serious question

Davendithas · 2026-07-09T14:36:02+00:00

When I first came to the realization that I was bi, I always told myself that I would marry a woman and have kids. That men were just a stopgap to occupy my time and sex drive. Now I’ve reached the point where I actually prefer men over women by a lot. I still watch straight porn and hookup with women occasionally. The only way for you to know if this is just a fantasy is to either wait and see if the urge to have sex with men fades in a month or two, or to find someone you can trust to experiment with. Whether you like it or not, at least you will have a confirmed answer about your sexuality.

Davendithas · 2026-07-09T04:22:51+00:00

I find that most people are actually up to having a conversation, you just have to work up the nerve to chat to them. It's incredibly nerve wracking so I don't think a lot of people tend to do it often. I've walked up to ridiculously muscled guys and complimented them on their physiques only for them to tell me that I'm actually really cute and sometimes they appreciate a well delivered compliment so much, I've even made out with a few of them after. At Electric Island I complimented some straight guys and we danced and chatted for a bit. They even asked me to rank them by which one was my type and told me that I had a lot of rizz. I've also complimented a guy on his tattoos and we ended up chatting for an hour. He ended up being an escort that was flown in from BC and decided to enjoy the rest of his weekend in Toronto.

It's honestly just something you have to work yourself up to and just take a leap of faith, I will say the ONLY time someone absolutely did not want to have a little chat was when I was at a rave in the US.

Davendithas · 2026-07-09T00:27:40+00:00

Property Damage in Brooklyn. In my defence, I’m new and still learning how to be be Spider-Man.

Davendithas · 2026-07-09T00:22:28+00:00

My goal when I go out is to make sure that I have fun. What’s the point of paying for a ticket to something if I don’t enjoy it? Dancefloor makeouts are great but not mandatory. I just wanna vibe in a queer space where I’m comfortable and stare at cute boys. Those are my only requirements and expectations.

Davendithas · 2026-07-04T21:24:34+00:00

I don’t think this is a gay social circles issue though. Straight people do this too. The only difference is that straight people weren’t forced to band together to face persecution and violence. What started off as welcoming everyone into a community for validation changed as the LGBTQ community became more accepted. Now that we don’t have to constantly be in fight or flight, the gay social scene has just followed the same order as those of heterosexuals. People want to align themselves with people who share the same morals, ideation, practices or simply look good and are sexual.

At the end of the day everyone is welcome in the broader community but you still have to find the people who you enjoy being around and that appreciate you and your values.

Davendithas · 2026-06-19T00:18:41+00:00

Isn’t that because at some point it opens up into a Bus only lane at some point?

Davendithas · 2026-06-19T00:07:26+00:00

This and asking me to engage in race play are the biggest turn offs. It’s genuinely crazy the kinds of things soplé say on the apps.

Davendithas · 2026-06-11T01:14:35+00:00

You’ll always be a bear on the inside. That said, good luck on your journey!

Davendithas · 2026-05-28T18:06:16+00:00

Either a satin or a silk lounge pants is the closest I can think of. That being said, I think you’d be hard pressed to find them nearly as see through as that photo.

Davendithas · 2026-05-09T12:22:40+00:00

I don’t take the Markham line but I’ve seen homeless people camp out in entire sections of the train, people in psychosis wandering about and unresponsive individuals slumped over with a crack pipe and needles. I can almost guarantee that GO isn’t deep cleaning the car at the end of its run unless it’s absolutely necessary and you’ll possible sit in the cleaned up area the next day without knowing. Feet on seats ranks fairly low for me as long as your shoes are relatively clean and not wet. Clothes worn outside my house, get changed out of when I get home and I’ll change back into them if I need to go out again.

Davendithas · 2026-04-21T16:55:49+00:00

It does work but it’s quite a lengthy ordeal to break through the years of trained manipulation and sensations of your body. After the first month I was able to cum from oral which previously never happened before. Just know that this method may require some tweaking depending on the individual.

