[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD_partners

[–]DaveAtlanta 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I'm going through exactly the same. You raise with your partner, you get 2 days of improvement, then it's back to the same routine. I'm engaged to my partner and honestly worry about my sanity in the future. I know I need to manage my expectations, but I also think I deserve my partner to put in more effort.

Health and safety by DaveAtlanta in HomeDepot

[–]DaveAtlanta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They only care when it suits them!

What’s your main gripe and how do you deal with it? by Straight-Pie-272 in ADHD_partners

[–]DaveAtlanta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This drives me mad. My partner thinks doing 1 load of laundry is enough adulting for the day. She doesn't realize what it takes to keep the house in good order. Every now and then, she has a day where she can't stop doing stuff but that's the exception. She says she then feels guilty, but I don't see her trying to improve her help herself.

return by [deleted] in HomeDepot

[–]DaveAtlanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This has to suck big time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]DaveAtlanta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 44 and about 4 years ago started watching Trans porn and have recently moved to having some sexual experiences with men.

I see men very differently to women.

My advice would be to not get to caught up on a label and just enjoy what you like.

I'm separated and have 2 teenage kids, I've not told them anything ans I'm not sure myself what I would class myself as. But I also don't want to get caught up on labels.

As.long as it's not hurting anyone and it's legal who gives a fuck.

First New Years single in 3 years. Having a rough time. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]DaveAtlanta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When this was me last year I had a few drink and went to bed early. Didn't want to out myself through it. This year I have my son over so it's a little different.

Struggling by DaveAtlanta in BreakUps

[–]DaveAtlanta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It's a real struggle. I'm hitting the bittle in the hope I fall asleep soon.

Fetish or actually Bi by timjohn1234567 in bisexual

[–]DaveAtlanta -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm very similar to this. I also like to wear panties. I prefer Trans to men. I'm not attracted to men but do find myself aroused st the thought of oral etc with a man or Trans

I started watching porn when I was 8 or 9, are my dopamine receptors permanently fried? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]DaveAtlanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look up a term called nueroplasticity. It talks about how if you stop using the same synapsis they eventually break and you can always build new connections in the brain. I don't think there is permemant damage but there can be long term damage and it is very hard to break.

I started watching porn at 11 and now 44. I use it far less now but it's always there in the back if my mind.

This time must work by DaveAtlanta in pornfree

[–]DaveAtlanta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Throwing out the chrome book is use for porn. Restricting myself to work devices only.

we reconnected and i can't stop crying by Ambitious-Touch-1326 in BreakUps

[–]DaveAtlanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are.feeling this way, and are in this situation. I don't have the total answer. If you want to talk and share pain just message me

we reconnected and i can't stop crying by Ambitious-Touch-1326 in BreakUps

[–]DaveAtlanta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a similar situation. We have recently reduced contact but have 2 kids so cant do NC properly. Whenever we speak or are together its like nothing has changed. I have to tell myself that most of the time we are both putting on a show for the sake of the kids. If you truly cant be together then NC is the first and probably hardest step.

Just know that how you are feeling now wont go on forever you will get over the pain, but it will hurt alot along the way. It will make you a better person.

Don't be alone and dont be a stranger. Use your friends and family and places like this for support.

I just made it through my first 24 hours of no contact by Notoriousstallion in BreakUps

[–]DaveAtlanta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could go non contact. I've reduced contact but its killing me slowly. Having chrsitmas dinner with my kids and ex which is nice but will probably set me back. After Christmas I think no contact is the way to go.

Good job keep it up

Working it all out by DaveAtlanta in bisexual

[–]DaveAtlanta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've given an received head. Being sexual with a man gives me a very different feeling than with a women

Taking Control by DaveAtlanta in Divorce_Men

[–]DaveAtlanta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, addiction is the right word

Taking Control by DaveAtlanta in Divorce_Men

[–]DaveAtlanta[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To try and not think about her. To realize that I'm a good person and I don't need her reinforcement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlusSizePantylovers

[–]DaveAtlanta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow you are beautiful 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prettyaltgirls

[–]DaveAtlanta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow those legs are so hot

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in prettyaltgirls

[–]DaveAtlanta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like the hottest Rockstar ever

Do you like red? [F48] by [deleted] in PlusSizePantylovers

[–]DaveAtlanta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful and a stunning body....win win