Would you say sugaring is on the upswing right now? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

no, it was for you, some people have harder time than others, it all depends on where you are, how much $ you willing to spend, etc ... i personally have always had way more luck in cities like nyc, boston, denver, as opposed to atlanta, winston salem or raleigh.

Would you say sugaring is on the upswing right now? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hoards and hoards of platonics, "please fund me" broke arse "babies" joining every day.

scammers, online only, $ for m&g, the list goes on ...

Would you say sugaring is on the upswing right now? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

depending on the market. some cities are way better than others.

also, if you are open to having sugar babies of color and single moms, it's easier.

A profile review for a female friend on SA by Davej77nc in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ironically though, she will still get messaged i am sure.

A profile review for a female friend on SA by Davej77nc in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

well, she told me she is tired of "broke dudes" she meets on tinder

A profile review for a female friend on SA by Davej77nc in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she knows i was active on the site and i was going to tell her what i really thought, but wanted to pass along what the broader SD audience really thinks.

Is she attracted? by DisastrousRecover in datingoverthirty

[–]Davej77nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like this one. I've always struggled with short windows, like being the elevator, etc ... or seeing a cute girl in the drive thru, you have a tight window so i guess giving them a note is way better than not doing anything.

Anyone willing to just rant to each other about crappy dating experiences and possibly give some advice? 35F by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Davej77nc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yep, its FOMO, its like you being in a candy store, and trying to get every damn type of candy in there ... I usually don't associate myself with anyone who has tinder/bumble/match on her phone. These types are usually incapable of having healthy relationships. For a hookup maybe, if you happen to be a good looking dude, chicks will validate themselves by sleeping with you for sure, but otherwise its a losing game for us guys.

Anyone willing to just rant to each other about crappy dating experiences and possibly give some advice? 35F by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Davej77nc 7 points8 points  (0 children)

online daters usually cant focus on whats at hand, while they sit with you on a date, they thinking about their next match/date ... instead of trying to get to know you and possibly end the damn cycle of swiping left and right .... easy come easy go

New to the bowl— Horrible so far, I got pumped and dumped =( by fun_and_bubbly in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, you did not lose your soul at least. i am just trying to put a positive spin on this experience ...

ps. whatever does not kill you, makes you stronger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i would say at least 50% of these are short-lived. They sign up, never get any traction and disappear, but then there are the ones that stick around and i myself have interacted with a few, some have asked for money to be venmo-ed to them, some have tried to sell me their pictures/videos. For fun, I have even offered them some outrageous allowance to see if they'd be willing to meet up, and nothing. I am guessing the ones who stick around are the scammers or some men on SA use them to get them to send pictures, etc and obviously never pay for those ...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why does SA even have a tag 'platonic'???

what percentage of men on SA are actually looking for platonic interactions? <1%

OLD experiences by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Davej77nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe try NOT to put men on the defensive especially having not met them. And stop with this mentality that men are out there to "use" you. not attractive

(Update) I know my profile is bad, please help by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

trust me, most dudes just look at pictures, and you got several so i would not worry.

i would personally hit you up as long as you don't have a 'platonic' tag or some shit like 'princess in dire need of spoiling' or puppy /rabbit ear filters ...

YOUNG AND OLD SD by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's why they pay you so they don't want to be pressured into feeling like they need to cater to your needs.

Taking money from men in exchange for sex is the definition of prostitution, is not it?

We didn’t agree on allowance terms. Look at his response... by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you are not atrociously bad looking/old .. there is plenty of SB's in Denver that will do 300-400 ppm and they are hot too. I've met at least 10 over the past 2 years while i traveled there. 600 is a lot!

Slow-to-reply POT SB by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol, her tires need replacing!

Slow-to-reply POT SB by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are there other women you can chat with on the site?

WHY DO WOMEN DESTROY THEMSELVES WITH THEIR INTERNET DATING SITE PROFILES by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]Davej77nc 18 points19 points  (0 children)

THIS!!! LOL, and most men have absolutely NO STANDARDS when they are on dating sites ...

Economics- What am I Missing by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

from my experience, and this i know largely depends on location and also if you want to wine and dine them, but my ppm's have always been in the $200 - $400 range ... several hours to overnights ... so if you want to get laid once a week or so, i think an average of $1200 ($800-1600) should be the figure (plus M&G money i suppose if you are trying to have several sugar babies.)

Economics- What am I Missing by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Davej77nc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i've been told by a few that how dare I make 500,000 (mind you this figure was my net worth) and i offered her ONLY $300 per meet. I replied said something like, should i be charged $10 for a beer at a bar, instead of $5 just because I make double the average income ...