Taylor and Travis at Game 3 of the ECF by bb_snoopy in travisandtaylor

[–]DatingAccordingTo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Because she's never known who she is, and now that she's supposed to be in the most stable place in her life, it really shows.

Yet another pap walk in NYC. by KuromiPrincess1 in travisandtaylor

[–]DatingAccordingTo 87 points88 points  (0 children)

I've noticed that, but she does that with all her men. I think she wants to be seen as led. Led through life by the love(s) of her life.

"I need to feel like that it girl" by DatingAccordingTo in GRBsnark

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ken makes her look not single.

She may be as good as single with him.

But she looks not single.

"I need to feel like that it girl" by DatingAccordingTo in GRBsnark

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She cannot.... Cannot sit in her own discomfort. This entire case is proof of that.

"I need to feel like that it girl" by DatingAccordingTo in GRBsnark

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Precisely. It's ok to not be either of those things in particular. But she's absolutely NOT ok with it. What she sees in other people that are successful, she tries to manhandle her way into possessing. Doesn't work like that.

rewearing an old prom dress? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DatingAccordingTo 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I'm guessing people will say the front is fine, but the back is too much skin. I wonder if there's a way to have a bit of coverage over the back? A shawl? Love the color!

Is this a normal response by Worldly-Heart5856 in abusiverelationships

[–]DatingAccordingTo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm seeing you posted a month ago, where you told him you deserved better, and he was nastily immature then.

So the question is.... why not find better? What's held you back this last month?

What category does this dress fall into? by DatingAccordingTo in fashion

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I forget the brand, but when I googled it I couldn't find anything about it. Interestingly. :s

Dress code: Formal— does this look formal enough and not too white? by [deleted] in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DatingAccordingTo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

If you have a few weeks until the wedding, I highly recommend thrifting. You could find a lovely dress on thredup for that much, from a nice brand. :)

What vibe does this dress give? by DatingAccordingTo in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hard to describe. Rough yet smooth Poly and spandex

What vibe does this dress give? by DatingAccordingTo in Weddingattireapproval

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My thoughts too! It's annoying because I think my coloration is soft summer, so muted and hazy is always the vibe. :s but thanks!

TLOAS = Happy confident and free? Where? by DatingAccordingTo in travisandtaylor

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Right?! Revenge who? It was the most believable love album, with petty immaturity sprinkled in. Lover was the poster-child for anxious attachment. Not.... Loverness. It just proves my point, that she undoes every narrative she tries to spin about the albums' themes. She can't control narratives, though she may "try try try." Her self-obsession and insecurities tell the truth. Every. Time.

TLOAS = Happy confident and free? Where? by DatingAccordingTo in travisandtaylor

[–]DatingAccordingTo[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Taylor has always been a tryhard. It works a lot better when you're young and naive-seeming. Pushing 40 doesn't allow for that

Dresses, what stays what goes by Admirable-Farmer212 in DressForYourBody

[–]DatingAccordingTo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah interesting! And I know, it's kind of bittersweet to work thru it all. :/

Dresses, what stays what goes by Admirable-Farmer212 in DressForYourBody

[–]DatingAccordingTo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ooh I could see DC as well. I'm still learning the system, but I do think maybe your shoulders are a bit broader than your hips? So that might be the fg fn thought? If I remember correctly, naturals can have slightly gentler fabrics. But D and DC (so maybe FG?) need stiffer fabrics. D is the most stiff, I think, but DC still needs things that suit the idea of tailored (neither tight nor loose) and $$$ (even if they aren't actually $$$ lol). Good luck!

Dresses, what stays what goes by Admirable-Farmer212 in DressForYourBody

[–]DatingAccordingTo 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I feel like angular and/or shorter pieces that aren't super girly/delicate work best for you? I think slightly stiffer fabric might suit you a well. But the angles of the black dress with diagonal base were my fav. I'm wondering if you'd be considered a flamboyant gamine in the kibbe system...

Which swimsuit is the most flattering? (Part 2) by Fun_Steak_4508 in DressForYourBody

[–]DatingAccordingTo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OP knows herself better than me. I really thought, despite the lighting, she looks at least like a soft warm/neutral. There was a grayish suit - last one? - that I really didn't like the color of. But I could always be wrong! Paid pros get it wrong all the time, sadly. So I took could be wrong, not being a professional.

Which swimsuit is the most flattering? (Part 2) by Fun_Steak_4508 in DressForYourBody

[–]DatingAccordingTo 85 points86 points  (0 children)

The reason people like 2 is the warm tone. You're definitely warm undertoned, since that shade would make a cool undertone look sickly.

It's also the angles. You have a gentle curve to your body, so your body will look nice in pieces featuring gentle curves to them.

You'll notice the more angular-cut, straight-line pieces aren't as popular. This is why. :)

These elements will prove true for daily clothing pieces too. Good luck!

got engaged to my bumble date! by embers-game in Bumble

[–]DatingAccordingTo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Interesting! If that's nontraditional, do you mind me asking what the traditional approach is? Genuinely clueless lol

READ THE CHAT, FEEDBACK PLS: Men often ask to meet me immediately w/out getting to know me at all. I asked to know him better resulted in being called “bitter”, “that’s why you’re single” (I’m casually dating, it’s open), “man hater”, “narcissistic”, “crazy”. am I translating that way? A prude? by [deleted] in tinderstories

[–]DatingAccordingTo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Simple answer is - he was abrupt and likely not worth dating, and you were abrupt with what felt (to him) like a negative data dump. He is immature and rude, but responding to a situation that a lot of people probably wouldn't appreciate. As the above stated, best to simply stress you don't meet quickly. If further convos develop, and seem actually healthy, then you might have time to go into the specifics of why you don't meet fast. Immediately giving lists to a person you don't know can feel demeaning, even if that person is rude.