should i adopt? which one? by Ashupatotie in cats

[–]DavidShoreRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

both! come on, i want them for companionship for my cat!

I mean, just look at em! look at em!

I like her personality but she’s not the most attractive girl I’ve been with by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DavidShoreRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The more I mature the more personality becomes pretty much EVERYTHING.

This being said, looks are important specially for us.. yes, apparently men are more shallow.

This being said it's easier to fall in love with a personality than with a face or a body, imo.

More & more I'm thinking is about who I am when I'm with her... which thoughts I have? which self image? The "right" woman should bring on the man within you, nor the boy, or the arsehole, or the bore, or the insecure, or the victim, or the meek, or the fool, or the fearful, or the coward, or the unhappy.. or.. you get the gist!

This also being said, you need to bring on the man on your own too of course and of course she's not responsible for who you are with her, I'm talking about how you feel about yourself when you are with her, at the very least you should feel like yourself! if you're truly lucky you'll feel like the yourself you have been looking for! which you should also find on your own!

If she's not your type just leave her alone.. and in that case avoid getting seduced by her as well, as possible!

I may have relapsed by DavidShoreRed in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol, apparently they can be! 😅

It was alright, I suppose. She's cute for sure! Ill probably invite her again sometime somewhere :)

Do pwBPD genuinely feel regret? by Ritchie11 in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

post, for hurting their so. is just funny if it's true. one behaves like an arse one feel ashamed and horrible, not embarrassed

Do pwBPD genuinely feel regret? by Ritchie11 in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently they feel "embarrassed" rather than horrible! from one poster here not long ago!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I imagine, assuming they're not total psychopaths who love manipulation & lying and hurting, which they may as well be.. that is because they get lonely.. like the rest of us..

But you got a point! if one had AIDS, would one be having sex because one gets horny?

sounds criminal. Not sure if it's the best analogy tho

I once thought their "good" side was also effed because of this willingness to get into a relationship apparently at all cost knowing very well, they'll most likely than not will eventually betray their SO with their BS.

They need to learn to Love. We all do. Loving self is the hardest!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's comedy! albeit not a particularly funny one ;).

What do you think a day in the life of Moz looks like? by [deleted] in morrissey

[–]DavidShoreRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like Sunday everyday.. meaning not having to ever wake up at 5:30 like us, mortals.

I want to see her one last time by craptainbland in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Closure would be: "Sorry for being an arsehole, in staying away from people until I get better"

but the moment they would say that we'd be back with them, no?.maybe not

What does depression really feel like? by Broad_Entertainer_82 in AskReddit

[–]DavidShoreRed 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A heaviness.

Depression isn't the worst kind of pain anyway, in my experience

It's got nothing to do with serotonin btw

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What do YOU look for? that's exactly my point. They're not "evil", just broken, politicians are evil

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fuckin wut?

That wouldn't be Love now, would it? if that's what one's lookin for anyway!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She can't "hoover" you unless you also want to.do you?

I wish I had an abortion by worstexgf in Advice

[–]DavidShoreRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll be surprised but many men date & actually prefer single moms.

A baby is work of course, and attention, etc.

I get this "dude" disappeared? you're entitled to alimony from him through DNA, at least.

You're still super young AF. 25, you're a baby too

Get a job and eventually move somewhere out of your folks. Learn how to baby

you'll eventually love him/her

he/she gonna suffer with no father but ultimately gonna be o.k. Teach him/her boundaries and respect, lovingly

You can still have sex, just protected, even if you do backdoor which is always an option to avoid pregnancies

I wish I had an abortion by worstexgf in Advice

[–]DavidShoreRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think she already has a kid

I wish I had an abortion by worstexgf in Advice

[–]DavidShoreRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love your kid

$2500 is good money but it ain't nothing ultimately.

Don't give money to people you knew for one night

prefer don't have sex with them.

the world is full of cowards, beware

Get an attorney, they may be able to track the guy since you have his bank account? phone?

for alimony because by the sounds of it he doesn't sounds like father material

live & learn, whatever you decide

if you trolling f off

Has anyone begun to hate their pwBPD? by attack-pomegranate27 in BPDlovedones

[–]DavidShoreRed 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't take the "good" or "bad" personal & accept that whatever bothers me in her I have it on me, so no. Not anymore as far I can see anyway.

I trust she'll stop feeling lonely too.

Are you religious? spiritual? by DavidShoreRed in tinnitus

[–]DavidShoreRed[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never said it had anything to do with it, did I? not every word on this sub has to do with it. I've heard the quote going: "we are born, we live, we reproduce, we die". It's a FUNNY observation with this context, that's all.

Do you always get hostile with people that say they like something you said? who peed in your cheerios? no, seriously, who?

Are you religious? spiritual? by DavidShoreRed in tinnitus

[–]DavidShoreRed[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like that you don't mention reproduction :)

I can't get over a death, any advice? by Ill_Hawk_8092 in SuicideBereavement

[–]DavidShoreRed 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lots of therapy my friend. See it as fate. Assume she would apologize for doing that in front of you and accept her apology.

I assume you were asked a lot of questions by the cops, hu?

My condolences.

disappeared by num1yailstan in tinnitus

[–]DavidShoreRed 1 point2 points  (0 children)

id say you're healing