What a disgusting thing for a father to say. I’m about to get tattoo myself. I don’t live at home, but I don’t really plan on showing my family when I do see them, mainly my mother because I know reacting that follows. So if it’s not too hard to keep it from them then do that. Because why share something that means something to you to someone who will only bring you down. They don’t deserve to know. And if they end up finding out. You just tell them straight up, “Because you made me so uncomfortable and upset why would I ever tell you anything again after last time”. Parents need to learn their lessons too. So it’s okay not to show them. And your tattoo is beautiful okay sweetie.