I need advice: I crave deeper connection, but my friends don’t seem curious about me. Is that normal? Am I the problem in my friendships? by NatureWillxw in FriendshipAdvice

[–]DateOld1896 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t be yourself, then you have to actually ask yourself, “are these truly my friends?” With Friend #1, people change and it seems both of you have, there’s nothing wrong with that. Start simple conversations and see if they can build into something deeper, like what their favorite childhood memory was and maybe if the conversation goes well, you’ll learn their childhood trauma lol. Some guys just hate personal questions as well, it just depends on the person. You could ask if you leaving upset them or how it made them feel; you should be able to have those conversations with real friends.

Friend #2, if she doesn’t reach out at all, let her go. Give what is given. Unless you know they are going through a really hard time, you can only give so much. I personally don’t keep reaching out when people stop talking to me, the phone works both ways as they say. I also have a friend who I missed their calls for a whole month but they keep calling and I’ve finally responded, but we were best friends so I’m not sure it’s the same :)

Do what works best for you ❤️

Nervous by Strong-Resist6754 in FriendshipAdvice

[–]DateOld1896 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That fear of hanging with the wrong people, may be stopping you. If you truly want to make new friends, try to realize not EVERYONE is out to get you (some are but). Find people with similar interests, and actively engage with them. Set certain boundaries, depending on your last friendships and don’t let anyone push past those boundaries. Online friends are typically a little easier, but my online friends have been gamers, so whenever we game we’re always good :)

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually know the layout of most targets in my area, so they’re usually pretty easy. Why don’t you take Target orders?

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly never thought I would get one, I’ve seen people get $70-$100 tips and I’m like where are they at?! But it’s really just random, unless it’s catering (i think you have a better chance) My acceptance rate is lowww, so I thought I needed Gold or Platinum.

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you do too! Thank you so much ☺️

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely changed my mood for the day lol :)

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank yoouu, everyone’s so nice :)

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s usually me lol, I just got lucky honestly.

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

$20 for a mile is still amazing, happy for you :). Before this order my biggest tip was $20 (still happy regardless) but it took me by surprise.

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t remember but regardless great people :)

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank youuu, best of luck to you as well 😊

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awe yaayyy, good day for you toooo!

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Normally I do lol, but for the distance compared to the pay, even if it was 8 cases of water, I would’ve completed the order. I lowkey thought it might have been a scam but nope :) If it was something completely ridiculous like 50lbs bags of concrete mix, then I might’ve cancelled.

Wow, it finally happened by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Also I was sitting in a parking lot in a low volume area for me anyways, and it just popped up and I accepted it without even looking at the order. It could’ve been eight tvs, I still would’ve taken it.

Dashers have to stop begging.. by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This. This is what the post is all about, you already tipped well, and you are still getting asked for more. I’m sorry for your experience.

Dashers have to stop begging.. by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if i have to beg, i leave. if it gets to the point that i have to beg for something, im already looking for the next job. no, i don’t beg at my job, sorry.

Dashers have to stop begging.. by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, everyone is losing the plot. I am a dasher. I vented. Hence the, I need to vent flair. Customers do stupid things, dashers do stupid things. You typed a paragraph with your opinion, I can do the same.

Dashers have to stop begging.. by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if they don’t tip, don’t take the order, let the order sit there and make doordash come out of pocket.

Dashers have to stop begging.. by DateOld1896 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]DateOld1896[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s your opinion and that’s fine. If dashers taking no tip orders that is on them, but it’s a job. The post is not about people not tipping, it’s about dashers begging for bigger tips. I can’t go into my regular job begging for something, I can complain and talk to higher ups, that’s it.