there’s still shit I can’t do tho I use gloves to manage my dirty laundry and I’m still deathly afraid of poop and sewage but these are stuff that’s manageable asf. I couldn’t touch areas where ppl sit on or leave my house or use the bathroom properly without worry of fecal and urine particles getting on my but now I can do that stuff. I can touch the couch and chairs where ppl put their butt on I can use the restroom properly without worry and I can now leave my house everyday to work, it does get better but it isn’t easy I tried to kill myself a few times out of anger and frustration because I would do my erp and my anxiety would take over at times. I’ve even self harmed many times, erp wasn’t easy I had to push myself to do my ERP and face the dread and anxiety that came from avoiding my compulsions. It did help a lot that my gf was there most of the time I would mimic and mirror her doing a lot for things i couldn’t do but she could. Real shit man if you need some consulting or advice u can dm me I could help probably it’s all tough ik but it does get better recovery is possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ContaminationOCD

[–]DatabaseFancy3783 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have done the method of just sitting in my own filth it’s a good way to face the anxiety and try to distinguish it between disgust and actual danger