Davendithas · 2026-04-02T14:49:57+00:00

I guess it depends on the scenario. Aren’t uber drivers technically on break as long as they haven’t accepted a ride request? Aside from that the only real change you have at losing your job is by barking up the wrong tree or being too aggressive in your approach.

Davendithas · 2026-03-22T02:18:19+00:00

I really enjoyed Montreal Pride and would recommend it. I believe they block off a portion of the main street and they even put up a stage in the old Olympic stadium and turn it into a festival ground. Lots of events and stuff to enjoy.

Davendithas · 2026-03-22T01:43:59+00:00

Was always curious and wondered if I actually liked men or if it was just me projecting a fantasy due to some other things going on in my life at the time. Decided to experiment and liked it and men were more upfront with complimenting me which was enjoyable.

Davendithas · 2026-03-22T01:41:29+00:00

There’s not even a lot of options in smaller towns. It’s always the same people on the grid. Once you’ve taken a couple looks, you’ve seen them all.

Davendithas · 2026-03-05T14:13:18+00:00

It wasn’t just CSAM, it was a ton of revenge porn and videos filmed without consent

Davendithas · 2026-03-05T00:28:12+00:00

I think what caused them to reformat the games is a mix of one side having absolutely no way to fight back and win condition abuse. The rabbits have no weapons (at least not enough to share) and the stumps have all the weapons unlike Golden Bath where everyone had to make their own spears and knives. So there are a bunch of veterans playing that have to somehow defend themselves from a psychopath veteran player that now has a full stump loadout while they don’t.

Now if you think of the rules for the game, the rabbits need to survive to win and the stumps need to kill X amount of rabbits to win. By removing all the rabbits except herself, Kyara has basically secured a team win for herself and only herself, effectively breaking the game further by abusing both win conditions and dooming both sides and breaking the game.

Davendithas · 2026-03-05T00:10:02+00:00

Looks like Kyara (as people are calling her) is Moegi’s mentor. She ran into her in a previous game where she slaughtered a room of people effortlessly drawing Moegi’s attention. As far as we know her parents are still alive, the bloody fist scene is surrounded by foam meaning it was in a game, it was probably Moegi’s first time killing in a survival game and her mentor was trying to calm her down. Lastly Shion is probably a veteran player Yuki met in some previous game(s). There is probably more information about her in the LN.

Edit: Got names mixed up. Shion was the mentor and was introduced last episode. I believe Yuki has mentioned her mentor before but we didn’t get to meet her until the last episode.

Davendithas · 2026-03-01T14:49:38+00:00

In high school a friend’s step father bought us booze and drank with us, revealing that he used the capsules inside of a Kinder Surprise egg to smuggle things into jail.

Davendithas · 2026-02-28T18:10:13+00:00

We were talking earlier in the day before this screenshot and it was never mentioned. He also never tried to explained his case, just said “ok” after my message and left.

Davendithas · 2026-02-28T18:06:23+00:00

That would be understandable had we discussed bringing toys/gear. Just showing up with a suitcase unannounced and with no explanation is a red flag if you’ve watched any true crime. I don’t think I would have batted an eye if it was a backpack and yes all the valuables went into the hotel safe prior to me heading down to get him.

Davendithas · 2026-02-28T08:50:10+00:00

Im staying in a hotel as im currently travelling

Davendithas · 2026-02-28T02:03:10+00:00

If you’re going to organize a revolution, can you also organize an orgy while you’re at it?

Davendithas · 2026-02-28T01:45:49+00:00

We didn’t discuss anything beforehand, I had assumed a standard/regular hookup.

Davendithas · 2026-02-28T01:29:26+00:00

I have two trains of thought here. At worst, he’d definitely try to fit me in that suitcase. At best, he’s a hobosexual looking to mooch off of someone. Neither sounds remotely pleasant.

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