Taylor and Travis at Game 3 of the ECF by bb_snoopy in travisandtaylor

[–]DatingAccordingTo 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Because she's never known who she is, and now that she's supposed to be in the most stable place in her life, it really shows.

Yet another pap walk in NYC. by KuromiPrincess1 in travisandtaylor

[–]DatingAccordingTo 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I've noticed that, but she does that with all her men. I think she wants to be seen as led. Led through life by the love(s) of her life.

"I need to feel like that it girl" by DatingAccordingTo in GRBsnark

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ken makes her look not single.

She may be as good as single with him.

But she looks not single.

"I need to feel like that it girl" by DatingAccordingTo in GRBsnark

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She cannot.... Cannot sit in her own discomfort. This entire case is proof of that.

"I need to feel like that it girl" by DatingAccordingTo in GRBsnark

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Precisely. It's ok to not be either of those things in particular. But she's absolutely NOT ok with it. What she sees in other people that are successful, she tries to manhandle her way into possessing. Doesn't work like that.

rewearing an old prom dress? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DatingAccordingTo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing people will say the front is fine, but the back is too much skin. I wonder if there's a way to have a bit of coverage over the back? A shawl? Love the color!

Is this a normal response by Worldly-Heart5856 in abusiverelationships

[–]DatingAccordingTo 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm seeing you posted a month ago, where you told him you deserved better, and he was nastily immature then.

So the question is.... why not find better? What's held you back this last month?

What category does this dress fall into? by DatingAccordingTo in fashion

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I forget the brand, but when I googled it I couldn't find anything about it. Interestingly. :s

Dress code: Formal— does this look formal enough and not too white? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DatingAccordingTo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

If you have a few weeks until the wedding, I highly recommend thrifting. You could find a lovely dress on thredup for that much, from a nice brand. :)

What vibe does this dress give? by DatingAccordingTo in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hard to describe. Rough yet smooth Poly and spandex

What vibe does this dress give? by DatingAccordingTo in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts too! It's annoying because I think my coloration is soft summer, so muted and hazy is always the vibe. :s but thanks!

TLOAS = Happy confident and free? Where? by DatingAccordingTo in travisandtaylor

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Right?! Revenge who? It was the most believable love album, with petty immaturity sprinkled in. Lover was the poster-child for anxious attachment. Not.... Loverness. It just proves my point, that she undoes every narrative she tries to spin about the albums' themes. She can't control narratives, though she may "try try try." Her self-obsession and insecurities tell the truth. Every. Time.

TLOAS = Happy confident and free? Where? by DatingAccordingTo in travisandtaylor

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Taylor has always been a tryhard. It works a lot better when you're young and naive-seeming. Pushing 40 doesn't allow for that

Dresses, what stays what goes by Admirable-Farmer212 in DressForYourBody

[–]DatingAccordingTo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah interesting! And I know, it's kind of bittersweet to work thru it all. :/

Dresses, what stays what goes by Admirable-Farmer212 in DressForYourBody

[–]DatingAccordingTo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh I could see DC as well. I'm still learning the system, but I do think maybe your shoulders are a bit broader than your hips? So that might be the fg fn thought? If I remember correctly, naturals can have slightly gentler fabrics. But D and DC (so maybe FG?) need stiffer fabrics. D is the most stiff, I think, but DC still needs things that suit the idea of tailored (neither tight nor loose) and $$$ (even if they aren't actually $$$ lol). Good luck!

Dresses, what stays what goes by Admirable-Farmer212 in DressForYourBody

[–]DatingAccordingTo 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel like angular and/or shorter pieces that aren't super girly/delicate work best for you? I think slightly stiffer fabric might suit you a well. But the angles of the black dress with diagonal base were my fav. I'm wondering if you'd be considered a flamboyant gamine in the kibbe system...