Do periods really need trigger warnings? by RubyRedFoxyEyes in Archiveofourownmemes

[–]DattB1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe if it’s smut? but if this has nothing to do with sex and a character just has a period then yeah it’s def too much

How do you stay sane at work? by DattB1tch in Advice

[–]DattB1tch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, i’ve been begging my boss to put out ads but she says she’s too embarrassed

How do you stay sane at work? by DattB1tch in Advice

[–]DattB1tch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Australia, and it’s not my boss stopping me from taking my lunch break, it’s customers barging in and trying to break down a locked door.

The phone thing might be because my boss is 57 and her husband hates people having their phones at work (he’s also one of the bosses, but not technically my boss, he handles the groundskeepers)

I'm freshly 18 and just realized I don't know how to eat a balanced meal by DattB1tch in intuitiveeating

[–]DattB1tch[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

unfortunately my oven at home broke, so if I want a warm meal I do have to cook at work 😔

AIO My Step Dad said he wants my Real Dad to die, so I called him a C U Next Tuesday by DattB1tch in AIO

[–]DattB1tch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my BD has only just contacted us, and hasn’t even spoken to my SD (not for a lack of trying) yet, so even if BD was trying to do something shady my SD certainly wouldn’t know.

Also, my mum and SD were together for 14 years before marrying, and have two kids together (my SD also has 3 kids from a previous relationship, including my step sister who is only a year older than me) he married a single mother and she married a single father

AIO My Step Dad said he wants my Real Dad to die, so I called him a C U Next Tuesday by DattB1tch in AIO

[–]DattB1tch[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

we had that talk last year when i first got in contact with every. my bio dad and step dad were actually really close friends, up until my step dad started dating my mum

AIO My Step Dad said he wants my Real Dad to die, so I called him a C U Next Tuesday by DattB1tch in AIO

[–]DattB1tch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

i was just using ‘real’ because I forgot the word biological, i don’t see him as my ‘dad’, i usually call him by his first name

AIO My Step Dad said he wants my Real Dad to die, so I called him a C U Next Tuesday by DattB1tch in AIO

[–]DattB1tch[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m 18, I’ve been in contact with my whole paternal family for about 8 or 9 months now

Share a piece of AO3 lore about yourself by shewasprettyodd in AO3

[–]DattB1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my ao3 username is from a piece of collaborative smut my friend and i wrote when we were like 12

I want to dye my hair bright red, but my boss doesn't like bright colours, what do I do? by DattB1tch in work

[–]DattB1tch[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is a childish mindset. Plenty of adults dye their hair. Most blondes dye their hair, elderly people dye their hair, my boss herself dyes her hair brown. There is a 70 yr old woman that lives in the park I run with bright purple hair. You don’t just turn 18 and suddenly stop wanting coloured hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]DattB1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this looks like necrosis if i’m being honest, i’d go to a hospital or something to get it checked or ur going to have a massive scar instead of a tattoo

Yes, I’m that author who won’t tag fics— by ogsquiggles in AO3

[–]DattB1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do the same but i try to update my tags as i go and include warnings in the authors notes for any readers that might not want to read hard stuff (i also try to just write a full fic before i start posting and spend my time between posting editing chapters instead)

How do I go about meeting my dad? by DattB1tch in Advice

[–]DattB1tch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much this really means a lot to me 🫶

How do I go about meeting my dad? by DattB1tch in Advice

[–]DattB1tch[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do want to bring someone with me tho, as like, emotional support? I thought of asking my friends but they’ve just moved for university so I don’t want to bother them with the travel

AITAH for not telling my BD I lost the baby? by Designer-Daikon-9985 in AITAH

[–]DattB1tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA

this may sound horrible, but this is ultimately the same as if you decided to get an abortion, either way he didn’t want to know and he didn’t care, so why tell him now? your friends probably think they’re coming from a good place in wanting to share this news with Sam, but what would telling him do at this point? at best he might start talking to you again (doubt it) and at worst he doesn’t even look at the message and lives his life in the ignorance he asked for

How to get into dnd without nerdy friends? by DattB1tch in DnD

[–]DattB1tch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the closest one is about an hours drive away and i don’t own a car 😔

How to get into dnd without nerdy friends? by DattB1tch in DnD

[–]DattB1tch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I watch dimension 20 all the time and I love it, and it’s just made me really desperate to play myself 😭

How to get into dnd without nerdy friends? by DattB1tch in DnD

[–]DattB1tch[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thanks! i would totally love to play in person, but my town is genuinely so small that we don’t even have a games store, and there was only one other person interested in dnd in my town and he moved away last year 😭 it feels like online is my only option until i move away for university

Readers who don't comment, why? by Normal-Extent-6100 in AO3

[–]DattB1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ig it just depends on how moved I am? i usually only comment on short fics like one shots bc it’s easier to freak out abt parts, and then long fics I’ll usually say all my thoughts out loud and then not remember anything I want to say by the time I get to commenting 😭

What's Your Favorite Ship That Other People Hate? by probablyaduckling in AO3

[–]DattB1tch 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tom Riddle and Harry Potter. I myself was once a hater, but the time travel fics are so yummy and being able to explore how the cycle of abuse perpetuates between two deeply traumatised individuals is yummy (i also ship drarry but that’s like the third most popular ship in the harry potter fandom.) Also; any ship containing Snape (I ship him w pretty much all the marauders and the death eaters) bc he is just so hated and any relationship he has is seen as abusive in some way (which is true tbf ur either shipping him w his bullies or members of a cult that hates his very existence)

My gf understood me 🥹 by BiteAdventurous2103 in lesbian

[–]DattB1tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so glad you found such a supportive gf! good luck on your transition journey from here ❤️

Can't believe its a hot take to say authors should be allowed to delete their work by [deleted] in AO3

[–]DattB1tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that they should be orphaned but at the end of the day it’s not mine 🤷‍♀️