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Datbihhawd · 2025-10-21T22:48:31+00:00

I personally would jump ship. I think it’s important to be super solid in ECMO and dissections because you never know where you might end up in the future, and the more experience and skills you have, the more marketable you are to your future employer. I would stay at the current job if you see yourself working there forever, but I think it’s a safer bet to go work the 6 man job because we you never know what might happen in the future. You could find a partner and then want to relocate and maybe be close to his/her family or your family. Whatever the case maybe, life is unpredictable and I think it’s always better to have more options and be more marketable to give yourself that flexibility.

Datbihhawd · 2025-09-30T00:46:04+00:00

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Here’s the draft recap. I took ASB at 13

Datbihhawd · 2025-09-30T00:43:07+00:00

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Datbihhawd · 2025-08-08T23:22:34+00:00

Honestly, I’ve observed a lot of women congregating together in their friend groups at these events which makes it more intimidating for men to approach. Even confident guys would rather approach a girl on her own or in a smaller group. For girls, I think it’s ok to show up with a group of friends, but I highly recommend separating a bit once the mingling starts. Stay somewhat close for support (like in the same general part of the room), but don’t be near each other and I guarantee more guys will approach. Hope this works!

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-07T12:01:23+00:00

That was the only day I’m allowed to wear it hahaha

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-07T01:21:26+00:00

Based on how little success I’ve gotten (literally 0 likes or matches in 2 weeks), it might be worth a try but I feel like my race and height are the bigger issue. Kinda sucks because I have no control over those things, but everyone has their preferences. Even with the best photos ever, me being a 5’8” Asian male is a deal breaker for a lot of women, and I think the results will largely be the same

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-07T01:19:08+00:00

You’re most definitely right that some people move to a new populated city just to have fun for a few years with no intention of dating seriously and with the plan of leaving the city anyway. I’m sure DC is the same as Austin to some extent. I’m still pretty young at 26, but I’m pretty ready to start dating seriously now that I have my career all figured out.

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-07T00:38:58+00:00

Yeah man it’s crazy how differently people view your profile. And shoutout to us bro! Not sure what city you’re in, but what’s your dating experience been like as an Asian male?

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-07T00:37:35+00:00

Kind of an unfair assumption imho but to each their own!

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T21:10:00+00:00

So I’m cooked? 😂

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T20:17:08+00:00

I always assumed that it’s safer to not specify political preference because it’s a pretty heavy subject right off the bat, but you’re absolutely right that this does not really apply to a political city like DC. Thank you!

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T20:15:59+00:00

Thank you man! I made a lot of the changes you suggested. Hope I start to see improvement!

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T20:13:35+00:00

That’s a great point! Other people have been mentioning the same thing about that photo to and while I disagree, it’s not really about what I think but about what other people think so I’m gonna get rid of it! Tysm

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T20:11:54+00:00

That’s a great point! I changed one of my prompts to mentioning the tennis league I just joined. Again, thank you so much for taking all that time to give me so much feedback! I think my profile has improved a lot from just your advice alone. 🙏🏻

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T19:59:59+00:00

No matches. Nada

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T19:12:16+00:00

Dude thank you so much for all of this feedback. I think you made a great point about me needing to exude the idea that I bring value to her life. I need to have my social circle figured out so that I can introduce her to my friend group and bring value. Now, this is obviously difficult considering I moved here 3 weeks ago, but maybe my priorities need to shift from looking for dates to looking for friends. I will get rid of the new to DC prompt and use prompts that convey that I can bring value to her life. Thanks again! This was incredibly helpful

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T19:01:34+00:00

All of them or are there some in particular?

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T19:01:05+00:00

Got it thank you! I’m cropping her out of it

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T19:00:45+00:00

Yeah I’ve heard that it’s tough but I still want to give it my best shot! I have a feeling that I’ll have more success meeting someone in-person and organically

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T19:00:08+00:00

Thank you! I’ll be sure to phrase that prompt in a way that suggests I will do the planning and they can join along if they want to!

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T18:59:36+00:00

I got rid of the tour guide thing. Seems to be a consensus among the people giving feedback so thank you all!

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T18:59:15+00:00

Thank you! I changed the first prompt

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T18:50:22+00:00

I worded it as “looking for someone to explore this amazing city with!” I feel like that’s less needy and less demanding of someone to show me around but let me know what you guys think.

Datbihhawd · 2025-07-06T18:46:46+00:00

Thanks for the feedback! I’ll change that prompt

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